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Academy's New Voting Rules Raise Questions, Concerns and Anger Among Members

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Old white men are the most oppressed group in all of society.

It's true. Did you know that they are the group that is most likely die of a hypothetical heart attack during a traffic jam caused by a protest?

I love you.

Pardon me for using textbook antidiscrimination law to talk about discrimination.

Well it'd help if the textbook you're pulling this definition from was actually right.
 
You're not gonna get the pardon, but you can move past the mistake to address the direct response I gave you that explains more clearly how this isn't age discrimination.

Fine.

Then you probably should have figured a way to make your point without doing that because jeeeezus.

Academy members who do not meet the Awards voting criteria won't get their status revoked as Academy members. They will still belong to the Academy, they will still attend those events, get those gift bags, and see those films without having to pay for a ticket and enter a theater. Their influence will still be noted and felt. They'll likely turn into lobbyists, if you want to make a modern-day political comparison.

But the Academy has decided that the people who get to vote on who gets their awards have to have contributed in some fashion to the industry proper within the last 10 years, and that's IF they haven't actually secured a nomination, at which point they're lifetime voters no matter what. That's not a particularly stringent restriction at all.

This isn't age-based disenfranchisement. It's more like telling people who don't pay rent that they don't get a say in how the house gets decorated. Nobody's getting kicked out of the house. They're just not allowed to help hang the photos on the wall.

I really don't see why retaining other privileges of membership in the academy is relevant. Consider a company that wanted to diminish the influence of Jains (to take an uncontroversial group since this audience appears completely unable to separate object-level preferences from meta-level principles) on their votes to determine company strategy and retain CEOs or whatnot. Jains frequently wear turbans, though not all do, with other groups using them infrequently or not at all, so they pass a measure saying anyone who wears turbans on more than half the days of the year loses their voting rights. Jains still retain the ability to buy and sell shares and make money off of the stock. Still religious discrimination, no?

Perhaps there really isn't anti-elderly bias going on here. Maybe they really do want to limit the ability of people who are out of touch with the modern film industry to not have undue influence over their awards. But if this were the case, how is this supposed to help solve discrimination? The academy's messaging only makes sense if you buy that 1.) old people are racist 2.) This measure prevents old people from having as much influence as they did in the past and 3.) therefore the academy awards will be less racist now.

To sum up, in general under American jurisprudence a measure falls afoul of anti-discrimination statutes when:

1.) The measure has a disproportionate impact on a protected group.
2.) The measure is adopted with the goal of disproportionately impacting that protected group.

To prove the case:
1.) Age is a protected group, and I think most people of good faith would in any case agree that it shouldn't be a valid basis of discrimination. I don't think anyone can deny that a measure that targets retired people has a disproportionate impact on the elderly (or the disabled, for that matter).
2.) Is more debateable. Though again, without the old people are racist -> this gets rid of old people -> therefore our awards will be less racist the messaging of the academy makes no sense.

Or, DryEyeRelief did some of my work for me, and collected much of the ageism expressed in this thread here:

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=193134342&postcount=133

And honestly if you don't think similar thoughts are going through the heads of the people who adopted the measure I'm not sure you're engaging in this argument in good faith.
 
Racial issues aside there's always been a critique on the Academy and their being out of touch whenever awards season comes around, the race issue just helps illustrate the point.

Yep. I like how this particular approach just in general should improve the in-touchness of the Academy since it'll mean far more voters will have recently worked in the industry.

Do it in such a way that you're not discriminating against retired people, then.

As written these rules are on net relatively friendly to retirees in the true sense of the word, since a 70 year old with a 21+ year career who then retired would keep their vote, while a 40 year old who washed out after one credit in their 20s would not.

Yeah, and some blacks could pass literacy tests and pay a poll tax, and there's nothing stopping them from getting voting ID today.

This is a really, really stupid argument. Is this really the way you want to go with this?
 

Cerberus

Member
If there a list of people in the Academy somewhere, or at least younger ones?

I imagine Tab Hunter is in because of Damn Yankees, one of the few noteworthy things he was in, so it'd be interesting to see if other actors of similar careers that are not white and see if they are members.

Wikipedia says the entire list isn't public information, but the Academy does release a list of people invited for membership every year.

2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, 2007

There was a large increase in invitations starting in 2013.
 
