Patrick Klepek
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Love is a myth too, fyi. I don't want my kids growing up believing in that nonsense. Life sucks and my kids are going to know it.
eXxy said:The concept of Santa Clause is awesome. You guys seriously suck.
If I come up with a dozen cool characters, can I claim you guys suck and have no soul for not teaching your kids to believe in them? What's the big deal about this one in particular?Pimpbaa said:Adults who tell little children that Santa isn't real have no soul.
JoshuaJSlone said:If I come up with a dozen cool characters, can I claim you guys suck and have no soul for not teaching your kids to believe in them? What's the big deal about this one in particular?
JoshuaJSlone said:If I come up with a dozen cool characters, can I claim you guys suck and have no soul for not teaching your kids to believe in them? What's the big deal about this one in particular?
eXxy said:Because it's fun and the kids get incredibly excited? It's part of the spectacle of Christmas.
SANTA CLAUS ... DECEPTION ... SERIOUS BUSINESS
JayDubya said:Shit, it's like, sure, read the Santa Claus books and sing the songs, they're fun. We're not saying, hey, let's kill Christmas, I hate fun, bah humbug.
You don't tell the kids Hanzel and Gretel or X-Wing starfighters or Merlin the wizard are real, so why tell them about a fat dude in a red suit with magical powers that lives at the North Pole, then tell them he is absolutely, beyond a shadow of a doubt, real.
eXxy said:Did I say that? It's perfectly acceptable for someone to avoid the whole Santa thing, but its "opponents" are demonizing its existence in this thread, which is far from borderline ridiculous: it's retarded.
soul creator said:well, you were responding to someone who used the example of kids still having fun with fictional characters while not believing they're literally "real".
SnakeswithLasers said:You (in particular) have also learned how not to do it (you were hurt by your parents taking it too far) and you won't string your kid along for that long, so you don't have to worry about your particular issue and can just focus on how nice it felt to believe in Santa.
Just my opinion though.
JayDubya said:Yeah, you've got a point, too. There's no harm in it when they're really little, but I dunno, I really want to have an honest and open relationship with my kid. Seems like a bad thing to do, since I had my feelings hurt by it, but if most people didn't have that reaction, I guess that's just my own childish idiosyncrasy on display.
I suppose I could Obi-Wan it and tell her stuff that's true "from a certain point of view." Of course, even as a little kid I thought Obi-Wan was a jerk for not just being straight with Luke. :lol
That's a HUGE generalization to make based on a few anecdotes.DavidDayton said:I'm starting to wonder if there is a connection between folks who won't tell their kinds about Santa Claus and folks who hate their parents.
Is there? Several folks posted saying they were angry at their parents, and how they'd never tell their kids about S.C., whereas most of the other folks seem to have no problem with Santa.
I'm not a big fan of my mom -- and I seriously doubt people who hate their parents also have some underlying blind rage for Santa. The point people are trying to make is that some times the parents take it too far and end up shattering all the myth, fantasy, and magic about the tale when they tell them it's all a lie, not that their parents sucked.DavidDayton said:I'm starting to wonder if there is a connection between folks who won't tell their kinds about Santa Claus and folks who hate their parents.
Is there? Several folks posted saying they were angry at their parents, and how they'd never tell their kids about S.C., whereas most of the other folks seem to have no problem with Santa.
-jinx- said:That's a HUGE generalization to make based on a few anecdotes.
Mute said:I'm not a big fan of my mom -- and I seriously doubt people who hate their parents also have some underlying blind rage for Santa. The point people are trying to make is that some times the parents take it too far and end up shattering all the myth, fantasy, and magic about the tale when they tell them it's all a lie, not that their parents sucked.
pheew said:the santa this thread is about was created by coca-cola
Hitokage said:I just love how people instantly equate the declaration of Santa as a real person with ANY example of childplay or imaginative work.
Hitokage said:Although I guess some people will be crushed to hear Gandalf isn't real either.
Believing in Santa makes you a supporter of Coca-Cola
What? You don't teach your kids that there are REALLY burglars that they're the first line of defense from? And that if their forts fail, we're done for?sp0rsk said:Actually, I changed my mind.
No santa.
No play forts.
No sleepovers where him and his friends wear pots on their hands and wield baseball bats to defend against an imaginary burglar.
KamikazeChick said:My parents told me the truth when I asked, but they still gave me gifts from "Santa". They also told me about the historical version of Santa and the myths that surround him.
Alucard said:"Daddy, is Santa going to come to our house tonight?"
"No son. He's not real, and I will not perpetuate falsehoods."
C'mon man. Kids need things to believe in. Sure there are other things they can believe in, but there's a magic to Santa and I think we lose that type of wonder far too early.
Kaijima said:When I was a kid, there were two categories of Christmas presents; items with tags on them identifying the giver, and Santa's presents, which always appeared on Christmas morning along with the stockings.
What seems a bit different from the typical story is that as best I can recall, I didn't /quite/ believe in Santa in always the most unquestioning way. Like I didn't expect him to show up on time with the mundanity of the Fed Ex man. Santa was more like this special possibility that could happen. Like really hoping this one good thing will come about, and not quite believing in it until it did.
Which also makes it a bit odd in that I don't ever remember really not believing in Santa abruptly, by finding out "The Lie". The Santa possibility just became less central as I grew up and had other concerns, until it was sort of "okay" if I didn't really feel it was Santa who brought something on Christmas night.
Of course, perhaps partly because of that, Christmas still feels magical to me in some ways. It doesn't matter how rational I am or not; the thought of "it could happen" is still in place. Could also factor in that I'm anything but religious, yet do hold many metaphysical and philosophical views that make space for that "harsh, unforgiving reality" not always being quite what it seems, at least in potential
At any rate, that's sort of why I wouldn't choose to specifically "blow" Santa Claus to kids. Santa, in my view, is a bit different from a lot of cultural myths, traditions, and religious convictions because there's /not/ a state of everyone trying to assert Santa is absolutely real, an undying truth immune to all investigation or questioning. Santa is more of a phase, and as such, I don't see as harmful; if anything, potentially helpful, because kids will come to question it on their own, without having someone shove a Book of Rationality on them. And Santa potentially provides a lesson in how to accept non-literal possibilities that can affect life, and be very important, without always being as real as a pile of bricks you can kick.
Patrick Klepek said:Love is a myth too, fyi. I don't want my kids growing up believing in that nonsense. Life sucks and my kids are going to know it.