Looking at Goodreads new fantasy releases and you're going to see romantacy, cozy, female empowerment, with the majority of authors being women. I think that reflects on who's getting publishing deals, who's allowed to win awards.
You look at the Science Fiction convention where the Hugo Awards are given and it's presented by people like this.
People can write what they fuck they want, that's not the issue. It's more about how your once not so popular hobby became popular then they stepped in and claimed it for themselves.
Throughout high school a large group of us played D&D, we invited the girls in our friends group to join, they didn't want to. The hobby was a guy thing, just like how our Saturdays hanging out in Games Workshop playing Warhammer was a complete sausage and B/O fest. D&D is fucking struggle session the game now with constant trigger warning labels and every race is the same because woe-betide you singling one out in a discriminatory fashion and calling them a bad word.