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Dupy · Mar 11, 2006

So I'm pretty into this guy I met last weekend. I met up with him and his friends tonight and it went well. I like his friends and I still really like him. He was sick though so he took off early. We parted on good terms, most likely meeting up again in the future. Otherwise he would have just blown me off this week. You know the gays...

Now tomorrow night my sister is in town and we want to go out on the town (San Fran). I'm actually going to San Diego next weekend so I won't be able to see this guy for another two weeks (he doesn't go out on weekdays). What do I do? Do I take my sister to a gay bar and invite the guy out too? Seems selfish. She knows I'm gay so it wouldn't be a big shock if I told her I was into this guy. But is it too much inviting this guy out with my sister? I'm still not even sure if straight rules apply to the gay world.

Anyone?

M3wThr33 · Mar 11, 2006

*long whistle*
Wow... uhm... can't say I have any experience that could help here.
Althought my girlfriend likes gay bars because they often have great music.

Icanplaythat · Mar 11, 2006

Depends on your relationship with your sister, is she willing to help you get laid?
I really enjoy playing wingman for my cousin (he's super gay).

CurseoftheGods · Mar 11, 2006

I wouldn't invite him with your sister being around. It might be awkward for him.

norinrad21 · Mar 11, 2006

Its kinda late now but come this afternoon, the gaymers would be out in droves to help you out with this one.

Dupy · Mar 11, 2006

norinrad21 said:
Its kinda late now but come this afternoon, the gaymers would be out in droves to help you out with this one.

I hope so! Tomorrow is pretty soon. I need the woodwork to come out.

TurtleSnatcher · Mar 11, 2006

KDups said:
I hope so! Tomorrow is pretty soon. I need the woodwork to come out.

Yar best of luck to ya!

I think inviting your sister may seem more of a friend thing then a "Hey I <3 you" type thing, so I agree with CurseoftheMods, but then I'm not really experienced in this whole neck of the woods, but once again Best of Luck!

Dupy · Mar 11, 2006

PezRadar said:
Yar best of luck to ya!

I think inviting your sister may seem more of a friend thing then a "Hey I <3 you" type thing, so I agree with CurseoftheMods, but then I'm not really experienced in this whole neck of the woods, but once again Best of Luck!

Thanks, I'll try my best! Yeah I don't want to seem too desperate. You straight guys seem to know how to pull off the, "Yeah it's cool, I like you" vibe better than us. We're more direct, so subtletly can be challenging. But I don't want to seem too direct. My issue

SuperPac · Mar 11, 2006

KDups said:
Now tomorrow night my sister is in town and we want to go out on the town (San Fran). I'm actually going to San Diego next weekend so I won't be able to see this guy for another two weeks (he doesn't go out on weekdays). What do I do? Do I take my sister to a gay bar and invite the guy out too? Seems selfish. She knows I'm gay so it wouldn't be a big shock if I told her I was into this guy. But is it too much inviting this guy out with my sister? I'm still not even sure if straight rules apply to the gay world.

Wait, there are different rules for each world? Shit, I've been using just the one this whole time. What I would do is find out if your sister's cool with it, then invite the guy out too (and make sure he knows you'll be with a guest, too). Worst he can say is "no." And if he does say no, give him your cell # so if he changes his mind he could meet you and your sister somewhere.

Shawn128 · Mar 11, 2006

I really don't have any experience here so....

I say just give him a swift FHUTA* and hope for the best.

*FHUTA DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE

emomoonbase · Mar 11, 2006

I'd tell him that your hanging with sis tonight (as family is more important than someone you might hook up with) but if he wants to meet you at wherever your going at some point he's welcome to.

bud · Mar 11, 2006

FHUTA

White Man · Mar 11, 2006

If your sister's cool with it, and he's cool with it, why not?

How old are the parties involved? If you lads are pretty young, and aren't used to being out, or going out as a couple, it may be best to put this off for now.

RobotChant · Mar 11, 2006

You know that old saying "Three is a crowd", I think it applies here.

PhoenixDark · Mar 11, 2006

Pics?

malek4980 · Mar 11, 2006

PhoenixDark said:
Pics?

Of the guy or the sister? Or at this point you don't really care?

Star Power · Mar 11, 2006

malek4980 said:
Of the guy or the sister? Or at this point you don't really care?

What is with Pheonix anyway? Did I miss something?

PhoenixDark · Mar 11, 2006

malek4980 said:
Of the guy or the sister? Or at this point you don't really care?

:lol

I can't give advice until I have pics.

Star Power · Mar 11, 2006

M3wThr33 said:
*long whistle*
Wow... uhm... can't say I have any experience that could help here.
Althought my girlfriend likes gay bars because they often have great music.

I don't understand why you breeders keep coming in gayming age threads just to state that you don't know anything about the question at hand or "that video doesn't have enough chicks!"...

border · Mar 11, 2006

Seems pretty rude to drag your sister along on a date.....whether you are gay or straight.

LuCkymoON · Mar 11, 2006

KDups said:
So I'm pretty into this guy I met last weekend. I met up with him and his friends tonight and it went well. I like his friends and I still really like him. He was sick though so he took off early. We parted on good terms, most likely meeting up again in the future. Otherwise he would have just blown me off this week. You know the gays...

Now tomorrow night my sister is in town and we want to go out on the town (San Fran). I'm actually going to San Diego next weekend so I won't be able to see this guy for another two weeks (he doesn't go out on weekdays). What do I do? Do I take my sister to a gay bar and invite the guy out too? Seems selfish. She knows I'm gay so it wouldn't be a big shock if I told her I was into this guy. But is it too much inviting this guy out with my sister? I'm still not even sure if straight rules apply to the gay world.

Anyone?

Invite him out with your sister. When she's not looking, FHUTA.

Freestyler · Mar 12, 2006

Don't take your sister out with you. It'd make it almost as if you're trying to get the guy to meet your family or something and he might freak out, thinking you're moving way fast.

It'd also totally change the dynamics - he'd now be with you who he's only just met, and your sister who he's never met, so it'd be almost 2-against-1 which again could freak him out.

Maybe go out for dinner with your sister or something then meet up with the guy (just you and the guy) later on.

Dupy · Mar 12, 2006

It'd also totally change the dynamics - he'd now be with you who he's only just met, and your sister who he's never met, so it'd be almost 2-against-1 which again could freak him out.

Totally what I figured, so I just went out with my sister and roommate tonight. I'm calling the guy tomorrow for a potential Sunday date. We'll see.

Thanks guys.

Companion Cube · Mar 12, 2006

Freestyler said:
It'd also totally change the dynamics - he'd now be with you who he's only just met, and your sister who he's never met, so it'd be almost 2-against-1 which again could freak him out.

True, but the night before, Dups went out with this guy and his friends and had a good time. I'm assuming he's never met them before...

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