QueenOfThorns
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well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
Wow.
well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
no scam ever took place
the indiegogo campaign was cancelled
no money was taken
fraud was UNSUCCESSFULLY ATTEMPTED
please continue your awful discussion
Sorry, but if you defraud people so you can get plastic surgery
Well we've now officially passed the threshold of ignorance I'm willing to put up with in this thread. I'm fucking out.
well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
Anyway, if the US would stop being such dicks and get a proper public health system we wouldn't be discussing this anyway. In the UK the surgery is covered by the NHS.
If you have to lie to get people's money, then it's best not to go that route.
She had other options she COULD have tried going through, but she wanted the quick and easy way... she probably didn't expect that it would get so big and garner so much attention. As I said, it was a poorly conceived scheme from the get go.
People need to understand that you can be outraged at what someone has done (such as making up stories and scamming people for money) and still be supportive of them and the cause they represent. I have several friends that are LBGT, and I support them fully... but you can't convince me that the truth should be covered up because the issue is sensitive. In fact, if anything this should get MORE attention... not less. Not because I'd ever want anything to harm her, but because if you keep the bad effects of these things in the shadows, they will ALWAYS be there.
We grow as a society when we hear truths, even if they are harsh ones versus just ignoring them and hoping the problems will somehow go away.
we know exactly why it was cancelled now, and igg handled it in exactly the right way by saying they determined that fraud was involved and refunded the money. no further explanation was warranted....And why was it cancelled again? How can anyone think it was ok for her to do that? And just because it didn't go through makes it ok? So attempted murder...
well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
I believe that the process to get it on the NHS is fairly long and complex, certainly not a procedure that doctor's take likely at all.
You can't just stroll into a doctors surgery and demand a sex change, and it certainly wouldn't be performed just because someone felt that they were confused.
I'm sure there are people actively hunting but that doesn't need to be the case to show how terrible this shit is. From the wiki linked above.
Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to go fucking puke.
- Demetrio Apaza Mayta was tortured, beaten, burned, and stabbed to death by a mob of hundreds of people in El Alto, Bolivia for no reason other than her gender identity. The police claimed that they had no leads and arrested no suspects, although the murder took place in broad daylight.
- Thapelo Makutle, a 23-year-old who was also known as 'Queen Bling', was an LGBT activist who got into an argument with men regarding her sexuality at a bar in Kuruman, South Africa. The men followed her home, broke into her apartment and killed her by slitting her throat. She was also mutilated; her genitals were cut off and put into her mouth.
- Monchi de Jesús Crisóstomo de León was a sex worker who was murdered in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. The suspected perpetrator, a 24 year-old client, explained that he killed her in a fight that started after he realized that she wasnt a woman.
- Angie Zapata was a trans woman who was murdered on 17 July 2008, in Greeley, Colorado. Her death was the first ever case involving a transgender victim to be ruled a hate crime. Colorado is one of only eleven states that protect transgender victims under hate crime laws in the United States. Allen Andrade, who learned eighteen-year-old Angie was transgender after meeting her and spending several days with her, beat her to death with a fire extinguisher. In his arrest affidavit, Andrade calls Zapata "it", and during his trial a tape was played of a phone conversation in which he told his girl friend "gay things need to die". Andrade's attorneys used a gay panic defense, implying that Andrade suddenly "snapped" when he learned Zapata was not born biologically female. On 22 April 2009, Andrade was found guilty of first degree murder, hate crimes, and car/ID theft. He was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole.
Wow.
Don't insult other country's health services when America's health service remains a large component in the reason why America's still an international laughing stock.well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
well is it absolutely 100% medically necessary for that person to continue living?
Bullshit. Allistair is a good man and doesn't deserve this. God help us all if doing your job as a journalists is now a fireable offense...
well thats BS
why should my tax dollars have to pay for SRS? Your confused so i lose out? no way. should absolutely be a fringe operation, like elective plastic surgery
Bullshit. Allistair is a good man and doesn't deserve this. God help us all if doing your job as a journalists is now a fireable offense...
If you have to lie to get people's money, then it's best not to go that route.
She had other options she COULD have tried going through, but she wanted the quick and easy way... she probably didn't expect that it would get so big and garner so much attention. As I said, it was a poorly conceived scheme from the get go.
People need to understand that you can be outraged at what someone has done (such as making up stories and scamming people for money) and still be supportive of them and the cause they represent. I have several friends that are LBGT, and I support them fully... but you can't convince me that the truth should be covered up because the issue is sensitive. In fact, if anything this should get MORE attention... not less. Not because I'd ever want anything to harm her, but because if you keep the bad effects of these things in the shadows, they will ALWAYS be there.
