That's the biggest problem I have with the people who's social justice points of view on gaming I've experienced. When you get down to asking them directly "So, do you want this banned?". They'll hem and they'll haw and say "no, no, I don't want to ban or force anyone to do anything!" -- that they just want people to be more aware, and that they want to be inclusive and have a discussion, but rarely will anyone admit to wanting the content they dislike to entirely go away.
Tycho's
take on the issue when it came up over Dragon's Crown, is one of the most eloquent I've seen:
And there is no discussion, because no matter who you are, if you don't agree with their point of view, there's no way to talk to them. Your very being isn't good enough, no matter who you are. If you're a white, straight, male you're automatically disqualified. Even if you're in the minority of minorities, it doesn't count because your opinion obviously doesn't represent everyone of that minority.
There's little inclusivity that I've seen - mostly the attempt to silence dissenting opinions and frame their holders as bad, bigoted people. If you want to have a discussion, you have to be willing to face the fact that some people are going to disagree with you, and you have to be willing to accept their existence, and if not welcome then tolerate their presence, and respect their position. And absolutely - argue against them until you're blue in the face, but do so without demonizing.
When the goal is to get more points of view represented, and more types of gaming content made, I am in full support. But when the goal is to get rid of points of view or content that someone doesn't like, I will invariably stand with the opposition.