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Slayven · Mar 12, 2013

Leeness said:
So... I'm on POF again. I don't really know why. But it doesn't make me sad when guys stand me up now! Thicker skin, mostly just get annoyed.

But seriously, guys, most of you are men here.

So WHY does "Let's meet! This is where we are meeting! See you at 7!" from YOU, mean "lol I'm gonna stand her up, this is awesome"?

Seriously. I've had four "dates" and been stood up on all of them? Is it THAT horrifying to meet me?

I just don't get it. None of my friends deal with this.

I just don't understand what is so wrong with me. :/ I'm trying to get out there and just put myself out there and have fun and get to know people and get more comfortable.

I am worth getting to know. So why does no one want to?

I would never stand you up. I think you are pretty cool.

Ramirez · Mar 12, 2013

zlatko said:
It's REALLY strange guys would dip out on chicks, yet I could see it going the other way more likely.

Is it really that strange? I picture most guys on these sites probably being nervous/anxious as hell.

Devolution · Mar 12, 2013

Ramirez said:
Is it really that strange? I picture most guys on these sites probably being nervous/anxious as hell.

4 in a row is strange even for the opposite.

peteykirch · Mar 12, 2013

Devolution said:
4 in a row is strange even for the opposite.

I had a span where 8 out of my last 10 dates stood me up.

Ramirez · Mar 12, 2013

Devolution said:
4 in a row is strange even for the opposite.

Maybe they're intimidated by her looks. Who knows! Maybe the world was doing you a favor and all 4 were dbags.

zlatko · Mar 12, 2013

Ramirez said:
Is it really that strange? I picture most guys on these sites probably being nervous/anxious as hell.

Idk I figured most guys who get a girls attention they were chatting up would be anxious to finally meet her to see if she's as awesome in person, but to let nerves make you bail on someone seems counter productive to the reason you got on OKC altogether.

Either way their losses. GAF wants Lee bad. Too bad none of us live in Canadia.

Ramirez · Mar 12, 2013

Slayven said:
I would never stand you up. I think you are pretty cool.

Famous last words.

Timedog · Mar 12, 2013

I would never stand Slayven up while he wasn't standing Leeness up. I think he is pretty cool while he is in the act of thinking she is pretty cool.

Smiley90 · Mar 12, 2013

zlatko said:
Idk I figured most guys who get a girls attention they were chatting up would be anxious to finally meet her to see if she's as awesome in person, but to let nerves make you bail on someone seems counter productive to the reason you got on OKC altogether.

Either way their losses. GAF wants Lee bad. Too bad none of us live in Canadia.

Not true!

Ashodin · Mar 13, 2013

Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Glorified G · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Devolution · Mar 13, 2013

Oh here we go.

Pastry · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Receipts! (for the ring, and pictures as proof).

Emitan · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

you've known her for like 2 months

nimbus · Mar 13, 2013

yo this Ashodin cat is too much

Ramirez · Mar 13, 2013

Emitan said:
you've known her for like 2 months

Hah

Dr.Palutena · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

I'm trying to think of the right reaction to this, but I can't.

cubicle47b · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin always delivers.

Smiley90 · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Dr.Palutena said:
I'm trying to think of the right reaction to this, but I can't.

Ashodin noooooooooooooooo

Or, you know, laugh.

Emitan · Mar 13, 2013

So when is the baby due? Should be like 7 months from now, right?

Kilrogg · Mar 13, 2013

Surely this time he'll get perma'd if he doesn't deliver, right?

jasonng · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Devolution · Mar 13, 2013

Kilrogg said:
Surely this time he'll get perma'd if he doesn't deliver, right?

At this rate a baby will be delivered.

SquiddyCracker · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Congratulations!
I hope all goes well

GrayFoxPL · Mar 13, 2013

Devolution said:
At this rate a baby will be delivered.

jasonng · Mar 13, 2013

The ceremony better be streamed so Gaf can attend.

True Underdog · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

I knew there was a reason I came back to this thread.

Maddocks · Mar 13, 2013

you are getting married. Update over. No need to make a thread, ask for a tag or gif. Keep it in house this time.

Leeness · Mar 13, 2013

zlatko said:
Did you follow up with these douche canoes or did they follow up with you? I mean did you exchange cell #'s to text at all either?

I'd flat out be like, "yo wtf... I was there where were you?" Not in those exact words, but I'd want to know what happened. :/

It's REALLY strange guys would dip out on chicks, yet I could see it going the other way more likely.

Keep doing what you're doing. At some point something has got to give.

I did have their numbers and sent a "gee thanks, super cool of you" and left it at that and never heard back. Lol.

WHATEVER. I'm feeling kind of bitter today but in a good way. I am worth it and it's their loss!

Ramirez said:
Maybe the world was doing you a favor and all 4 were dbags.

Yep!

