You know what's sad? The fact that you would group LGBT and people of color with fat people.
One is a physical deficiency. Being fat is never normal. It's not where our bodies want to be. It's unhealthy and brings about a myriad of problems. There's really no way to positively look at obesity.
On the other hand, you have people's skin color and sexual orientation. None of these attributes are brought about by a person's individual choice and there's nothing wrong with any of them.
It's rather insulting that you'd view these things as similar in any way.
It's funny that attitudes in this thread are more harmful than being fat is.
You're just Ramblin.
I don't agree with this actually. If I didn't use it in an insulting manner and they were insulted, then that isn't my fault.
the problem with weight, is that there is no nice way of putting it, because a lot of the offence that people feel from having it pointed out is that they've been reminded of it at all. like i said, this isn't something like calling someone a nigger, where the insult stems not from the fact that it signifies a black person, but that it is was used to describe a slave class.
no one should be treated like a sub human, but I don't have to treat everyone equally either. i can think less of a person for exhibiting certain behaviours. now, it might not be easy for them to change even if they want to, and i get that. but i will continue to think higher of the people who recognised the issues that those certain behaviours were causing and who made every effort to change them.
In fact, the attitude I'm prescribing is how you encourage people to get better and be better. You lose ground with someone if you treat them as less and praise the ones that change because it generates a negative view of their existence. But if you treat someone as equal and praise them for being even better, then they'll feel good about themselves and will enact changes far more easily. As many people say, positive reinforcement is far better than negative reinforcement and treating everyone equally is a part of it.
In fact, the attitude I'm prescribing is how you encourage people to get better and be better. You lose ground with someone if you treat them as less and praise the ones that change because it generates a negative view of their existence. But if you treat someone as equal and praise them for being even better, then they'll feel good about themselves and will enact changes far more easily. As many people say, positive reinforcement is far better than negative reinforcement and treating everyone equally is a part of it.
So rather than ban people, mods here will just complimenting them on the goods posts they've made?
It actually has happened, more than you might think.
God damn, first Evilore endorses misogynistic slurs and rape jokes, now fat phobia. I'm done with this forum.
God damn, first Evilore endorses misogynistic slurs and rape jokes, now fat phobia. I'm done with this forum.
God damn, first Evilore endorses misogynistic slurs and rape jokes, now fat phobia. I'm done with this forum.
With reactions like these, I wonder how some gaffers survive day to day life.
Please, it's lardophobia.
Ban trans fat. I find the term offensive towards LGBT individuals.
God damn, first Evilore endorses misogynistic slurs and rape jokes, now fat phobia. I'm done with this forum.
I'd honestly love to see some of the shit gaffers say said out loud in real life.
Typical GAF would be like, we should learn to appreciate women of thickness than stick model thin models...quite honestly surprised there isn't more of a defense force here
With reactions like these, I wonder how some gaffers survive day to day life.
Like the overreactions about morbidly obese women being called fat (not even directly, either)? If so I agree.
It's funny that attitudes in this thread are more harmful than being fat is.
Attitudes generally don't cause diabetes and heart disease.
Like the overreactions about morbidly obese women being called fat (not even directly, either)? If so I agree.
Attitudes generally don't cause diabetes and heart disease.
Shouta said:But attitudes cause bullying, eating disorders, and suicides.
That's what I'd like to know, honestly.Why would you fight for respect from people whose opinions you don't care about?
Lol, what does my participation in this discussion has to do with anything?But hey, look at you still posting in this thread. It's pretty hard to just stop caring isn't it?
But attitudes cause bullying, eating disorders, and suicides (or self-esteem issues that may lead to it).
No, don't fuck fat people. You probably won't feel very good about about yourself afterwards.
Real response: whether you're fat or not doesn't matter to me. Especially over the internet, it's irrelevant.
Your positions do matter to me. That post is in response to Lambtron resenting the people who compliment him on making fitness progress, because that would mean that being a fit person is better than being a fat person. And then crying about "thin privilege." We should not emotionally or physically abuse fat people, but we should always treat the fat acceptance movement with derision, and speak plainly about what being fat means to your life, your future, the people around you, and society at large. It's all negative. Fit EviLore is a hundred times the person Fat EviLore is in every way but volume.
No, the type of posts where people reveal their ugly opinions about various groups that they wouldn't dare utter elsewhere.
I'm glad these people exist or else I may have not had the motivation to drop from obese to a healthy weight. Isolated from the opinions of others, I would have been perfectly happy with my horrible diet and lack of physical activity.
I agree - being a fat-arse is very low on the scale. If you're fat, you can more than likely change, or just accept it - whatever. Not the same as being LBGT or a different colour skin.
I'm glad these people exist or else I may have not had the motivation to drop from obese to a healthy weight. Isolated from the opinions of others, I would have been perfectly happy with my horrible diet and lack of physical activity.
I just want to make sure you're aware that you are essentially endorsing mean spirited peer pressure and ridicule because it could possibly motivate someone to improve themselves. If I went around telling most of the people I meet that they are stupid and ignorant, and this happens to motivate someone in some small part to go back to school and get more educated, does that suggest that what I did was good?
Of course not, unless you are absolutely Machiavellian.
As a completely separate and equally valid argument, it has generally been shown that positive reinforcement is more effective at motivating people than negative reinforcement. Instead of using the whip, we could use the carrot. So if simply motivating people is our only goal, being mean is not only mean (by definition), it's likely to be less effective.
Well, those people very likely added many years to my life so I'm not going to be against them.
By the way, what is positive reinforcement considering there seems to be no gentle way to tell someone they're overweight.
i just dont know what elese you would call them.
Well, those people very likely added many years to my life so I'm not going to be against them.
By the way, what is positive reinforcement considering there seems to be no gentle way to tell someone they're overweight.
Yes, fat is the only conceivable word. We need to limit our vocabulary to words 4 letters in length or less.
well "latino"? maybe "italian?" would've been racists, "girls/ladies" would've been sexist. We could say portly or chubby, and sure, but that's the same thing.
well "black" would've been racists, "girls/ladies" would've been sexist. We could say portly or chubby, and sure, but that's the same thing.
well "latino"? maybe "italian?" would've been racists, "girls/ladies" would've been sexist. We could say portly or chubby, and sure, but that's the same thing.
"Table # 42"
"Table # 42" would have worked just fine. "Three women" if you absolutely insist on a descriptive title. You could also simply not label the chit at all. Those are just off the top of my head, of course: I'm sure I could come up with more innocuous examples if needed.
Sure, that's probably the appriate thing to do, but really, it's 3 letters, does it really offend people that much to be called names?
well, at least he didn't call them lady chinky eyes. That article made me laugh pretty hard. Sure, that's probably the appriate thing to do, but really, it's 3 letters, does it really offend people that much to be called names?
You should become a good samaritan and tell little kids they are fat. If you start shaming them young, they won't have to go through the pain and embarrassment of going through puberty as obese and avoid bullying. Of course, this is not going far enough. You need to inform their parents how terrible they are and if they are also overweight, which the odds are they are, do not refrain from letting them know how fat they are.
You'll receive accolades for your community service. Post pictures of your medals for us to see.
Parents with obese kids should be called out on it. I may be a shitty person but nobody in my life is going to raise kids on soda, happy meals, and candy bars without me making it known I disapprove.
Parents with obese kids should be called out on it. I may be a shitty person but nobody in my life is going to raise kids on soda, happy meals, and candy bars without me making it known I disapprove.
Seems like only 20 posts ago that someone mentioned how ineffective negative reinforcement is as a tool to achieve positive results.