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So I learned tonight that deleting some people on your Facebook can make you a "coward" and have grown men call out tho there friends list to tell you off your cowardness...really..
so heres the odd story..
One of my best friends from highschool, whos friendship after graduation ended on bad terms, became a friend of mine of FB about a year ago. So after 13+ years of no contact I said screw it and accepted a request. Many of the guys I'm still friends with warned me not to accept him casue over the last 13 years they to have ended the friendship with him due to the issues like I had with him. I listened to there stories over the last few years and watched them one by one "disown" him but still said OK to the request thinking "hey, were grown ups now in our 30's. We have kids and lives and hey, its only Facebook"..
Well, the last year of this guy became..
Telling me to go have an orgy with the cast of Breaking Bad when one night I said the TB episode sucked as did the season but thankfully BB was great as always.
Telling me how my parenting was all wrong when I once posted how my 10 year old son got a cell phone to use at home since we have no home phone since now spends 2 hours alone between me and his mother going to work. No matter how I tried to explain this he repeatedly equated it to me being to much a friend and how HE would raise HIS kid etc..
He even went as far as to cross post my comments on his page to incite comments from his friends! who does that!
So tonights incident...
I write a comment how my son was asking me if Santa was real. When I asked my son what the kids at school told him he said "Everyone says his fake..accept the wierd religous kids who still believe in Jesus and The Easter Bunny"
One girl, who I barely knew but went to middle school with and decided to friend me, added her two cents...she was promptly deleted, its not a forum to argue your beliefs nor do I care if you and your kids are faithful servants, so poof, your gone.
Then my arguementive ex-buddy jumps in and does the same telling me of his beliefs and what HIS kid does as well as preaching i need to teach my son tolerance and what not. I say to myself, ok final straw and delete him.
HOLY SH*T! you would have thought I spit in his face!
Ive got grown men now we both knew years back messaging me saying how he is bad mouthing me on his page, asking people to contact me to tell me of my cowardness to debat ehim or respond. These are people I havent spoke to personally in years sending me messages saying..
"Hey man, not my business and we havent spoke for years but XXXXXXX is calling you a coward and asking people to inform you of this"
I dont get this..I delete and add people all the time but this is insane lol. We are grown men in our 30's with families, who acts like this?
Some people take this Facebook sh*t waaaaaay to serious. Now I must hang my head in shame that the hundreds of friends he has know of my cowardness, so many strangers or people we went to school with, who I could give a f*ck about, laughing at me...lol, so pathetic.
so heres the odd story..
One of my best friends from highschool, whos friendship after graduation ended on bad terms, became a friend of mine of FB about a year ago. So after 13+ years of no contact I said screw it and accepted a request. Many of the guys I'm still friends with warned me not to accept him casue over the last 13 years they to have ended the friendship with him due to the issues like I had with him. I listened to there stories over the last few years and watched them one by one "disown" him but still said OK to the request thinking "hey, were grown ups now in our 30's. We have kids and lives and hey, its only Facebook"..
Well, the last year of this guy became..
Telling me to go have an orgy with the cast of Breaking Bad when one night I said the TB episode sucked as did the season but thankfully BB was great as always.
Telling me how my parenting was all wrong when I once posted how my 10 year old son got a cell phone to use at home since we have no home phone since now spends 2 hours alone between me and his mother going to work. No matter how I tried to explain this he repeatedly equated it to me being to much a friend and how HE would raise HIS kid etc..
He even went as far as to cross post my comments on his page to incite comments from his friends! who does that!
So tonights incident...
I write a comment how my son was asking me if Santa was real. When I asked my son what the kids at school told him he said "Everyone says his fake..accept the wierd religous kids who still believe in Jesus and The Easter Bunny"
One girl, who I barely knew but went to middle school with and decided to friend me, added her two cents...she was promptly deleted, its not a forum to argue your beliefs nor do I care if you and your kids are faithful servants, so poof, your gone.
Then my arguementive ex-buddy jumps in and does the same telling me of his beliefs and what HIS kid does as well as preaching i need to teach my son tolerance and what not. I say to myself, ok final straw and delete him.
HOLY SH*T! you would have thought I spit in his face!
Ive got grown men now we both knew years back messaging me saying how he is bad mouthing me on his page, asking people to contact me to tell me of my cowardness to debat ehim or respond. These are people I havent spoke to personally in years sending me messages saying..
"Hey man, not my business and we havent spoke for years but XXXXXXX is calling you a coward and asking people to inform you of this"
I dont get this..I delete and add people all the time but this is insane lol. We are grown men in our 30's with families, who acts like this?
Some people take this Facebook sh*t waaaaaay to serious. Now I must hang my head in shame that the hundreds of friends he has know of my cowardness, so many strangers or people we went to school with, who I could give a f*ck about, laughing at me...lol, so pathetic.
