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Of course cow milk, and their stomachs are perfectly fine.

Cat milk? Seriously?

Think he means lactose-free milk. Almond/Soy milk tends to be fine from what I read.
Humans were born lactose-intolerant as well. Some cats have issues some don't, just like humans.

Best bet is just to be safe.
 
Cats can do CAT scans

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People have mentioned using water bottles or squirt guns to dissuade your cat from unwanted behavior.These are perfectly fine but can be a bit tricky for your relationship. Do everything in your power to avoid making your cat associate the bottle and punishment with YOU. If this means hiding from view when squirting then do it. Don't vocalize anything either when you use the bottle. Last thing you want is for your cat to become afraid of you. Just squirt, avoid eye contact and sight and don't say anything.
 
As one who has recently become a cat's property I have a case for catGAF. The tips in this thread have been very helpful BTW.

So recently (I believe it's going to be close to 2 months now) I have a cat in my house. My question comes with regards of territory. You see, there are at least two (used to be three but it's been a while since I've seen it so somebody probably killed it) stray cats near my home. So far my cat (using 'my' for reference , not to claim ownership, I guess I know how it works now) has been living indoors but I can notice it becoming more and more curious to be outdoors. Back to the strays, they roam about freely around most of the houses in my street. If you will, imagine the property around my house to be C shaped. During at least two events where my cat has been in contact with one the strays it inmediatly starts to hiss alot without the strays showing any sign of aggression. From what I've read online, the outdoors of my property have been claimed (?) by the strays but I realize that even if I prefer my cat to be an indoors one, getting out (by accident or carelessness) won't be impossible for it. I guess this is getting long and boring so my question is. What can I do to prevent an all out cat war?

Bonus question, I also have a small Chihuahua dog (curently at my mom's place) that will eventually come home (outdoors). Is it already dead?
 

Uh, how could I forget, yes, yes, watch out when your wife gets pregnant!!!

What the heck!

People have mentioned using water bottles or squirt guns to dissuade your cat from unwanted behavior.These are perfectly fine but can be a bit tricky for your relationship. Do everything in your power to avoid making your cat associate the bottle and punishment with YOU. If this means hiding from view when squirting then do it. Don't vocalize anything either when you use the bottle. Last thing you want is for your cat to become afraid of you. Just squirt, avoid eye contact and sight and don't say anything.

Thanks for this, I'll remember that.
 
Remember that even if people that come over say they can't smell cat shit and piss anywhere, they are either lying or have no sense of smell. Every house that has a cat reeks of it. But you will just become accustomed to it and stop noticing, and most people will understand that you being a cat owner means they have to put up with that fucking smell.
 
Unless you get it as a kitten, don't get a Calico, they are known to be moody. My Calico is great around me and my Fiancee, but isn't a big fan of others.
 
Remember that even if people that come over say they can't smell cat shit and piss anywhere, they are either lying or have no sense of smell. Every house that has a cat reeks of it. But you will just become accustomed to it and stop noticing, and most people will understand that you being a cat owner means they have to put up with that fucking smell.

Hm, even before I owned a cat, if I visited someone who DID have a cat, I wouldn't smell the cat urine or feces. Afterward, I still didn't notice it though one time at the beach, we ran into someone who smelled VERY strongly of cat pee, so I don't really know. It could be the smell of litter since that is eeeveerrywhere. And that only smells like scented "freshness".

What the heck!

It's just something to look out for. It shouldn't be a problem if the cat is indoor only, but just to be safe, don't let your wife change the litter. If she has to, she should wear gloves and wash her hands afterward.

Don't ever give your cat cow milk, they are lactose intolerant. They get diarrhea. Diarrhea is very bad for cats, if they have diarrhea for two days, go to a vet. If you notice, give them cooked chicken (salt the water), no change, go to the vet.

http://pets.thenest.com/veterinarians-say-cats-drinking-cows-milk-cream-6972.html

It's a lot like humans, some have the reaction and some don't, but it's best to just not do it or give them a very very small amount if they want. So far my cat has never really had an issue with any form of dairy.
 
Remember that even if people that come over say they can't smell cat shit and piss anywhere, they are either lying or have no sense of smell. Every house that has a cat reeks of it. But you will just become accustomed to it and stop noticing, and most people will understand that you being a cat owner means they have to put up with that fucking smell.
What? I've been to many houses with cats, and they certainly don't smell. Litter boxes might, but they really shouldn't be put out in the open for your guests to smell anyway. I keep my cat's box in a small room in the basement and my house doesn't smell at all.
 
Get an American Short-hair breed.

http://pets.thenest.com/behavior-personality-traits-american-shorthair-cat-9913.html

Adaptability
Perhaps the breed should be called the adaptable American shorthair, because that's what they are. He's a good fit for a cat lover at any stage of life, because he adapts to your living situation. Since American shorthairs can live into their late teens, he can accompany you on your journey from singledom to married life to parenthood, accepting the new people in your life along the way. By the same token, he's at home in a city apartment, in a suburban house, or out in the sticks if that's where you choose to live.