Perhaps there really isn't anti-elderly bias going on here. Maybe they really do want to limit the ability of people who are out of touch with the modern film industry to not have undue influence over their awards. But if this were the case, how is this supposed to help solve discrimination? .

Speaking of not entering arguments in good faith, how is the answer to the bolded question not self-evident, though?

None of your arguments seem to even be attempting to kneecap the idea that these measures will increase inclusivity and diversity within the ranks of the Academy, or improve the percieved relevancy of the Academy in regards to what people are making and watching. Your argument is simply that old people are now being discriminated against instead of women and minorities.

So I'm left to believe you already honestly recognize the benefits this move would allow, you're just more concerned about the hypothetical lack of benefits being afforded the more elderly members due to the change.

It seems to me the answer is so self-evident you're not even trying to address it.
 
Speaking of not entering arguments in good faith, how is the answer to the bolded question not self-evident, though?

None of your arguments seem to even be attempting to kneecap the idea that these measures will increase inclusivity and diversity within the ranks of the Academy, or improve the percieved relevancy of the Academy in regards to what people are making and watching. Your argument is simply that old people are now being discriminated against instead of women and minorities.

So I'm left to believe you already honestly recognize the benefits this move would allow, you're just more concerned about the hypothetical lack of benefits being afforded the more elderly members due to the change.

It seems to me the answer is so self-evident you're not even trying to address it.

I laid my cards on the table in the very first post I made in this thread.

I'm not a fan of fighting racism with ageism.

So no, I don't doubt that this measure would make the academy awards less racist. I'm just not comfortable with throwing one discriminated against group under the bus to help another. I thought it was wrong when when the racism of the gay community was laid bare in some of the ugly recriminations after we lost Prop 8, and I think so now.
 

commedieu

Banned
Goddamn, these tears just taste so refreshing. The salt really adds some much needed flavor.

Its exactly what everyone said was going on in the background, yet these fools are too stupid to realize they are justifying the need for diversity when they all think its some old ship.
 

Jonm1010

Banned
Fine.



I really don't see why retaining other privileges of membership in the academy is relevant. Consider a company that wanted to diminish the influence of Jains (to take an uncontroversial group since this audience appears completely unable to separate object-level preferences from meta-level principles) on their votes to determine company strategy and retain CEOs or whatnot. Jains frequently wear turbans, though not all do, with other groups using them infrequently or not at all, so they pass a measure saying anyone who wears turbans on more than half the days of the year loses their voting rights. Jains still retain the ability to buy and sell shares and make money off of the stock. Still religious discrimination, no?

Perhaps there really isn't anti-elderly bias going on here. Maybe they really do want to limit the ability of people who are out of touch with the modern film industry to not have undue influence over their awards. But if this were the case, how is this supposed to help solve discrimination? The academy's messaging only makes sense if you buy that 1.) old people are racist 2.) This measure prevents old people from having as much influence as they did in the past and 3.) therefore the academy awards will be less racist now.

To sum up, in general under American jurisprudence a measure falls afoul of anti-discrimination statutes when:

1.) The measure has a disproportionate impact on a protected group.
2.) The measure is adopted with the goal of disproportionately impacting that protected group.

To prove the case:
1.) Age is a protected group, and I think most people of good faith would in any case agree that it shouldn't be a valid basis of discrimination. I don't think anyone can deny that a measure that targets retired people has a disproportionate impact on the elderly (or the disabled, for that matter).
2.) Is more debateable. Though again, without the old people are racist -> this gets rid of old people -> therefore our awards will be less racist the messaging of the academy makes no sense.

Or, DryEyeRelief did some of my work for me, and collected much of the ageism expressed in this thread here:

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=193134342&postcount=133

And honestly if you don't think similar thoughts are going through the heads of the people who adopted the measure I'm not sure you're engaging in this argument in good faith.

A specific age isn't the target. So both your 1 and 2 stated requirements for discrimination under the law doesn't hold up.

Intent is also important and it is why your second attempt at an analogy fails as well. Though this time maybe not as offensively as last time.

