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DailyBeast - Cuckolding: the Sex Fetish for Intellectuals

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FartOfWar

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Story here: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2010/07/29/cuckolding-the-sex-fetish-for-intellectuals.html


It's a fascinating look into what are largely unintelligible lives. The fetishists interviewed for the story are self-admitted, self-loathing, psychological masochists who, for whatever reason, are turned on when confronted with their own inadequacy as love makers and lovers alike. Paradoxically, Paul (one of the subjects of the story) attempts to position the fetish as uniquely intellectual. Amazingly, the fact that he dismisses redneck amateurism while portraying himself as intelligentsia -- a venerable virtuoso in the art of cuckoldry --suggests that he's somehow situated his own ego in its very demolition. Click and see for yourselves.

Some select quotes:

"I'm totally being classist, but this isn't like people in redneck bars asking each other, 'You wanna fuck my wife?' It's much more complex. It's pleasure on a different level."

"As Paul looks on, Sally and the man snuggle up together on the couch like lovebirds. Soon their clothes are off, and before long, she’s wailing in ecstasy as the man has aggressive, passionate sex with her. Paul, helpless, can only watch and suffer. Afterward, Paul serves lunch to his wife and the man in the suite’s dining area; they eat in the nude before launching into another long, loud, sweaty session."

"“The high point of cuckolding is when your wife says she wants the other guy all the time and never wants you.”"
 
"“The high point of cuckolding is when your wife says she wants the other guy all the time and never wants you.”"

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Another briliant article by Anneli Rufus. I hope you guys also read "Can Food make you Infertile?" and "15 Sings You'll Gain Weight".
 

ApharmdX

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The last cuckolding thread I posted in got me a ban, so this one I'll just say that I don't get the fascination. I'm not intellectual enough I guess.
 
To each their own, human sexuality is a crazy thing. I mean, people out there legitimately have sex with cars so this shouldn't surprise anyone.

EDIT: To be clear, I'm not equating the two, just saying that fetishes and kinks span a wide variety of things that would make others uncomfortable.
 

marrec

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Chaucer and Shakespeare characterized it as the ultimate shame. So perhaps it’s no surprise that today it’s developed into a fairly popular fetish.

These two sentences do not follow, fetish and shame don't necessarily go hand in hand. :-/

Whatever, it's one of the less harmful fetishes so if someone wants to do it then by all means. I don't think we need to romanticize any fetish as "for Intellectuals" though, seems desperate.
 

FZZ

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Still surprised there's not a porno about a guy coming home to his wife getting fucked but instead of getting cucked he just fucks the guy whose fucking his wife in the ass.

Shit would be pretty funny.
 
Cuckolding will always be strange to me, and I'm a pretty kinky dude.

I understand the appeal of seeing your SO get fucked by another man, but it loses me when the racial or shaming/inadequacy stuff comes in.

But I guess, if there are people who get off on physical pain inflicted on them, surely there are those who enjoy mental/emotional pain in a sexual situation. It's just not for me.
 

params7

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Didn't we have an article like this before about some journalist who enjoyed the fact his wife slept around? That was hilarious.

Personally, I don't think this fetish is rooted in reality. To me it seems it develops mainly in men via porn consumption overtime. The basis of humiliation points to BDSM roots. The whole "white wife with larger bbc" fantasy seems to also be based on raw male understanding of sex as portrayed in porn.

Nothing wrong with enjoying it as a sexual fetish, people have their own kinks. People whack it to cartoons, female submission, whatever. As long as they understand fetishes/fantasies are not rooted in reality whatsoever, there's no harm.
 
Hmn, they never seem very intelligent in the vids..
It seems open minded. But it's mostly just another male fantasy i think.

Anyway, if both are okay with it, then go for it.
 

Mimosa97

Member
I don't know about you but the whole cuckolding thing " oh yes please fuck my wife/girlfriend while I watch in despair " freaks the shit out of me.
I genuinely feel horrible for the guy, even though I know he's doing it voluntarily and it's his choice so I have to respect that. I like the fact that we live in free societies and that people like this can enjoy their sexual freedom the way they want but I can't help empathizing and projecting myself and be like " What if I was in the cuckold's shoes " and then I feel helpless.
I know it would literally destroy me. I don't feel like it's something you can get out of once you've experienced it. It must completely shatters the remnants of self love you had. You can't come back from that.
 

Captain.Falafel

Neo Member
Story here:
"I'm totally being classist, but this isn't like people in redneck bars asking each other, 'You wanna fuck my wife?' It's much more complex. It's pleasure on a different level."

"“The high point of cuckolding is when your wife says she wants the other guy all the time and never wants you.”"

THESE ARE TWO ENTIRELY DIFFERENT THINGS YOU UNINTELLECTUAL PLEBS
 

FyreWulff

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Didn't we have an article like this before about some journalist who enjoyed the fact his wife slept around? That was hilarious.

Personally, I don't think this fetish is rooted in reality. To me it seems it develops mainly in men via porn consumption overtime. The basis of humiliation points to BDSM roots. The whole "white wife with larger bbc" fantasy seems to also be based on raw male understanding of sex as portrayed in porn.

Nothing wrong with enjoying it as a sexual fetish, people have their own kinks. People whack it to cartoons, female submission, whatever. As long as they understand fetishes/fantasies are not rooted in reality whatsoever, there's no harm.

Cuckolding is one of the oldest kinks around, it has nothing to do with porn.

Like, predates all our modern civilizations old.
 

stuminus3

Member
I always imagine sharing the wealth would be a good time but I'll never understand the self loathing. Like let's have some fun with a friend because I'm awesome like that, not because I'm a piece of crap. Maybe what I'm thinking of isn't cuckolding.
 
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