I do hope that the US stops fetishizing and exoticizing "Asian things" soon. It would probably reduce these kinds of incidents a lot more, and maybe things from various cultures would actually be shown "respect" in ways that were more than mere lip service.
I feel that you misunderstand how the Japanese view foreigners wearing Kimono.
They really don't care, it's not always worn there with respect at all anyway. To them, it's basically just a form of clothing that they understand is traditionally worn, that's it.
Think of it like food.
Man, my GF will walk past Wagamama and Yo!Sushi and sigh each time. "It's not really Japanese food" she will say. Which is fine, I mean, it's westernised and it's done so for logistical reasons as well as making it enjoyable by people who don't like some of flavours they use originally.
But then again, there are places even in Japan that don't do it
right. It's not racism. It's not cultural appropriation or whatever, it's just basically the same thing as Olive Garden. It's how our cultures interact and in turn, create some pretty exciting combinations or end up giving us deplorable things like a Sushi Pizza.
Japanese like taking things from around the word that are good ideas, essentially making them "Japanese" and perfecting them. You see this everywhere within Japan, so a cheap Kimono at WallMart or a bath towel shaped as one isn't offending anyone. None of it is created to hurt anyone's feelings.
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I mean, if I dress up as an American Cowboy, is that racist or hurtful? There are stereotypes floating around everywhere about Americans in the UK, and just about anything foreign to anything.
If you, who I'm just going on a limb to say not Japanese, feel annoyed and offended when people say to YOU --
- you must look good in a Kimono
- do you eat any weird things
- blablablablablabla
Then it's their misinformation. What sucks about being a minority is that you will constantly meet people who haven't found whatever it is about you that makes you different to be normal. So you basically have to fix their ignorance for the next Asian they come across -- whereas the majority will only get that on holiday.
I know that you being Asian (I'm also guessing here) basically means nothing. You're just American to me. If I met you I'd probably ask you an ignorant question like, are the burgers really big over there? etc.
Even if these Asian culture items weren't being fetishized etc. and were only coming over through imports when they are done properly, it would have the same effect. A protest stopping people from learning that Kimono is a Japanese thing, and not basically every Asian culture (and that there are more than 2 or 3) can't be the answer here.
I may be WAY over my head here.
So kimonos are cultural appropriation from China too ? Japanese people should be ashamed and stop wearing those...
I don't see the problem with cultural appropriation personally. Culture is meant to be shared and spread. There is probably nothing in any culture that isn't inspired by another culture.
Well if you think about it... SO MUCH is. And that's a good thing.