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PORT ST. LUCIE, Fla. - A mom faces a charge of child neglect after she allowed her son to go to a local park alone. She says he's old enough but Port St. Lucie Police disagree. Now she's fighting back.

"I'm totally dumbfounded by this whole situation," says Nicole Gainey.

It began last Saturday afternoon when Gainey gave her son Dominic permission to walk from their house to Sportsman's Park .

"Honestly didn't think I was doing anything wrong," says Gainey, "I was letting him go play.

It's a half mile from their Port St. Lucie home. Dominic says it only takes him about 10 to 15 minutes to get there. During the walk, the 7-year-old passed a public pool. Someone there asked him where his mom was.

"They asked me a couple questions and I got scared so I ran off to the park and they called the cops," says Dominic Guerrisi.

Dominic was playing at the park when an officer pulled up.

"They said 'where does your mom live,' " says Dominic.

Police took him home. That's when his mom was arrested and charged with child neglect. Gainey says she was shocked.

"My own bondsman said my parents would have been in jail every day," says Gainey who paid nearly $4,000 to bond out.

The officer wrote in the report that Dominic was unsupervised at the park and that "numerous sex offenders reside in the vicinity."

"He just basically kept going over that there's pedophiles and this and that and basically the park wasn't safe and he shouldn't be there alone," says Gainey.

She believes Dominic is mature enough to go to the park alone during the day. Gainey adds her son always has a cell phone which she calls to check on him.

"That I'm here and safe," says Dominic.

Gainey plans to fight the felony charge. But after this she won't let Dominic go to the park alone. She's afraid she'll be arrested again.

The St. Lucie County State's Attorney's office says there is no law that specifies how old a child has to be before he or she can go somewhere unsupervised. It's done on a case-by-case basis.

http://www.wptv.com/news/region-st-...r-7-year-old-son-to-go-to-a-nearby-park-alone


I remember there was a similar thread a couple weeks back about the mom leaving her child at a park all day while she worked. In this case though, the mother is just letting her kid go nearby to the park by himself. I know personally I used to do this all the time when I was younger. Not to mention I would go for longer distances than a half mile for sure. Most kids would be out unsupervised during the day. I also know the park in question since it's one city over, and it is always packed since a lot of people play basketball there.

What do you guys think?
 
The officer wrote in the report that Dominic was unsupervised at the park and that "numerous sex offenders reside in the vicinity."

This just begs a lot of questions including how we handle sex offenders if they're just going to be allowed on the street and then subject to a reason that someone shouldn't be outside alone.
 
"He just basically kept going over that there's pedophiles and this and that and basically the park wasn't safe and he shouldn't be there alone," says Gainey.

So maybe, oh I don't know...arrest the pedophiles instead of the parents?
 
It's crazy how free I was to go out and hang out with friends outside when I was young.
And imagining me doing the same with my (future) kids.... impossible.
 
Tough one, but I'm inclined to come down on the side of the kid being quite a bit too young and the park being a bit too far away.

Charges of child neglect though? That might be going a bit too far.
 
The St. Lucie County State's Attorney's office says there is no law that specifies how old a child has to be before he or she can go somewhere unsupervised. It's done on a case-by-case basis.
Case-by-case basis my ass. The state has no business in trying to dictate how a parent parents, beyond making sure they're not abusing their child. Fuckin nanny state bullshit. You want to make sure kids are supervised at parks because "there's pedophiles in the vicinity" (aren't there usually regulations on how close they can be to parks and stuff?), get a fucking cop out there. No, better to throw some woman in jail because she let her kid go to the park.

Fuckin ridiculous.
 
You let your kid go to the park without you so we're going to put you in jail so your kid is without...you...


Hmmm.
 
Case-by-case basis my ass. The state has no business in trying to dictate how a parent parents, beyond making sure they're not abusing their child. Fuckin nanny state bullshit. You want to make sure kids are supervised at parks because "there's pedophiles in the vicinity" (aren't there usually regulations on how close they can be to parks and stuff?), get a fucking cop out there. No, better to throw some woman in jail because she let her kid go to the park.

Fuckin ridiculous.

And if they're so fucking concerned about the child being left alone, why the hell are they throwing the mother in jail? What does that accomplish other than actually leaving the child alone?
 
Isn't this old? Or is this a new but similar story?

This is dumb, why put the mom in jail away from her kid for being away from her kid? What kind of nonsense is that?
 
This is crazy. The whole idea kids can never be alone not even for a second.

As a kid, I would often walk or ride my bike to the park alone and meet up with friends.


Is this the same story from before or is this legit happening to another person?

The other story was a 9 year old girl. This is a 7 year old boy.
 
Ummm... wow.

At the age of six I'd walk to the park about 3 miles away. Or my parents would drop me off and let me walk home. Long before the age of cellphones.
 
People are getting kinda crazy with protecting the kids these days.

I was a kid about 20 years ago, and I left the house around 8 or 9 am in the summer, showed back up for lunch, left again, and had to be home by the time the street lights came on. Shit, sometimes we'd be allowed out late at night to play flashlight tag.

I was 8 at the time.

Surprisingly, still here. Never got scooped by a pedo, or mauled by an alligator.
 
Pretty soon I'm going to have to agree that it's irresponsible to let your kids go out alone because of how often you end up getting arrested for it.
 
This requires a little more thought than just calling it stupid.

There is clearly a point where a kid is too young to be out on their own.

There are clearly locations where it is unsafe for children even if they are of an age to typically be ok on their own.

