next time i move i'm going to live jobs style, atleast for a month or two. just to see what sort of things i really need.
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I've found that people with a lot of stuff are often time filling a void in life experiences.
My brother-in-law makes an absolute killing (high six figures), but he has no interests outside of his job. He buys tons of stuff that he never uses; a pool table I've seen him use once in five years, a five-figure home theater with shelves full of BDs and PS3 games still in the shrink-wrap, a new Camaro SS that he sold back to the dealer after putting 500 miles on it in a year's time. He and my sister rarely travel if it's not for some sales conference.
I sat next to a middle manager from Microsoft on the plane yesterday. Mid to late 40's. She was talking about all of the things she's doing at work, and that she's started to make her "list" for what she wants to do in retirement. I wondered why I didn't have a "list" at 33. Then I realized I'm living my list... surfing in hurricanes, scuba diving, skydiving, running marathons, riding motorcycles, building a race car, living in Africa, visiting Europe, getting married, getting divorced, falling in love again, etc.
Sometimes I think I'm not living up to my potential because I'm just an engineer and should be something more by now, but more often than not when I meet people who are "ahead" of me their lives are very empty.
i'd only live like this if i was too poor to buy stuff. i'm too lazy to commit to a "lifestyle" like this. i can't always bring myself to throw out stuff, clear out what I don't need, and keep everything completely organized. that shit takes time that I rather spend doing something else. i'll just buy stuff I like, and once and a while do spring cleaning. obviously, i won't go to the other extreme: you know, living beyond my means, going into debt, hoarding, buying completely unnecessary shit, living only to buy trendy shit, or letting my purchases "define my identity," etc. etc. that said, i won't deprive myself of something i like simply because i don't need it. the minimalism i subscribe to is: give the minimum possible thought to your belongings. don't spend any time debating whether you *really* need something. just allocate some a fixed part of your budget to stuff you'll buy on a whim or for no reason, so it won't get out of control. if you focus so much on living simply and minimally, that task in itself consumes a lot of your life, which is kind of ironic isn't it?
this is the worst kind of "minimalism". soulless. vacuous. empty. what's minimal or intelligent about building a giant room only to keep it virtually empty?
This thermostat is being delivered to my house tomorrow. Does that count?
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In a way, it kinda sounds like you are thinking of "minimalism" as a kind of trendy lifestyle or hip fad, one that requires work and bother to keep up appearances about. There's some truth to that, as a lot of people jump on any bandwagon and turn it into a marketable trend with a 'scene'.
The reality I think, is that the real thing is nothing like that. It's just discipline and mindfulness, which do not waste more time when practiced; they free up time. People merely become distracted and easily frustrated with life, so develop the attitude of "I don't want to think about it". Which is when they unconsciously start wasting energy, time, and yes, money, on things that were never necessary in the first place.
I live only with what I really need and only the luxury items I know I'll really get a lot of value out of, and in the end I have plenty of time and peace of mind.
And funny enough, I have personally found living that way can make the personal touches stand out more rather than less. A sleek, ascetic living area is set off much more by one oddball stuffed animal thrown in the corner than by a room full of ornate junk.
Exactly. My desk at work is completely bare except for my PC and mouse, and an Android figure. All my other co-workers have drinks, papers, dusty gadgets, etc., strewn about. The Android figure on my desk thus stands out much more than if my desk were like the others.
I think that's the way I'm going to go. Completely bare, except for one single noticeable personal item.
Where are your pens?
Minimalist would be having a patch of land to grow some crops on and a cow or a goat. What you have is a laptop, a smartphone and a gun.
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My belief is that the only thing you can't have too many of are books.
Everything else can be disposed.
My belief is that the only thing you can't have too many of are books.
Everything else can be disposed.
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What about culture?
The idea of even moving to the 'burbs without ready access to museums, art galleries, music, people and life feels me with dread. If I were to move to the middle of nowhere, as in the picture example, I'd probably just shoot myself in the head...I actually assumed that was what the gun was for.
I used to be a book purist. Then I got a kindle. And traveled with a kindle.
Fuck books. Technological progress is awesome. The less physical mass I need to own in order to live and fulfill myself, the better.
Two great videos about low space, high efficiency, simple living, convertible apartments:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lg9qnWg9kak
"Tiny Hong Kong Apartment transforms into 24 rooms" (344 square feet)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juWaO5TJS00
"[Spain] Lego-style apartment transforms into infinite spaces" (258 square feet)
I've been trying to do this in terms of getting rid of stuff I don't use as well as more of a mental thing in clearing my mind, both kind of play off of each other. When you start to get rid of physical distractions you can really focus on what you really enjoy in life. Meditation helps with this too.
Although I dislike how some people view it as a "competition" and try to have only as little amount of items as they can. I think its different for everyone in terms of how much is too much and vice versa. It's also nice to be unattached to physical items & focused more on yourself as a person
some minimalist blogs yall might like, mainly houses/architecture
http://blog.leibal.com/
http://minimalisms.tumblr.com/
http://zenhabits.net/
Minimalist designs like the one above always seem so cold to me. It feels like living as a robot.
I'm starting to view local data/media storage as a form of clutter too. Time to just trust the cloud...
I'm starting to view local data/media storage as a form of clutter too. Time to just trust the cloud...
I've realized recently why I prefer maximalist architecture to minimalist architecture, or at least why I really dislike most minimalist architecture: because extremely minimalist designs show signs of weathering and aging much much faster than more complex designs, which can absorb flaws into their design visually.
EDIT: Only partially on topic, I know
everyone just wants to be this guy:
http://www.totalmedia.com/images/maxell.jpg[IMG]
i keep seeing people post visions of minimalism that don't necessarily parallel the actual sense of living minimal. are you just trying not to own [I]things[/I]? is that the minimal part?[/QUOTE]
As I put in another post recently a lot of people seem to mistake having things like Hulu, Netflix, iTunes, and Steam accounts with thousands of movies/games/shows available to them anywhere to be minimalist because they're not physical items and they all fit in a small laptop.
Digital clutter is still clutter, it's just easier to hide from your friends.