I've got a lot on my plate lately and I need some advice/confirmation (or not).
Been seeing this cool, introverted girl for 3 weeks now. I'll call her Lee. Haven't done more than kiss and sleep in the same bed. This saturday she was at a show I organised. After the bands performed me and my buddy play a "DJ set". My "toxic" ex I talked about here was also present. Last time I organised a show, my ex was there as well, and I kissed a girl in front of her eyes. Shit hit the fan, and I complained about it here.
During our set she saw that Lee was talking to me, it made me feel uncomfortable because of what happened last time. My ex noticed this and decided to confront me. While I was behind the DJ booth. Spinning records. While people were having a good time to the music we played. I was taken by surprise and did not know how to react. I received a scolding, and she asked me why I didn't feel at ease. I replied truthfully before it started to dawn that I don't have to take that shit anymore. I kicked her out and continued the party. Party's over and we hit the local pub. Lee's there and so is my ex (but of course she is). She starts giving me shit again, I walk away, and then she starts giving me shit AGAIN. Me and Lee went home.
It messed me up pretty bad. I felt anger and despair. This has been going on for soooo long, and I've taken strides to eliminate her out of my life. My town is so small, there's no getting around meeting her from time to time. And that's when shit goes awry. It also made me doubt if I should be dating in the first place. Lee is great, pretty, smart, etc... But I just don't see myself being in a relationship. Not with her, not with anybody. My ex trying to provoke me makes me doubt myself even more.
Something different: A different girl asked me out for a drink too. What's the etiquette when dating 2 different girls? Do you tell them about eachother? Do I keep my mouth shut?