You are conflating a rule in a company designed specifically to discriminate against a specific minority with zero functional purpose with regards to executing the duties or requirements of the job to a change in rules that aims to diversify and is built around an outcome that is not discriminatory and who's measures can not be reasonably concluded to actively be targeting any protected group. Which is completely based around functionality and competence to perform the job. And well within the legal boundries to do so. And as Charlequin pointed out, these measures are actually just as likely to hurt young people as they are older ones.

Not sure why you wanted to take this argument of yours the legal route anyways, as that is going to be even harder for you to prove.
 
Fine.
I really don't see why retaining other privileges of membership in the academy is relevant. Consider a company that wanted to diminish the influence of Jains (to take an uncontroversial group since this audience appears completely unable to separate object-level preferences from meta-level principles) on their votes to determine company strategy and retain CEOs or whatnot. Jains frequently wear turbans, though not all do, with other groups using them infrequently or not at all, so they pass a measure saying anyone who wears turbans on more than half the days of the year loses their voting rights. Jains still retain the ability to buy and sell shares and make money off of the stock. Still religious discrimination, no?

People want the academy to be less old white men because with physical evidence they have objectively shown to fail include a diverse group of actors and opinions into their selections. The point of limiting membership to people who are active in the community for 30 years is so they can have a better more informed decision on both the state of movies and the cultural and social norms of the time we live in. And 100% yes, being old makes you far more likely to hold onto racist biases, let's not play dumb here. Some of these people were old enough to be adults during Civil Rights. Why on earth are we going to pretend that an average age of 63 isn't going to be more likely to hold unfair racial and sexist biases than an average age of 33? You wanna really play that angle? This is an actual quote from one of the members

Tab Hunter, 84, a member of the actors branch, concurred, calling the announcement "bullshit." He elaborated, "Obviously, it's a thinly-veiled ploy to kick out older white contributors — the backbone of the industry — to make way for younger, 'politically-correct' voters. The Academy should not cave in to media hype and change the rules without talking to or getting votes from all members first."

But it's an unreasonable conclusion to draw based off history amiright? If you refuse to take into consideration why the changes are being put into effect you're being ignorant.

The changes being introduced do not target you if you are active in the film industry period. Is it going to kick out older members? Yes. Should they have been there in the first place? No they should not. The rule is going to affect you if you were a 25 year old dude who stayed in acting 10 years than quit as well. This is purely a merit based distinction. And with the members that they relieve, they can then fill those spots with an active desire to bring in younger, non white members who can bring forth a new set of opinions and ideas. Is that not blatantly obvious?
 
http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/race/academys-new-voting-rules-raise-858388

Long read, but this is my favorite

Can you imagine what is said behind closed doors?

There's a particular irony there, in that Tab Hunter is a gay man who had to stay in the closet for many years, including the entirety of his acting career, due to pervasive Hollywood homophobia. One would hope he'd be more cognizant of what it feels like to be marginalized in Hollywood and thus sympathetic to the backlash, but of course, that's not how it always works.
 

Jonm1010

Banned
There's a particular irony there, in that Tab Hunter is a gay man who had to stay in the closet for many years, including the entirety of his acting career, due to pervasive Hollywood homophobia. One would hope he'd be more cognizant of what it feels like to be marginalized in Hollywood and thus sympathetic to the backlash, but of course, that's not how it always works.

It's sad but you would be surprised the level of cognitive dissonance people can operate under.

I had the displeasure of working with someone for some time that it slowly became clear he was an unrepentant racist towards black people. He was also gay.

One day a black person made a rather offensive homophobic generalization in the course of dealing with him and afterwards, without even the slightest bit of irony or self awareness, simultaneously decried the homophobia still ingrained in American culture and then said very callously that it doesn't surprise him because all straight black people are homophobic.
 
Then you should have folded when you saw what a shit hand you had.

Droll. Are you then, in favor of increasing discrimination against the elderly if it reduces discrimination against racial minorities? I'm trying to interpret charitably but there's no other way I can think to construe "I don't want to fight racism with ageism" as a "shit hand"
 

Enzom21

Member
There's a particular irony there, in that Tab Hunter is a gay man who had to stay in the closet for many years, including the entirety of his acting career, due to pervasive Hollywood homophobia. One would hope he'd be more cognizant of what it feels like to be marginalized in Hollywood and thus sympathetic to the backlash, but of course, that's not how it always works.