We grow as a society when we hear truths, even if they are harsh ones versus just ignoring them and hoping the problems will somehow go away.
SRS is the last part of a long transition period that is overseen by a doctor and psychiatrist the entire way. It's not something you simply walk in and get done. It takes place after years of passing and making sure this is the right case and you're not making a mistake.
You are correct. It's a costly, expensive, and long process.
Don't insult other country's health services when America's health service remains a large component in the reason why America's still an international laughing stock.
Also inb4 NeoGAFShitPosts and/or ban.
we know exactly why it was cancelled now, and igg handled it in exactly the right way by saying they determined that fraud was involved and refunded the money. no further explanation was warranted.
No, you don't.dont i have a right to no agree where my tax money is going?
the point is that the decision to come out is hers and no one else's. not yours, alistair's, or "society's"If you have to lie to get people's money, then it's best not to go that route.
She had other options she COULD have tried going through, but she wanted the quick and easy way... she probably didn't expect that it would get so big and garner so much attention. As I said, it was a poorly conceived scheme from the get go.
People need to understand that you can be outraged at what someone has done (such as making up stories and scamming people for money) and still be supportive of them and the cause they represent. I have several friends that are LBGT, and I support them fully... but you can't convince me that the truth should be covered up because the issue is sensitive. In fact, if anything this should get MORE attention... not less. Not because I'd ever want anything to harm her, but because if you keep the bad effects of these things in the shadows, they will ALWAYS be there.
We grow as a society when we hear truths, even if they are harsh ones versus just ignoring them and hoping the problems will somehow go away.
im not saying its an overnight operation like a breast enlargement or something
im just saying... personally i wouldnt donate money to someone for it because i dont agree with the idea... so under a national healthplan a controversial procedure like that would feel like forced donation to me... dont i have a right to no agree where my tax money is going?
Remember, this isn't some magical sex change on a whim issue. This is a real diagnosis that psychologists and physicians agree causes extreme stress and depression to the individual affected.
In a lot of cases, yes. Gender dysphoria is a real thing and I'd educate myself on it before saying that it's just something people decide to because they're "confused". It's not something you do lightly. It takes years. If you don't think it's medically necessary, take a look at the suicide rate with it untreated. It's as real a medical condition as depression, and it's covered, so what makes it different and somehow unworthy?well is it absolutely 100% medically necessary for that person to continue living?
im all for a national healthcare service in theory but good god the opportunities for abuse are way too plentiful
where do you draw the line on whats medically an absolute necessity and whats not?
I maintain my belief they IGG actually suspected money laundering, and considering that the Indie Stone donated the smart end of $5k in one lump sum into a campaign that had been fairly slow up to that point, I can see why their algorithms triggered.
No, you don't.
im not saying its an overnight operation like a breast enlargement or something
im just saying... personally i wouldnt donate money to someone for it because i dont agree with the idea... so under a national healthplan a controversial procedure like that would feel like forced donation to me... dont i have a right to no agree where my tax money is going?
"I have independently confirmed that Sagal's fundraiser was based on false pretenses and untrue claims, which is the reason it was cancelled by IndieGoGo. Sagal is now receiving medical attention following her suicide attempt. Due to my personal involvement with the story I am not at liberty to disclose more than that."
That's the way you balance your ethical obligations as a journalist to report a story with your ethical obligations as a person not to unnecessarily compromise someone's privacy and do unwarranted harm to them. Reporting the fraud was valid; outing her was tabloid journalism.
Please don't tell me there was a need, especially now, for this story to come out. The fundraiser was cancelled weeks ago and the money was refunded, it was no longer a matter of anyone's interest why it was done so, certainly not anyone who wasn't a donor in the first place. That part of the story was over. Continuing to report on this story after the fact, unilaterally deciding against both her wishes and the orders of your editor to out her on Twitter by misgendering her without even considering the ramifications to an-already suicidal person is grossly irresponsible. Even real political journalists will sometimes warn a subject ahead of time that a damaging story is going to come out, and they will intentionally sit on a story if they feel it might lead to personal danger for the subject -- and they are public figures whose lives are in the public interest, which Sagal is not.
