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After reading this topic, it seems I really do need to seek help for my drug problem, however. I am going into rehab. I am sorry for any distress I caused. I just want everyone to know though that the money you donated went only to my Mom. The rest is my fault for opening my mouth and being insensitive to your kindness. I am truly sorry for any pain I caused over this. You did good when you donated. My Mom has been genuinely helped. Never forget that. That's all I have to say.
I just got back from work and thought I'd respond to the other topic about me using the fundraising money for drugs (or whatever the crazy theory is), since certain individuals are nothing if not gossip marms who think the lowest of people.
The whole purpose of this fundraiser was so that I could help my Mother get her head above water, and simultaneously, as you can see from the plea for help thread...
...not have to keep going into whatever savings I have to keep her on the appropriate medical care while also helping my Dad reduce the burden he had to pay, because he was working three jobs just to not go bankrupt.
My drug expenditure this week was a special occasion, that was to make the final election week go fast, and it did not cost me much at all. It cost me about $400, and I had been saving that little nest egg for just such a week.
If you guys didn't realize that by default not having to use my savings anymore to keep my Mom's head above the water was going to naturally free up some cash for myself, including allowing me to start saving again for my wedding (because I had used up all the cash I had saved for my honey moon, wedding, and house on this), I am sorry if you felt misled. I don't know how I would have asked for this sort of help that wouldn't also have some residual benefit for me, since I was helping my Mom stay above water, so I apologize if you guys thought it would not help me whatsoever.
If it would help put your mind at ease, I can record a video of my Mom (as soon as I visit her again) giving thanks to neoGAF (I wanted to do that anyway but she has been really sick) and confirming what the money is going toward, that's no problem at all.
This is what my Mom looks like recently. As you can see her hair has fallen out from treatments for her illness:
I apologize for any misunderstanding. I have my vices. When I was struggling to keep her above water, I just went to much cheaper vices. But in any event, it doesn't matter since not one penny of this went to me. it all went to my Mom and her medical care.
As an aside, to those of you who were all 'I work such and such place and i bet they wouldn't like an addict', you're right, but by our contract I would be told to go to rehab. I would not lose my job. It has happened before. But I would say it is pretty disgusting that you would try to cause someone their job, if it was a factor.
After reading this topic, it seems I really do need to seek help for my drug problem, however. I am going into rehab. I am sorry for any distress I caused. I just want everyone to know though that the money you donated went only to my Mom. The rest is my fault for opening my mouth and being insensitive to your kindness. I am truly sorry for any pain I caused over this. You did good when you donated. My Mom has been genuinely helped. Never forget that. That's all I have to say.
I just got back from work and thought I'd respond to the other topic about me using the fundraising money for drugs (or whatever the crazy theory is), since certain individuals are nothing if not gossip marms who think the lowest of people.
The whole purpose of this fundraiser was so that I could help my Mother get her head above water, and simultaneously, as you can see from the plea for help thread...
Since then, it has been a fight with her medical insurance to try to cover the cost of the things she requires for her illness, including the dialysis. As her medical bills escalated, I've gone into my savings until I've gone broke.
...not have to keep going into whatever savings I have to keep her on the appropriate medical care while also helping my Dad reduce the burden he had to pay, because he was working three jobs just to not go bankrupt.
My drug expenditure this week was a special occasion, that was to make the final election week go fast, and it did not cost me much at all. It cost me about $400, and I had been saving that little nest egg for just such a week.
If you guys didn't realize that by default not having to use my savings anymore to keep my Mom's head above the water was going to naturally free up some cash for myself, including allowing me to start saving again for my wedding (because I had used up all the cash I had saved for my honey moon, wedding, and house on this), I am sorry if you felt misled. I don't know how I would have asked for this sort of help that wouldn't also have some residual benefit for me, since I was helping my Mom stay above water, so I apologize if you guys thought it would not help me whatsoever.
If it would help put your mind at ease, I can record a video of my Mom (as soon as I visit her again) giving thanks to neoGAF (I wanted to do that anyway but she has been really sick) and confirming what the money is going toward, that's no problem at all.
This is what my Mom looks like recently. As you can see her hair has fallen out from treatments for her illness:
I apologize for any misunderstanding. I have my vices. When I was struggling to keep her above water, I just went to much cheaper vices. But in any event, it doesn't matter since not one penny of this went to me. it all went to my Mom and her medical care.
As an aside, to those of you who were all 'I work such and such place and i bet they wouldn't like an addict', you're right, but by our contract I would be told to go to rehab. I would not lose my job. It has happened before. But I would say it is pretty disgusting that you would try to cause someone their job, if it was a factor.