You're being corny af.
It's impossible to not be exposed to white men. They are everywhere, in media, in public. I know for a fact that I am not attracted to white men except for a miniscule amount.
Labeling that as "fitting an entire race into a box of stereotypical and pseudo racist aesthetics" is ridiculous.
I know what I'm attracted to, and it isn't white men.
You sound delirious and also like a total dude.
I'm a mixed (puerto rican and german, for those wondering) pansexual cis dude and while I don't have any specific preferences on race, I do tend to see myself gravitating towards people of color more often than not just because by and large they tend to be easier to talk to when it comes to stuff like identity politics, rather than trying to have to diffuse the situation before it even begins. Likewise with hetereosexual people - I've never really been attracted to straight dudes and while I don't personally exclude
all of them, I also have issues developing romantic relationships with straight women because a lot of them think that pansexuality is inherently inseparable from cheating, polygamy, etc. the same way there's a stigma regarding bisexual people.
All in all, while this isn't
exclusive to straight relationships, I feel like it's way more
common for a lot of hetereosexual partnerships to feel more like an expectation rather than an actual, personal desire. While I get the idea of wanting to be with someone, I feel like there's a certain level of "predisposed commitment" that makes a lot of straight relationships (albeit generally not
successful ones, mind you) seem like either side is just sticking to it for the sake of it or because they feel they have to, rather than trying to find someone whose company they actually enjoy.
That being said, though, I don't think I'd personally consider myself to
never want to be with someone straight or white, it's just not as easy to find people in those demographics I can actually hit it off with.
