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Are shorter men more insecure and unattractive?

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This is 50/50 for me. I'm 5'6.

I have been in a scenario where a 5'3 girl told me "I would fuck you if you were taller"

On the other hand, I have had crazy fetish sex with a 6' girl.

Point it, everyone is different. If a person chooses you based on looks - cliche to say but true - then they are not for you. Better off without them.
 
blame space said:
does anyone else stand in the back at shows because they feel bad for all the wee folks?

i feel like an asshole just standing there.

No i'm up at the warzone wave at the very front trying to get to the front fence!
 
manzo said:
My wife already has cold feet and I squeal like a little girl when she infiltrates. She warms up, makes me sweat and then escapes back to her cool side.

Usually we men just accidentally wander to your side when we're sleeping! Can't blame us!
Smart thinking from your wife right there.

Just blame it on the sleeping.. I'm still trying to think of an ultimate revenge-plan for the next time i get squeezed into the wall or get pushed out of bed.
 
soepje said:
I'm not saying a shorter person can't dance or cuddle. But a 5'8 woman dancing with a 5'4 man just doesn't work well. It's difficult to not look like a clumsy, graceless giant.
Yep, I'm agreeing with you. Once the girls is more than ~2 inches taller than me, it is much less enjoyable all around.
 
I'm 178 cm which converts to 5'10"(I will never understand the imperial system). I'm somewhat below average, which is fine, but I do kinda get intimidated by taller women. I am attracted to women who taller then me(hot=hot not matter the height), but I can't get myself to go for one. :O Though I don't really mind since most girls are smaller then me anyhow.
 
No sweat here.
5'8" (almost 5'9") and the wife is 5'1"....and we have a daughter. And thank God because it's OK for a girl to be short. :) The doc says she will end up around 5'3"

Never had a problem with the ladies when I was a bachelor. I never dated a girl taller than me though. But dating was easy in college. Plenty of ladies there.
 
As a man of below average height (5'7"), I find marrying a short woman (4'10") is quite a nice fit. You can put your arm around her and still feel like a titan.
 
DominoKid said:
n/h but i've always wondered about that. like...wtf is Shaq packing??? O_o

personally i cant complain. i feel like what i have in that department makes up for the lack of height big time

Can you explain what does "n/h" means?
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I'm 6'2", which is 5" taller than either of my parents, 7" for my mom. I feel like the height definitely makes a difference. I get hit on, or complimented regularly, and I wouldn't say I'm particularly attractive otherwise.
 
I think most women have a slight preference for taller men (over six feet), but as long as you're taller than them they're not going to care usually. The only time a short guy won't stand a chance is with a really tall woman. Plenty of sex icon male celebs are shorter than you'd think.

I do think, however, that tall guys have a slightly easier time drawing attention and seeming confident.
 
These studies are always a bit weird to me. I read another study that showed some men evolved to attract females through brute strength and others through looks and intelligence. The ones that evolved to attract mates with their looks and/or intelligence were shown to be shorter and smaller in size.

So if this other study is to be believed, taller people are generally dumber and uglier.
 
Dan Yo said:
These studies are always a bit weird to me. I read another study that showed some men evolved to attract females through brute strength and others through looks and intelligence. The ones that evolved to attract mates with their looks and/or intelligence were shown to be shorter and smaller in size.

So if this other study is to be believed, taller people are generally dumber and uglier.
probably why the middle ground is the best ground.
 
I've noticed that taller men tend to bald much faster, so fuck you freaks, that's something you won't be able to take from us.

>:(
 
5'7 here and dated shorter/taller girls

Does anyone else notice guys at the gym who are short trying lift really heavy weights? I swear some days I go in and I'm the tallest guy in the weight room.
 
Funky Papa said:
I've noticed that taller men tend to bald much faster, so fuck you freaks, that's something you won't be able to take from us.

>:(

lol poor thing

6'2 and feelin' gooood
 
I'm 2 inches taller then my husband (married for 12 years and going :) ) and it's not something that has ever bothered us in the slightest. He's honestly one of the nicest men I've ever met, and is very confident as well.
 
I like being shorter than my partner. Something about being able snuggle right underneath their neck makes me feel warn and safe =)

None of my boyfriends or girlfriends have complained, but I tend to hang out in queer and kinky circles and only date dominants, so it's not like we're typical as far as sexual desires go in the first places.
 
My buddy is 5'6" but dated a 6'2" amazonian women for a few years. I never got used to seeing them together lol.

I'm 5'11 but I'd date a chick an inch or two taller. Beyond that though and I wouldn't want to tippy toe for a kiss lol.
 
blame space said:
does anyone else stand in the back at shows because they feel bad for all the wee folks?

i feel like an asshole just standing there.
Yup. I either move towards the back or bend my knees until I'm shorter than whoever is behind me. That can cause some real cramps :(

Thing is, I know they didn't pay for a ticket to look at the back of my head.
 
The Web M.D. article presents a pretty unsophisticated evolutionary analysis. That this preference will lead to evolutionary selection is entirely obvious. That this preference is caused by evolutionary selection rather than being a mere epiphenomena of sexual selection is not at all clear. It's perfectly possible for cultural or idiosyncratic beliefs to alter beliefs about what is attractive and what is not, which in turn will have an effect on what genes get passed on.

article said:
"Women, in particular, are making very complex decisions in mate choice, much more complex than those of males.

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Around 5'8" or 5'9". Eh, could be worse. I have so many other reasons to be insecure that I can't say my height has ever really bothered me much.
 
I'm 5'2" (157cm). I like tall dudes. Shorter guys are ok (no shorter than me though!), but it kind of sucks if I am wearing heels. Looks awkward mang.
 
SmokyDave said:
Yup. I either move towards the back or bend my knees until I'm shorter than whoever is behind me. That can cause some real cramps :(

Thing is, I know they didn't pay for a ticket to look at the back of my head.
I would like to thank you on behalf of all short people. One of my biggest pet peeves is tall people who stand right in front of me as if they don't realize I'm there, and one of the most appreciated gestures for me is when a taller person shows some awareness that I can't see through them. I am always grateful when a tall person either makes some space for me to move up or stands in a way that I can see.
 
It's so much easier for short people to get into really, really good shape. I've got so many short friends and acquaintances who are absolutely jacked.
 
its almost always the case that tall men are conceived as leaders and rich and successful but almost all rich and successful people are stocky and short
 
badcrumble said:
It's so much easier for short people to get into really, really good shape. I've got so many short friends and acquaintances who are absolutely jacked.
Their maintenance-costs are also less, they don't have to eat as much as the taller creatures.
 
This thread reminds me of that commercial with the super tall lady who goes out dancing with her husband who is sniffing her armpits to make sure she doesn't stink.
 
Can't help but stare at tall guys. Its cause I'm so short, they make me feel so small compared to them. At least I can kick them in the shins.
 
Londa said:
Can't help but stare at tall guys. Its cause I'm so short, they make me feel so small compared to them. At least I can kick them in the shins.

you mean ankles, right
 
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