It's not really surprising though. Gay white men aren't always allies to non-whites, the yelling of "nigger" during the Prop 8 protests is proof of that.
 

KTallguy

Banned
This stuck out to me:

Dolores Hart, 77, who for many decades has been a nun at the Abbey of Regina Laudis in Bethlehem, Conn., but who was an actress until the age of 24, and famously gave Elvis Presley his first on-screen kiss. "I've been an Academy member since 1960 and it does mean a lot to me, it really does," said Hart, who emphasized that she diligently watches almost all of the screeners she receives. "The older I get, the more I value the films that come — and I have time to see them." She said she is not sure she'll continue to watch films "if I have no way to offer a comment about them," and feels other members moved to "emeritus" status will react the same way: "I think it's going to destroy their initiative. Why would you sit for all of those hours if you have no say in anything?"

Why should you watch films if you have no say in them? Because you love film for film's sake. You're a member of an Academy whose duty it is to recognize your film industry peers. At a bare minimum, you should have an interest in film without some kind of incentive. This is really a sickening attitude.

I don't think your age is important in regards to membership, though. More important is passion for and contributions to the film industry.
 

Jonm1010

Banned
Droll. Are you then, in favor of increasing discrimination against the elderly if it reduces discrimination against racial minorities? I'm trying to interpret charitably but there's no other way I can think to construe "I don't want to fight racism with ageism" as a "shit hand"
Again, assertions require qualification. So far you are 0-2.

The shittiness of the hand should be pretty self evident at this point with how poorly your gymnastics routine has landed in trying to back up that assertion through poorly thought out analogies and by trying to stretch the definition of ageism to such a point that it basically becomes meaningless.
 

Ridley327

Member
Droll. Are you then, in favor of increasing discrimination against the elderly if it reduces discrimination against racial minorities? I'm trying to interpret charitably but there's no other way I can think to construe "I don't want to fight racism with ageism" as a "shit hand"

Isn't it ageism only if it affects everyone above a certain age? Not every actor 80 and older is being impacted at all by these rule changes, even if they haven't even been nominated before or during their membership. The only thing that's being taken away from those that won't qualify is the voting privilege, and even then, they also gain free membership for the rest of their life, which is one less expense they have to worry about.

And as it's been pointed out, this goes for anyone of any age. An actor that gets in at 20 that chooses to go dark after that is going to get kicked out at 30. Where's the ageism in that? Logan's Run hasn't happened yet!
 
It's sad but you would be surprised the level of cognitive dissonance people can operate under.

I had the displeasure of working with someone for some time that it slowly became clear he was an unrepentant racist towards black people. He was also gay.

One day a black person made a rather offensive homophobic generalization in the course of dealing with him and afterwards, without even the slightest bit of irony or self awareness, simultaneously decried the homophobia still ingrained in American culture and then said very callously that it doesn't surprise him because all straight black people are homophobic.

It's not really surprising though. Gay white men aren't always allies to non-whites, the yelling of "nigger" during the Prop 8 protests is proof of that.

Oh, trust me, I'm not surprised. I'm no stranger to gay men, especially affluent white gay men, having less than progressive views on issues regarding minorities other than themselves.

I just wish it weren't so.
 
Isn't it ageism only if it affects everyone above a certain age?

Perhaps a wikipedia article will suffice rather than my own words.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disparate_impact

Or, you know, the poll tax analogy. The purpose of which would be abundantly obvious to the posters in this thread if they understood that the point of analogies in honest debate isn’t to attach positive or negative affect to something but to explore logical similarities.
 
For some jobs you need to carry several tens of pounds at a time. Sometimes you have to travel very frequently. Sometimes you have to attend long-ass conferences without breaks. Plenty of requirements in plenty of careers also tend to filter out the elderly who are less than able-bodied. It does not make these requirements age-ism. Age-ism are rules specifically designed to discriminate against older people who are perfectly capable of performing their job.

The only argument here seems to be that, because these new requirements also have the side effect of excluding some of the elderly Academy members who haven't worked in 10 years, didn't get nominated for an Oscar, and weren't active for 30 years prior, that therefore it MUST be age-ism. Except for the fact that flash-in-the-pan actors who don't work for 10 years are just as likely to fail these requirements, and except for the fact that the new rules are extremely lenient and can be easily met regardless of age, and except for the fact that you're not kicked out of the Academy and just moved to an "emeritus" status, and except for the fact that the 30-years-then-lifetime-member stipulation is a built-in seniority rule.

