This thread still going?
I feel like we're looking into the private matters of two people here that shouldn't have gone public. People are scrutinizing the story and then attacking her and it's getting downright creepy.
Whether or not Phil should be flirting while married ... that's a matter between him and his wife, no one else should be involved and it doesn't have to do anything with sexual harassment. Now obviously she didn't feel comfortable about something with him, I still think it would have played out better if they kept the matter between them and sorted it out, rather than having public call-outs and late apologies.
All it does is giving ground to the usual cretins by fueling their confirmation bias, and then you hear stuff like "all these #metoos are a bunch of attention whoring bullshit, look at this case".