SquiddyCracker · Mar 13, 2013

Leeness said:
I did have their numbers and sent a "gee thanks, super cool of you" and left it at that and never heard back. Lol.

WHATEVER. I'm feeling kind of bitter today but in a good way. I am worth it and it's their loss!

Yep!

Always stay positive!
No matter what happens, it's all good if you consider it good.

WascallyWabbit · Mar 13, 2013

Leeness said:
I did have their numbers and sent a "gee thanks, super cool of you" and left it at that and never heard back. Lol.

WHATEVER. I'm feeling kind of bitter today but in a good way. I am worth it and it's their loss!

I agree with Squiddy. Stay positive.
One of the unforeseen consequences of doing this online dating thing is that my skin has gotten a lot thicker and let the little shit go. It's made me a happier and (i think) better person

SquiddyCracker · Mar 13, 2013

WascallyWabbit said:
I agree with Squiddy. Stay positive.
One of the unforeseen consequences of doing this online dating thing is that my skin has gotten a lot thicker and let the little shit go. It's made me a happier and (i think) better person

Precisely.
It's on them, not you.

Because you're awesome.
You're all awesome guys and gals :')
If Hesus was real, he'd be proud of ya'll.
Because I am, and I'm just a small person in a giant world.

If I could express how awesome each and every single one of you is, I'd be a rich beat poet.

Instead I am going to link to a song that speaks the truth :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpgY5S3AcSw

You're all beautifully crafted little nuggets of excellence, all together with one another in the mcnugget 9-box that is... life.

Words aside, what I'm trying to say is... love thyself.

SpectreFire · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

WascallyWabbit · Mar 13, 2013

we need Detective-GAF to get on this Ashodin situation, pronto.

Ramirez · Mar 13, 2013

SpectreFire said:
http://i.imgur.com/Z4kJ2.gif[/IG][/QUOTE]

Perfect.

jamesinclair · Mar 13, 2013

Leeness said:
I did have their numbers and sent a "gee thanks, super cool of you" and left it at that and never heard back. Lol.

WHATEVER. I'm feeling kind of bitter today but in a good way. I am worth it and it's their loss!

Yep!

Four in a row is way past coincidence. Ate you misreporting yourself in any way?

How old are your pictures?

zlatko · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Lissar · Mar 13, 2013

Oh, Ashodin.

Also, I've been waiting for the conclusion to this for two months. It's already more amazing than expected.

WascallyWabbit · Mar 13, 2013

jamesinclair said:
Four in a row is way past coincidence. Ate you misreporting yourself in any way?

How old are your pictures?

I don't think that's necessarily true. I've been stood up on back 2 back "dates" and this has happened multiple times. So if the timing had just been worse, it could have been 4 in a row.

Sorian · Mar 13, 2013

Ashodin said:
Gentlemen, you will have your updates in due time. Currently I'm with my gal right now, and we're celebrating a momentous occasion - I proposed to her, and she said yes.

Oh shit, so happy I just decided to stroll in here. Glad to see you still have all your organs (or do you?)

SquiddyCracker · Mar 13, 2013

Lissar said:
Oh, Ashodin.

Also, I've been waiting for the conclusion to this for two months. It's already more amazing than expected.

Will you draw the happy couple?
:3

Emitan · Mar 13, 2013

Leeness said:
I am worth it and it's their loss!

Fuck yes you are. You're so worth it, gurl

Dr.Palutena · Mar 13, 2013

Leeness said:
. I am worth it and it's their loss!

I'm so happy you see it this way.

IAmtheFMan · Mar 13, 2013

Proposed? After a couple months?

Sorian · Mar 13, 2013

IAmtheFMan said:
Proposed? After a couple months?

I know, right? Want me to pass the popcorn?

Liu Kang Baking A Pie · Mar 13, 2013

IAmtheFMan said:
Proposed? After a couple months?

It's more likely than you think.

Voice of Reason · Mar 13, 2013

Looks like Ashodin really likes getting banned.

Leeness · Mar 13, 2013

jamesinclair said:
Four in a row is way past coincidence. Ate you misreporting yourself in any way?

How old are your pictures?

Either new or last six months to a year. And they don't even get to see me in person

SquiddyBiscuit said:
Always stay positive!
No matter what happens, it's all good if you consider it good.

WascallyWabbit said:
I agree with Squiddy. Stay positive.
One of the unforeseen consequences of doing this online dating thing is that my skin has gotten a lot thicker and let the little shit go. It's made me a happier and (i think) better person

Emitan said:
Fuck yes you are. You're so worth it, gurl

Dr.Palutena said:
I'm so happy you see it this way.

<3 to you all.

Alucard · Mar 13, 2013

Congrats, man. Wishing you all the best.

WascallyWabbit · Mar 13, 2013

Voice of Reason said:
Looks like Ashodin really likes getting banned.

Or he enjoys getting detective-gaf getting ahold of his private info

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