Um, so what was that about age-ism?

Or, you know, the poll tax analogy.

You really, really, genuinely believe it's a clever analogy, don't you? You just cannot help yourself.

From your own wikipedia link:

In United States anti-discrimination law, the theory of disparate impact holds that practices in employment, housing, or other areas may be considered discriminatory and illegal if they have a disproportionate "adverse impact" on persons in a protected class.

The onus is on you to prove that it's having a DISPROPORTIONATE adverse impact on the elderly. You seem to be content with just proving that it has AN impact on the elderly while conveniently ignoring all the other instances in which the non-elderly can be impacted.
 

Jonm1010

Banned
Perhaps a wikipedia article will suffice rather than my own words.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disparate_impact

Or, you know, the poll tax analogy. The purpose of which would be abundantly obvious to the posters in this thread if they understood that the point of analogies in honest debate isn’t to attach positive or negative affect to something but to explore logical similarities.
Your analogies aren't logically similar.

I love you continue to ignore everyone that has teared down your awful analogies and arguments and then keep acting like they are solid and proven in subsequent posts.

Once again though, you are abusing terms that don't actually qualify in the situations your using them in. This is not a case of Disparate Impact. A mod no less already pointed this out to you.
 

Enzom21

Member
Oh, trust me, I'm not surprised. I'm no stranger to gay men, especially affluent white gay men, having less than progressive views on issues regarding minorities other than themselves.

I just wish it weren't so.
I doubt that will change anytime soon. They are white before they're anything else.

The entire prop 8 thing still gets me heated.

You and me both. I absolutely despise Dan Savage for pushing that narrative and then pretending like he did nothing wrong when the real numbers came out.
Black people are always the scapegoat.
 
Droll. Are you then, in favor of increasing discrimination against the elderly if it reduces discrimination against racial minorities? I'm trying to interpret charitably but there's no other way I can think to construe "I don't want to fight racism with ageism" as a "shit hand"

This...is...not...happening.

Elderly discrimination would be kicking them all out atva certain age.

They've instituted instead a requirement of actually being still sort of active in the industry. This is to ensure the nomination and awards process better reflects the world of today.
 

Ridley327

Member
Perhaps a wikipedia article will suffice rather than my own words.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disparate_impact

Or, you know, the poll tax analogy. The purpose of which would be abundantly obvious to the posters in this thread if they understood that the point of analogies in honest debate isn’t to attach positive or negative affect to something but to explore logical similarities.

I think the issue really doesn't apply to Academy membership since you don't need to be a member of the Academy to work in the industry, and I'd wager that an overwhelming portion of the domestic film industry over the past 88 years hasn't and likely never would have been or will be members.

Think of it like this: the guild of profession is the college, while the Academy is the extracurricular club down the hall. You need the college for a higher education, but you don't need the club to be in college.
 

Jonm1010

Banned
For some jobs you need to carry several tens of pounds at a time. Sometimes you have to travel very frequently. Sometimes you have to attend long-ass conferences without breaks. Plenty of requirements in plenty of careers also tend to filter out the elderly who are less than able-bodied. It does not make these requirements age-ism. Age-ism are rules specifically designed to discriminate against older people who are perfectly capable of performing their job.

The only argument here seems to be that, because these new requirements also have the side effect of excluding some of the elderly Academy members who haven't worked in 10 years, didn't get nominated for an Oscar, and weren't active for 30 years prior, that therefore it MUST be age-ism. Except for the fact that flash-in-the-pan actors who don't work for 10 years are just as likely to fail these requirements, and except for the fact that the new rules are extremely lenient and can be easily met regardless of age, and except for the fact that you're not kicked out of the Academy and just moved to an "emeritus" status, and except for the fact that the 30-years-then-lifetime-member stipulation is a built-in seniority rule.

Um, so what was that about age-ism?

Great post and encapsutiom for the lunacy of this ageist attack.

He's broadening the term(knowingly or unknowingly) to such a point it's definition would become meaningless.