So the question is would this child be able to safely go to a park? Is it safe for this child to be at this park? These are questions nobody here can answer.
 
I just don't get it.

"why can't my child be outside"
"because of these bad people near the park"
"well why aren't those bad people segregated from the rest of the population if they harm children"
"..."
 
What in the fuck.

18+ year ago when I was 15 all the way down to being like 6 my parents let me just go play outside. I had a Nintendo, but my parents never let me sit in front of a TV all day. Made me go run around.

And, that's what I'd do. Hang out with friends, go run somewhere. My dad was Navy and we moved a lot, so I would just explore the area.

I understand the position of "hey, you can't just leave you kid in a random spot" and having a talk with the mom, but in this case the kid just went to the park. That's 10 minutes away. Like, I went further than that, on a bike, with no ID or cell phone, down main roads further than that.

Shit is stupid.

This requires a little more thought than just calling it stupid.

There is clearly a point where a kid is too young to be out on their own.

There are clearly locations where it is unsafe for children even if they are of an age to typically be ok on their own.

So the question is would this child be able to safely go to a park? Is it safe for this child to be at this park? These are questions nobody here can answer.

Nope, that's a discussion for a social worker and the mother, and if we're being a responsible society, with possible State provided alternate options and well supervised areas for children to play.

Or, just arrest the mom. Kid'll be safer that way.
 
I feel like there is no sense of common sense with some how some of these laws are constructed nor its appliance .

No fine, just straight up jail time ??
 
What in the fuck.

18+ year ago when I was 15 all the way down to being like 6 my parents let me just go play outside. I had a Nintendo, but my parents never let me sit in front of a TV all day. Made me go run around.

And, that's what I'd do. Hang out with friends, go run somewhere. My dad was Navy and we moved a lot, so I would just explore the area.

I understand the position of "hey, you can't just leave you kid in a random spot" and having a talk with the mom, but in this case the kid just went to the park. That's 10 minutes away. Like, I went further than that, on a bike, with no ID or cell phone, down main roads further than that.

Shit is stupid.

Hell a group of friends and I would climb houses to get on a roof, we'd walk to a nearby creek that was about 2 miles away from my childhood home. We stupidly use to taunt bulls in fields, explore abandoned farms full of rusted scrap metal.

I'm going to second the sentiment that my parents, my best friends parents would have served some time in the modern era for neglect. Crazy new world we live in.
 
At first I thought this was a duplicate of last weeks story, but no.

Just amazing when was 7 back in like 85, my brother and i would ride our BMX's a few miles, along a busy 4 lane road, to get to the local 7-11 to play super mario bros all day long and eat candy lol. There was even the local bully there sometimes he was like 19, and one time he was harassing my brother by trying to light his eyebrows on fire lol.

We would ride our bikes around town, finding abandoned construction sites, and random empty fields to explore. Just literally going wherever we wanted as long as we got home before dark.

Even then sometimes it would get past dark> i remember being at that 7-11 well near 9pm one time lol.

And nowadays, kids literally cant walk to the part alone. even half a mile.

Either we have gotten REAAAALLY paranoid or kid touching and crime has skyrockted and I didnt even know.
 
Hmm, I let my 7 y/o son walk up to his friends house alone. But it's really just a couple of blocks... a half a mile going to a park with, presumably, no supervision is something that I personally wouldn't allow.

I don't necessarily think it's negligent though.
 
I was going to school by myself, on the other side of Brooklyn, by transferring between two trains in NYC when I was this kid's age.

Going by the police logic in this case the appropriate punishment for my mom would have been to be shot from a canon :/
 
I was busy swimming in sewage filled creeks miles from home when I was a kid. All that stranger danger nonsense from the late 80's on has turned parents into a bunch worrying Wilbers.
 
Now that I think about it, The Goonies could never happen today.

but back in my day, that could have been a reality every day for me. minus sloth and ship and crazy stuff lol
 
This requires a little more thought than just calling it stupid.

There is clearly a point where a kid is too young to be out on their own.

There are clearly locations where it is unsafe for children even if they are of an age to typically be ok on their own.

So the question is would this child be able to safely go to a park? Is it safe for this child to be at this park? These are questions nobody here can answer.

I think the problem is that the police officer that arrested the mother didn't bother answering your questions either. Just booked her and called it a day.

Looking at the crime rates in Port St. Lucie, where this story is, most all of the places are considered "safe" based on their crime rate. Where the park itself was is a couple of shades lighter (meaning a couple of shades "less safe"), but absolutely no indication that a child walking alone would be grounds for arrest based on parent neglect. This isn't Compton we're talking about.

And 7 years old definitely isn't "too young" to walk a short distance to a park. That's ridiculous.

EDIT: A comment from the news story site put it well:
"The officer wrote in the report that Dominic was unsupervised at the park and that "numerous sex offenders reside in the vicinity."
Has the department done a messaging campaign to alert residents of the problem. Has the city posted signs at the park to warn of the pedophiles?
 
Yep. Its a damn shame kids can't even go outside anymore w/o an adult. I remember walking to the park( or riding my bike there) when I was this kids age which was about a mile away. As long as I was back my sundown everything was fine.
 
7 is possibly a bit young, the trend today seems to be around 11-13 when kids are allowed to go off on their own in any significant way, but then again I'm pretty sure I was out and about at age 7 on my own at least partially.

Arresting though, just as with the last case, is grossly out of proportion with the "crime." A warning should suffice and if they are that worried about the child's safety set a requirement that an adult be present with them at the park. You don't just arrest the mother right off the bat.
 
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