Offended is maybe a strong word, and it's not so much people not playing a genre I like. It's more like I'd be upset to see games like that caught up in the general shooter backlash, because they're pretty fucking transcendent. It's why I asked if people even considered them shooters, because I wonder myself. And it's not even like with certain other worn-out genres where those transcendent games are few and far between these days -- they're still making games like that on a fairly regular basis (every 1-3 years or so).You shouldn't be offended at all when someone says they don't play a genre you like.
And yes, I haven't played those and don't plan to.
Personally, I like good games. I try not to care about genres.