I really hated how everyone tried to paint not liking Skylar as sexism just because Walt is a bad guy; when characters like Kavanaugh in The Shield were just as hated even though Vick Mackey was a 'bad guy' also.
I remember that being a decent point you made, but there also wasn't a lot of complaining about how Kavanaugh "ruined the show" or "dragged stuff down." My perception of his character in that particular arc was that people hated him in the way the show
meant for him to be hated (and Whitaker played him very, very well, just as Gunn played Skyler very, very well). I don't know that the show necessarily meant for Skyler to eat all the shit a lot of the fanbase gave her (which prompted Gilligan himself to speak out on that topic and use the term "misogyny" to describe a certain aspect of it). I'm pretty certain (although I wasn't very active in Shield discussions on internet forums at the time it was airing) people
weren't using Whitaker's physical/vocal attributes and his race as easy go-tos when criticizing the character, either, where we both know that sorta shit tended to happen
quite a bit with Gunn & her voice/gender.
I don't think
everyone tried to draw as thick and clear a line between "dislike Skyler" and "sexism," but there were definitely more than a few instances in which it became sort of obvious in the way things were being argued that sexism
was playing a part. It's why I was in there talking about strong, good faith arguments separating themselves out from the disingenuous ones trying to deflect/obfuscate the sexism at the root of their problems.
This sorta shit happened a lot in the Ghostbusters threads, too: It wasn't that everyone who disliked Ghostbusters (or even the
idea of that reboot) was a sexist. Hell - I'm not a fan of that movie, myself, really. The problems came when people who had their own reasons for disliking Ghostbusters not only made those reasons known (fine) but further tried to assert that the obvious sexism underscoring many of the arguments
wasn't really there (not fine) and people calling it out were somehow doing the discussion a disservice overall.
That's the point where most discussions derailed, because it was no longer a conversation about the fiction itself, it became a conversation about whether or not sexism could be observed to exist, and what it might have looked like, and whether you saw what it was you think you really saw. Which sounds like either set-up for, or the beginnings of a good ol' gaslighting session.
Anyway, Skyler isn't written to play like the "good guy" and Anna Gunn didn't play her as someone immediately, simplistically sympathetic. She's got a moral scale and hers tends towards the gray in its own ways. And her choices as an actor can be grating
on top of her character being made to act gratingly in response to Walt.
but while I don't know that the majority of people who "hate Skyler" hate her because of ingrained (and possibly unidentified) sexism, I do know that dismissing that aspect out of hand as being unworthy of consideration doesn't make sense, and is
probably a little unfair in some ways.