To wit: I am obviously not defending her lying, or her roping in of well-intentioned people into her scheme with suicide threats. I realize that Sagal put Pinsof into an extraordinarily difficult situation as a person. I don't know exactly how I would have acted in that situation either, and I don't think that he should be fired for this. But he followed up it in just about the worst possible way, because it served nobody's interest to do what he did. Not one person is better off now that she is outed than they were before, and it served absolutely no public or useful good to disclose it after the fact other than to cause even more distress to an already frail person. (One could potentially make an argument that it would have been valid to do while the fundraiser was ongoing. But it wasn't.)
That part of her life is quite simply irrelevant to anyone who isn't personally affiliated with her. Should she have done what she did? No. But that does not justify causing grossly more injurious harm to her under the guise of helping her. If Pinsof was concerned for her well-being, he could have attempted to get her help where she lived, and contact support groups in her area. But he didn't, and it's difficult to believe that he genuinely thought he was outing her for her own benefit, as he claims. A moment's thought should reveal how this could not possibly benefit Sagal in any way.
So the question is, who does benefit from outing her? Absolutely no one.
i dont? im not saying i can actually change it. doesnt mean i have to agree with it or not voice my opposition. thats crazy
im not saying its an overnight operation like a breast enlargement or something
im just saying... personally i wouldnt donate money to someone for it because i dont agree with the idea... so under a national healthplan a controversial procedure like that would feel like forced donation to me... dont i have a right to no agree where my tax money is going?
where did i insult other country's health services? i said i agree with the idea in theory. but the truth is i know how people really work and how abusive people are of opportunities.
Of course it's a forced donation, it's a tax.
You don't have to agree with the idea to understand that medical practitioners have deemed it necessary in severe circumstances.
we know exactly why it was cancelled now, and igg handled it in exactly the right way by saying they determined that fraud was involved and refunded the money. no further explanation was warranted.
the point is that the decision to come out is hers and no one else's. not yours, alistair's, or "society's"
outing someone against their will in a case like this was not only completely unnecessary but tantamount to emotional violence
i understand
which is why i hope a universal healthcare system never comes to america
She fired the first bullet by commiting financial harm via fraud... She's not some innocent person who got targeted and outted by someone trying to do her harm. She put herself in a situation to be discovered, and Alistair wasn't even the first person to "out" her! It was on several forums and heavily speculated before hand.
He tweeted what he found from other places and was fired and now risks his whole life being destroyed because he spoke the truth about someone who committed fraud.
dont i have a right to no agree where my tax money is going?
i understand
which is why i hope a universal healthcare system never comes to america
i dont? im not saying i can actually change it. doesnt mean i have to agree with it or not voice my opposition. thats crazy
absolutely none of this justifies his actionsShe fired the first bullet by commiting financial harm via fraud... She's not some innocent person who got targeted and outted by someone trying to do her harm. She put herself in a situation to be discovered, and Alistair wasn't even the first person to "out" her! It was on several forums and heavily speculated before hand.
he's been suspended, not fired, for breaches of ethics that would get him drummed out of real journalism immediatelyHe tweeted what he found from other places and was fired and now risks his whole life being destroyed because he spoke the truth about someone who committed fraud.
i understand
which is why i hope a universal healthcare system never comes to america
Basically,
1) People saying that individuals have no right to privacy where sexual orientation is concerned (...) are insane.
According to a few posts up above, your private system is already funding SRS.
i understand
which is why i hope a universal healthcare system never comes to america
no one is saying this guy should be prosecuted, so basically this whole post is arguing with a straw manMay as well take up the first point. There is no recognition of a "right to privacy" that private citizens are compelled -- by law -- to recognize. The implied, but not explicit, "right to privacy" in the Constitution does not make any law about private citizens, only about the States (and in effect, other institutions regulated by the states, for instance, private health providers, institutions of education, and so on). There simply is no right to privacy over sexual orientation in so far as that right is, in this case, being "violated" by a private individual.
In addition to that, even though a right to privacy protecting individuals from the Government has been implied for some ~50 years of ConLaw, an implicit right to privacy would likely not trump an explicit right to free speech. But, this paragraph is irrelevant because of the first paragraph: When talking about the actions of individual citizens, there is no compulsion to respect a "right to privacy," it only applies to the government (and institutions regulated by the government).
She fired the first bullet by commiting financial harm via fraud... She's not some innocent person who got targeted and outted by someone trying to do her harm. She put herself in a situation to be discovered, and Alistair wasn't even the first person to "out" her! It was on several forums and heavily speculated before hand.
He tweeted what he found from other places and was fired and now risks his whole life being destroyed because he spoke the truth about someone who committed fraud.