LOL that reasoning is fucking ridiculous.
Link doesn't even fucking talk. Why does this matter so much to you? Seriously what the fuck are you talking about with some of these comparisons. Link has been basically a silent protagonist avatar for the person playing and Zelda games actually have a lot of women players, so why the fuck not?
Because you don't just take established narratives and characters with defined genders and change them to placate a vocal minority. That's called pandering.