I just think it's more leaning towards ignorance than racist. And while I'm a little bit of an idealist, I think ignorance is more easily cleansed than racism.weepy said:But don't you think it's the least bit ignorant for those student to even throw that type of party, all that were missing were them in black-face. I'm almost positive that they knew what they were doing. Was it meant to be mean-spirited? Who knows, but it's about as tasteless as telling a racial joke at work. Sure it's not as bad as them screaming white power and trying to rid the world of us but these seem like the very same people that would deny me a job despite my qualifications because they think I act like what those pictures depict.
RevenantKioku said:I just think it's more leaning towards ignorance than racist. And while I'm a little bit of an idealist, I think ignorance is more easily cleansed than racism.
G4life98 said:those kids are assholes and honestly they should be suspended for being such big assholes.
Maybe I'm using the terms wrong, but I think they're just acting idiotic and ignorant. They're not directly, only indirectly, causing harm.Greenpanda said:How could these people possibly claim "ignorance" of racism? It's not like the offensive of this stuff is some kind of great big secret.
And even if they WERE ignorant, it's THEIR responsibility to educate themselves. Ignorance only means they've failed in their responsibility to be a decent citizen.
Aske said:There's a big difference between racist and racially unconcerned mentalities.
RevenantKioku said:Maybe I'm using the terms wrong, but I think they're just acting idiotic and ignorant. They're not directly, only indirectly, causing harm.
And it's a two way street. Granted they may be the ones not doing the work, but understanding doesn't happen by chance.
But I think your flippant attitude is almost as bad and I can see it justifying these actions to these idiots.
I dunno. Some of us are blessed with a mixture of people to interact with, others are not. Sometimes it takes time.Greenpanda said:OK, fair enough -- I'll certainly agree on the idiotic / indirect harm. I just don't think they can't claim that they didn't know any better.
PhoenixDark said:Did you try the potatoes?
Blackace said:new tag get...
first of all.. when does a black man drink Bud Ice 40 by choice? damn it... if you didn't tell me the name of the state I would have known it was Texas..
Aske said:See my first post:
Many (if not most) people are very inconsistent; and have little interest in establishing a holistic, consistent life philosophy. This is nothing but anecdotal evidence, but I've known plenty of people who would make racist jokes and generalisations, and even dress in blackface for halloween. Yet these same people are vehemently anti-KKK/Nazi/right-wing ideology in general, pro-civil rights, happy to promote interracial marriage, and appreciative of black culture.
The overall ideology is one of tolerance, but tolerance doesn't always equate to constant respect, political correctness, and care not to offend black sensibilities behind closed doors.
The insensitive and offensive may not be one's best friends, but it's foolish to paint them with the same brush as those who mean one actual harm.
weepy said:Are these people even aware of these inconsistencies? I don't know, that sound kind of two-faced imo. These sound like the type of people that'll crack a racist joke and go "no, it's cool man. My best friend is black." I knew a few ppl like that. They'll say horrible sh*t about my race/ethnicity in my face and go "Oh but not you, you're different..."
I mean, I'm all for free speech and everything but even I have my limits.
weepy said:But if you share them kind of sentiments behind closed doors you're just basically putting up a front to the individual you claim you respect. People from all ethnicities/cultures/sexualities have my utmost respect ALL the time, not just when I'm around them. As I've said before, it seems kinda two-faced.
weepy said:This sounds like closet-bigotry...
:lolmac said:*pic of african american hero"
What?
I was wondering how long it would take for that book to pop up in reference to PD.
Aske said:From Dictionary.com:
bigotry [big-uh-tree]
noun, plural -ries.
1. stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one's own.
2. the actions, beliefs, prejudices, etc., of a bigot.
I disagree. It sounds like white people making jokes at the expense of black people. At worst it sounds like they don't give a damn about the feelings of black people. That is not the same thing as maintaining a stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief or opinion that differs from one's own. To be unconcerned about a person's feelings is not the same as to be unconcerned about their rights in society.
The word racist applies to anyone who discriminates based on race, and so it applies to a wide range of mentalities and actions; some much more or much less hateful than others. The word 'bigot' relates only to sincere intolerance - as in "I hate all black people, I wish they did not exist in my country." How many people who are happy to make fun of gays, religious people or the handicapped would also express a genuine intolerance for their very existence? Accusations of bigotry require a lot more evidence than mere willingness to cause offence.
DarienA said:Guess you can finally sleep at night now eh?
BigGreenMat said:THANK YOU. Finally someone decides to understand what the hell they are talking about. I am so sick and tired of people equating not caring about hurt feelings as bigotry, racism, and hate speech.
Big Zep said:you guys aint have biscuits till you tried Churches "honey" biscuits....They're better than Popeyes!!