If something can be construed in his mind to have a detrimental effect to older people, even if it is completely in line with completely rational and objective requirements to be employed or qualify for a job or duty, it becomes prejudice in his world and thus it is fair to analogise it to true objective and concerted cases of institutional prejudice like poll taxes or banning religious headwear for no functional reason.

It's an absurd logical contortion.

By his logic boot camp requirements in the military would be prejudice against the old, the fat and the dumb. Making any changes that make aspects of boot camp more physical or mentally grueling prejudice policy by his logic.
 
Great post and encapsutiom for the lunacy of this ageist attack.

He's broadening the term(knowingly or unknowingly) to such a point it's definition would become meaningless.

If something can be construed in his mind to have a detrimental effect to older people, even if it is completely in line with completely rational and objective requirements to be employed or qualify for a job or duty, it becomes prejudice in his world and thus it is fair to analogise it to true objective and concerted cases of institutional prejudice like poll taxes or banning religious headwear for no functional reason.

It's an absurd logical contortion.

By his logic boot camp requirements in the military would be prejudice against the old, the fat and the dumb. Making any changes that make aspects of boot camp more physical or mentally grueling prejudice policy by his logic.

Agreed. It doesn't pass muster at the best basic levels.

These specific rules are written as requirements to be active within the industry to take part in the most active aspect of the Academy (as in, voting on the movies that released in the last year). If someone is this inactive in the industry who is already in the Academy, there's no real reason why they should be there. And look at some of the responses from Academy members, shouting dogwhistles like "PC culture!", "but it's merit based!!" and "I totally voted for black people before!!". Regardless of age they need to be kicked out. But every time we explain the actual intent Cad comes back with "a-ha! You're just parroting the veil draped over this clearly age-ist rule much like racists parrot illiteracy tests were about literacy! I figured you out!!"
 

old

Member
I'm really just excited to see the difference in nominees when there's new young blood in there.
 
The whole "but it's ageism!" thing feels like a thinly veiled way to cling to the status quo, without saying you don't like change. It seemed pretty clear that it's about active participation, and singling out people who hold outdated views.

Plus, ageist policies wouldn't work, anyways. While a majority of older people may cling to views that are homophobic, sexist, and racist, the reality is that a lot of younger people are being brought up with those same views. If anything, the goal should be to publicly target and shame those views and the academy members who support them.
 
Hey, if you're really all about ageism in Hollywood, you should know that it is a thing and it tends to effect women far more than men.

Helen Mirren
Academy Award-winning actress Helen Mirren lashed out at Hollywood ageism at TheWrap’s Power Breakfast in New York on Tuesday, calling it “f-cking outrageous” that 37-year-old Maggie Gyllenhaal was recently told she was too old to play the lover of a 55-year-old man.

“It’s f—-ing outrageous,” said Mirren, who turns 70 this year, to a packed room of more than 120 women entertainment, media, theater and digital. “It’s ridiculous. And ’twas ever thus. We all watched James Bond as he got more and more geriatric, and his girlfriends got younger and younger. It’s so annoying,” she said.


That situation mentioned above?

“There are things that are really disappointing about being an actress in Hollywood that surprise me all the time,” she said during an interview for an upcoming issue of TheWrap Magazine. “I’m 37 and I was told recently I was too old to play the lover of a man who was 55. It was astonishing to me. It made me feel bad, and then it made me feel angry, and then it made me laugh.”

Anne Hathaway
I can't complain about it because I benefitted from it. When I was in my early twenties, parts would be written for women in their fifties and I would get them. And now I'm in my early thirties and I'm like, 'Why did that 24 year old get that part?' I was that 24 year old once, I can't be upset about it, it's the way things are. All I can do right now is think that thankfully you have built up perhaps a little bit of cachet and can tell stories that interest you and if people go to see them you'll be allowed to make more.

Dakota Johnson

She also gave her views on ageism in Tinseltown, using her mother, Melanie Griffith, and grandmother, Tippi Hedren, as examples.

"Why isn't my mother in movies? She's an extraordinary actress! Why isn't my grandmother in movies? This industry is fucking brutal," she stated candidly. "No matter how tough you are, sometimes there's the feeling of not being wanted. It's absurd and cut-throat. Whenever I have downtime, I'm unsure that I will ever work again. I don't know what it is, but it's a definite thing that happens to me."

That's a real problem.

The argument some are trying to bring up here? Nah.
 
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