Nymphae
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I think we have pretty different definitions of shitposting.
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Dating a woman who already has kids.
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I think we have pretty different definitions of shitposting.
KorbinDallas
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I have 2 different answers for you, but are in conflict with each other. One being very pragmatic concerning popular culture. The other about going into a life which can be very blessed. I don't know how to answer you OP without my thoughts overriding each other. I'll just say, it's tough to be a man right now. CurrentCulture() hates you at the moment, and takes no prisoners.
Melon
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I would never date a woman for various reasons, mainly due to the fact that I am mostly straight, but I DEFINITELY would never date a single mom. I know so many single moms my age (everyone here gets married right out of high school, has kids, and then divorce) and they're all insufferable. The only ones I DO put up with are ones I was friends with before they got pregnant, and I know they're good people. The rest, however, can go straight to hell. Half the time I see them use their friends/boyfriends/fwbs as their babysitter so they can go out and do stupid shit. I'm only twenty-one, so that may be why the single moms I know are more problematic, but FUCK putting up with that shit.
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BlackOlivesMatter
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Punished Miku
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Life is short. If you like the girl a lot then go for it. No one on this site is going to be keeping you company, so do what works for you. We may spam some memes at you though, but its all in good fun.
It just depends on the girl for me. If they're amazing then go for it.
Best sex I ever had was single moms. You know they like sex for one, and they are clearly a little irresponsible and wild.
It just depends on the girl for me. If they're amazing then go for it.
Best sex I ever had was single moms. You know they like sex for one, and they are clearly a little irresponsible and wild.
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SLoWMoTIoN
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When I do it...it is different you...you Kojima lover!
MiyazakiHatesKojima
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Nymphae
rejected my generous offer to join our prestigious club.Perhaps you shall be worthy of our ranks
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highrider
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I’m not sure what it says about me but I think this is completely reasonable.
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SLoWMoTIoN
Unconfirmed Member
I'm straight no thanks.
Perhaps you shall be worthy of our ranks
brap
Banned
I hope you're black!
KingGhidorah
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nope nope nope ......NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE!!!
nush
Member
If your dating a woman with a kid among all the usual discussion points I have ONE THING that nobody else seems to have picked up on.
"Lets have one of our own"
This phrase is the exact thing that most guys slip up on. It does not matter how good the relationship is going, or how long OR EVEN the guy already has a kid and she has a kid. It puts pressure to have a kid on the guy before he probably would have wanted one. It's exactly this that leads some women to have multiple baby daddy's.
You can observe it yourself, a guy dating a woman with a kid and a control of a guy dating a woman without a kid the probability of the first couple to have a kid before the second one is really high.
"Lets have one of our own"
This phrase is the exact thing that most guys slip up on. It does not matter how good the relationship is going, or how long OR EVEN the guy already has a kid and she has a kid. It puts pressure to have a kid on the guy before he probably would have wanted one. It's exactly this that leads some women to have multiple baby daddy's.
You can observe it yourself, a guy dating a woman with a kid and a control of a guy dating a woman without a kid the probability of the first couple to have a kid before the second one is really high.
John Day
Member
This is the part where you listen, and listen good OP.
Nothing else to add. It’s either bliss or this, no middle ground. So if you want just a fling, hell yeah go for it.
If you aim at a serious relationship. Truly measure yourself and think about it.
And yes, happened to me too.
bitbydeath
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I don’t care what anyone says about you OP. You seem like a good cuck.
If you have a lot in common with her then I say go for it.
If you have a lot in common with her then I say go for it.
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SLoWMoTIoN
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brap
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Of course she's asian. Of course, burger boy.If you want single CHRISTIAN women without kids you can always hook up with one behind bars!Kiana Stabler #30327-047 Pen Pal Profile
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Tear dat pusy up bruh
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SLoWMoTIoN
Unconfirmed Member
Did you even see who the OP is?
iconmaster
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From a woman in jail for aggravated kidnapping:
“I would like to say, I know my charges sound very bad from the label they are under. Please give me the chance to explain the details further in our personal correspondence.”