Aske said:I disagree. It sounds like white people making jokes at the expense of black people. At worst it sounds like they don't give a damn about the feelings of black people. That is not the same thing as maintaining a stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief or opinion that differs from one's own. To be unconcerned about a person's feelings is not the same as to be unconcerned about their rights in society.
Like I can say "Fat people are disgusting slobs and they smell like ****ing ass because they're really sweaty and nasty lolz!" But I can't say "Fat people shouldn't be allowed to go to movie theaters because I can hear all the fat in their bodies sloshing around! BAN THEM!"weepy said:I'm really trying to understand this. So basically people have the right to treat others anyway they see fit so as long as they don't tread on their civil rights? I'm very interested in this explaination. Please, I'm being serious, give me an example of what you mean.
Aske said:To be unconcerned about a person's feelings is not the same as to be unconcerned about their rights in society.
weepy said:So basically people have the right to treat others anyway they see fit so as long as they don't tread on their civil rights?
This is interesting. Does anyone know the story behind this? I went to the website, and read what was available, but I didnt see any detailed explanation for the party.
Were the kids trying to comment on the state of Black America, and using MLK day a point of some kind?
I am just wondering in what the reasoning was for the party.
It's obviously in very poor taste, and I want to know the explanation for it.
hugrerolleyes.gifThe Experiment said:When a feminist professor can run around and shriek that all men are rapists, bigotry and talking out of your ass is a part of college.
Mercury Fred said:At least one women's studies course should be required for all college students.
JayDubya said:Like college kids don't have to endure enough boring and / or unneccessary crap in their curriculum. If you're getting a degree in a closely related field, maybe, but otherwise, pray tell, why?
I don't need to read about Elizabeth Cady Stanton to know that gender equity is awesome.
APF said:Only the most tolerant people are able to propose death as a penalty for making an ass of yourself.
Okay, but these people may see what you say and go "Oh, this black guy is crazy! Can't take a joke and now wants people dead?" Doesn't exactly help the situation.Greenpanda said:I never claimed to be tolerant -- and I wouldn't, because, no, I'm certainly NOT tolerant of racism. Why should we be?
The idea that "tolerating" other people's hatred somehow makes us more enlightened is an idiotic meme that should have died years ago. The net result of failing to properly condemn these kinds of actions is that it encourages more racism and tolerant. In the end, how is that even tolerant? If we want any kind of real change, we need to put our money where our mouths are and enforce some kind of meaningful moral standard. Looking the other way only means we're lazy and guilty through complicity.
AlanHemberger said:Like I can say "Fat people are disgusting slobs and they smell like ****ing ass because they're really sweaty and nasty lolz!" But I can't say "Fat people shouldn't be allowed to go to movie theaters because I can hear all the fat in their bodies sloshing around! BAN THEM!"
Sure it's insensitive, but it's a free speech deal. It's not hurting anyone to say it in reality.
So I should kill you for your hatred of people insensitive to racial stereotypes. Fine world you're creating there.Greenpanda said:The idea that "tolerating" other people's hatred somehow makes us more enlightened is an idiotic meme that should have died years ago.
Greenpanda said:I never claimed to be tolerant -- and I wouldn't, because, no, I'm certainly NOT tolerant of racism. Why should we be?
The idea that "tolerating" other people's hatred somehow makes us more enlightened is an idiotic meme that should have died years ago. The net result of failing to properly condemn these kinds of actions is that it encourages more racism and tolerant. In the end, how is that even tolerant? If we want any kind of real change, we need to put our money where our mouths are and enforce some kind of meaningful moral standard. Looking the other way only means we're lazy and guilty through complicity.
Sapiens said:I challenge any black person to love fried chicken more than me
its not possible.
Most definitely.weepy said:Fair enough. But it is agreed upon that what they (students) did was dumb as hell, right?
Christopher said:wow did she really dress up as Aunt Jamima? :lol it's so stupid it's funny.
However, racism isn't cool guys no reason to have a themed party so classless, and I've been to some pretty classless parties, tsc tsc
Greenpanda said:The idea that "tolerating" other people's hatred somehow makes us more enlightened is an idiotic meme that should have died years ago.
weepy said:Do tell.![]()
Greenpanda said:I never claimed to be tolerant -- and I wouldn't, because, no, I'm certainly NOT tolerant of racism. Why should we be?
Greenpanda said:The idea that "tolerating" other people's hatred somehow makes us more enlightened is an idiotic meme that should have died years ago.
Mercury Fred said:hugrerolleyes.gif
At least one women's studies course should be required for all college students.
Fair enough. But it is agreed upon that what they (students) did was dumb as hell, right?
The idea that "tolerating" other people's hatred somehow makes us more enlightened is an idiotic meme that should have died years ago. The net result of failing to properly condemn these kinds of actions is that it encourages more racism and tolerant. In the end, how is that even tolerant? If we want any kind of real change, we need to put our money where our mouths are and enforce some kind of meaningful moral standard. Looking the other way only means we're lazy and guilty through complicity.