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Is it creepy for a 32 year old to live on campus in college?

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I just graduated from Milwaukee Area Technical College yesterday, yay! Since I had already started on the path, I felt I wanted to finish my degree in Liberal Arts just so I had something under my belt.This is just the beginning though, because I've been accepted to University of Wisconsin in Whitewater, that's where I'm looking to start my real major in Japanese studies. I'm still 31, but when school starts in the fall, I'll be 32. Kind of a late bloomer, but better late than never.

Throughout my decision the past couple years to go back to school, and focus on it, because my job was slowly killing me, my parents have been very supportive. They have let me live with them with no real issues, but as a man of my age, I have really felt the need to get away from them at times. Which is kinda why I've been considering just living on campus when I go to Whitewater. I actually like the idea of being at the school, and being walking distance away from all the things I'll need and want to do. I'm going to miss the hell out of my cat, but I'll still come visit on the weekends.

Thing is, I am a bit of an introvert, and socially awkward one at that. I'm afraid I'll be an outcast on campus, and feel even more awkward because of my age. I'm the youngest of 4 brothers, so I've always been impressionable by what my brothers have said, and one of them has always said to me that he thinks it'll be "creepy" for me living on campus when other people there, especially girls are almost half my age. I just don't know if he's right or not...this is all such a new experience for me, which is part of the reason I want to just do it, but at the same time, I feel like I know where he's coming from. =/ I feel like a creepy old man already sometimes, when I still kinda feel interested in girls who are early 20s. I may have gotten older, but my tastes haven't.

Will I even have much in common with the guys there, because I am definitely not the rowdy type. My application for residence does allow you to put the type of person you are, and the kind of roommate you might want (although I am hoping to get into one of those private room apartments they have someday). I just don't know how much difference that might even make.

I just really wish I had some input beyond what my stupid older brothers had to say about this, which is why I've decided to make this thread. What does gaf have to say?
 
Is it creepy to see an 32 year old professor on campus?

Edit: Gah, I completely skimmed the title - thought you meant just being in college at 32. As for living, you'll probably want somewhat more mature roommates because 1st and 2nd years (depending on their degree) will party a lot, be noisy as hell above and below and have fairly poor hygiene with dishes piling up till mold is on them.

I think you'd be more comfortable definitely with the more mature crowd - I checked out UofW and it seems they have residences for grad students and also an off-campus housing spot thing here: http://housing.civc.wisc.edu/phc.asp

Good luck!
 

demon

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karby

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I don't think so. Do what you need to do to get your life going. If you need to stay on campus, so be it.
 

Lucario

Member
It's a bit abnormal, but it isn't creepy for you to be living there. Don't worry about it. I had a 30 year old living on my floor as a Freshman, and I didn't even realize until he mentioned his age.

If you're really worried about it, look for off-campus housing.
 

Skeyser

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I wouldn't say creepy, but you'll most likely be on your own since not only are 99% of the people there much younger than you, and being socially awkward won't help you at all.
 
Usually just freshman and sophomores lives on campus, so you'll be around kids 17-19 years old, if you're comfortable with that then I don't see an issue

When I was a freshman, in my group of friends one guy was 32 year old army veteran, we didn't care
 

Future

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I don't know how weird it is in general. In my experience the youngest people are in the dorms and then they move to apartments nearby as they near graduation... Mainly cuz dorms kinda suck. If the housing you are talking about are apartments then I think you'll find a wide range of ages and it will be fine

If it's actually in a dorm with shared bathrooms then it might seem weird if you look old
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
Come visit me at UW Madison :D

Dorms might be a bit odd... But going to a university that age is perfectly normal.

What dorm/location you livin in? I was in Tripp Hall for 4 years. Loved that place.


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Moloch321

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Most bigger universities have different dorms for different types of students. It'd be weird to live in the freshmen dorm, but check to see if they have transfer student dorms, etc.
 

Afrodium

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It would be weird to live in a residence hall and have an 18 year old roommate, yeah. There should be housing for older students or you can just rent a place near campus. Most students who live in dorms are freshman/sophomores so you'll stick out. If you're trying to fuck the girls, as you imply you'd like to, then you'll probably get that "creepy old guy" reputation you'd like to avoid.
 
Honestly my experience is that unless you look it, everyone just kind of assumes that you are around their age. I don't think it will really come up unless you put yourself out there advertising that you are 32... and even if it does, You will have likely already known the people who get to the point where your age even comes up for awhile and it'll get brushed off once the conversation moves on.
 

dejay

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Depends on the individuals. Personally, I'd hate to be 18 again and live with 18 year olds. A lot of them are stupid.
 
Half your age? What are you on about? Most people there will be in their 20s, early and late. That's not so far from you.

The age thing won't be creepy but if you are all introverted and awkward then it will be creepy, even if you were 21. This is probably the best chance for you to get some social experience and become independent so don't waste it.
 
It would be weird to live in a residence hall and have an 18 year old roommate, yeah. There should be housing for older students or you can just rent a place near campus. Most students who live in dorms are freshman/sophomores so you'll stick out. If you're trying to fuck the girls, as you imply you'd like to, then you'll probably get that "creepy old guy" reputation you'd like to avoid.

Dude, there's a difference between wanting to meet girls, and wanting to "fuck girls". -_-
 
If youre in a dorm/ residence, yes its creepy. If its in campus apartments or apartments around campus, no its not creepy. Dont live in residence.
 

Maximus.

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It's only creepy if you are a creepy person. If you're personable and shit, then it should not be a problem.
 

Future

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Cheaper as in what? I dont have money, financial aid would pay for housing on campus, not off campus.

Then just look into where they put older students. If your roommate is 18 and everyone in the dorm 18-20 then it's possible you might get shit talked into oblivion depending on your personality

There are plenty of older people in college. This situation has to come up frequently
 
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I really don't understand American college/university culture. You're there to get an education, not make friends. If it's more convenient for you then go for it.

I've been a 26 year old that lived on campus and let me tell you... 18 year olds are a god damn nightmare to be around. They're way more like children than adults at that age.
Now that sounds like a legit concern.
 
I've been a 26 year old that lived on campus and let me tell you... 18 year olds are a god damn nightmare to be around. They're way more like children than adults at that age.
 

BigDug13

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I really don't understand American college/university culture. You're there to get an education, not make friends. If it's more convenient for you then go for it.

Many of the longest lasting friendships and romantic relationships are forged in college in the US. There are studies that prove it. If it's not a part of your culture, then fine. But it is truly a part of the American culture.

As for living around 18 year olds. It's really not worth it OP. You can live near campus and be a part of clubs without having to resort to being bunk-mates with really young people.
 

Goro Majima

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I felt old being 21 and living in a dorm. There's just too much shit you aren't going to want to put up with at your age like 4am fire alarms, toilets that are constantly coated in vomit, and the constant partying.

Get off campus housing with some upper class men at least. You'll probably be fine but get ready to embrace your moniker as the old guy.
 

Afrodium

Banned
Cheaper as in what? I dont have money, financial aid would pay for housing on campus, not off campus.

Financial aid should cover any housing expenses, not just on campus. Give the financial aid office a call and ask about it. They won't directly pay the bill with your aid as they'd be able to if you lived on campus, but they should give you a reimbursement check to cover rent.
 

BocoDragon

or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Realize This Assgrab is Delicious
I'm 30 in school and no one notices.

I don't live in a dorm, but if I did, no one would notice or care.
 
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