I want to hear that explanation now.
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SLoWMoTIoN
Unconfirmed Member
Yeah some of these bios are funny as hell. You have one in life for murder and she describes herself as "fun and outgoing"!
brap
Banned
So? You're both weebs.
Maybe she is though. Does being a murderer mean you can't have fun?
haxan7
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It most certainly does not
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SLoWMoTIoN
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brap
Banned
no idea what this means but stfu
A Regular Guy
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Unless you're Matt Jarbo (MundaneMatt) dating a girl who was pregnant from another guy and then having to be the one raising the baby.
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SLoWMoTIoN
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Chairman Tickles
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No.
It could work out, but it is a very scary prospect if something goes wrong. Can you afford ~$600,000? Minimum in child support for two kids accross ~15 years. Only other alternative is prison.
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A Regular Guy
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Damn, you a play!
s34ab
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Only if I was shooting blanks.
MaestroMike
Gold Member
hhhmmm probably not fukk that..unless shes rich tho lol hahaha she'd be focused on her kids and I could just chill & play games & sh!t
Xaero Gravity
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haxan7
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There is a large disconnect between the OP and your response.
Your example of paying child support only applies to the father of the children, not the guy who is fucking their mom. Unless Germany has already gone that far down the toilet?
Or are you making the assumption that he’s going to impregnate the woman who already has two kids, then impregnate her again, then leave her and be forced to pay child support for two of her four kids?
I just want to get on the same page here and make sure there is nothing getting lost in translation.
Why would you look like a cuck? You'd be the one cucking the other dude....lol. Reeeee!
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Chairman Tickles
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I was under the impression that like in Australia, US, Britain etc you become legally bound to your 'partner' after some time. Here even co-habitation entitles the partner to 50% of your assets after 6 months. i.e if they can prove they lived in your house for a number of months, they own half your house.
But maybe Germany is different. Common law is retarded and its legacy does not stink up mainland europe.
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Vicetrailia
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I tried it, didn't like it (just broke up with her). Her kid was a handful though, and at one point I was wondering why I bothered sacrificing my time. If you don't want a family that bad then you're wasting your time.
It's a shame because she's a great person too.
Stiflers Mom
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I am 45 years old, and I can tell you that after certain age, almost all women you will meet will have kids (and so do I. They don't live with me, though)
And those who don't usually have a psychological problem about that fact and always mourn about it.
That being said, the situation you are in with a woman with kids is always different.
* how many kids? one is usually quite managable.
* age of kids? if it's very young still, it's usually no problem. When that woman has a puberty child, though, prepare for the worst.
* the father of the kids might be a problem as well.
And those who don't usually have a psychological problem about that fact and always mourn about it.
That being said, the situation you are in with a woman with kids is always different.
* how many kids? one is usually quite managable.
* age of kids? if it's very young still, it's usually no problem. When that woman has a puberty child, though, prepare for the worst.
* the father of the kids might be a problem as well.
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Foamy
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First woman I ever dated with a child is my wife now. I was 31 when we met and her daughter was 8 years old at the time and mom got divorced when she was 4.
She's 20 now and going to university and is a great girl.
I had the advantage of her ex husband living in another country though so I knew I'd never have to deal with him which made things a lot easier.
She's 20 now and going to university and is a great girl.
I had the advantage of her ex husband living in another country though so I knew I'd never have to deal with him which made things a lot easier.
Halo is Back
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Im dating one right now. I actually like engaging with the kid but don't go into it with if you are not prepared
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Xaero Gravity
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If I had a kid, would you still be with me?
Tesseract
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The Pleasure
Member
They're the gogurts of pussy. You grab and go then discard when finished.
Xaero Gravity
NEXT LEVEL lame™
If I had a kid, would you still be with me?