Kids and Other Pets
If you've got other cats in your house, your American shorthair should get on with them just fine, unless they aren't particularly good with other felines. He's also good with well-behaved dogs. The same goes for kids, as long as they know how to properly treat a cat. He's pretty tolerant, but if little ones get too rough he'll probably opt to get out of Dodge rather than scratch or bite.

Purrsonality
While all cats are individuals, in general the American shorthair is a laid-back, affectionate kitty. Whether he'll spend hours in your lap purring or would rather sit nearby depends on his specific temperament, but he wants to be in your vicinity. He requires only basic cat care—this is no hothouse bloom. He's smart and accommodating. It shouldn't take him long to learn what's acceptable and what's not, such as furniture scratching. Buy him a scratching pad or post and, unlike some other cats, he should actually use it. It's easy to love your live-and-let-live cat.
 
I rescued a cat off Craigslist and had a fairly emotional couple of months as the cat had to both move into a new house and accept a male owner. There aren't a lot of studies on cats but I'm pretty sure they operate with a radically different sense of time and space than dogs or people. Moving them into new homes messes up the space quantum thing. Be patient.

I never resorted to this myself, but one option is to use a pheromone collar if the cat is just absolutely freaking out. You can find them at most pet shops and the cat will basically be high for as long as it wears it. This is also handy for introducing new cats into a household so that they don't kill each other. Once they have chilled for a week or two, you can take it off.

The only other pro-tip I have is to get an air purifier. You can buy them all over for various prices, but it will suck the dander and cat skin out of the air. People who have allergies will be able to function in your home if you just turn it on.
 
Don't upset cat GAF...

The escapee was found and it's fine and happy in a new home, just in case anyone wondered.
 
Specific questions

- Our landlord wants it declawed. Out of the question, so we will need some kind of claw covers. Do we need to trim claws though?

- Even with claw covers, should we still have a scratching post?

- I have a lot of electronics (videogames, PC, audio equipment) with lots of wires around my living room. How should I go about cat proofing our place? Should I expect the cat to chew wires? (I need to know if I need to hide my expensive equipment haha)

Any other advice, such as checkups, training, etc. Please post. As I said, this is our first time getting a cat, and we would like to know what to expect to make sure our new kitty has a nice, loving home.

You should trim your cats claws at least every couple of months. They might freak out or they couldn't care less. Depends on the cat. My cat just lays there purring the whole time.

Claw covers suck. They're a PITA to get on, they break off/fall off pretty quickly (couple of weeks usually), and your cat will still scratch stuff occasionally anyway. I would suggest not even bothering and just fixing any minor damage the cat does to the actual property - it's mostly going to be the window sills.

You will definitely need a scratching post, regardless. You really want to encourage the cat to scratch his post(s) and not your furniture. I suggest getting at least two, one vertical standing and one horizontal. Depends on that cat, but my cat loves scratching certain types of fabric. There was this one rug that he just scratched the fuck out of no matter what we did, so we used that material to make his scratching post the next time around. Worked like a charm.

Most cats won't bother with cords as long as they have other toys to play with.

As for checkups, once your cat has his basic shots you don't need to do much if he's indoor only - and he should be.

Most shelter cats will already be litter trained, otherwise that's the only real training they need.

Most people have trouble with their first cat because they think it's a dog. It's more like a generally disgruntled roommate. You'll probably have a smoother experience if you treat it more like a person than a pet - as crazy as that sounds.

Also, you probably want a male cat first. Female cats are generally more moody. Male cats tend to be more outgoing and friendly.

You should get cat food (or make it yourself) that's almost entirely protein. Cats are obligate carnivores, unlike dogs. They don't really need anything but meat. I have to make our cat homemade food because he's allergic to most of the preservatives in nearly all packaged cat food and it's literally just supplements and chicken. Or turkey. Or, on rare occasions, fish. Wet food is generally better than dry - but usually more expensive. Cats who eat mostly or exclusively dry food tend to have a lot of kidney problems later in life because they aren't getting enough water from just drinking.

Also, do not give your cat milk. It's not actually good for them and a lot of cats are lactose intolerant anyway. Best case, it's empty calories. Worst case, they puke on your carpet.
 
Remember that even if people that come over say they can't smell cat shit and piss anywhere, they are either lying or have no sense of smell. Every house that has a cat reeks of it. But you will just become accustomed to it and stop noticing, and most people will understand that you being a cat owner means they have to put up with that fucking smell.

This only happens to people who don't clean the litter box regularly, have a sick cat, and/or don't know the magic of mixing a little bit of baking soda in the bottom of the litter.

If you can smell the litter box from more than a few inches away, it needs to be cleaned. Or your cat needs to see a vet.
 
Here's the biggest thing with cats. Their personality is extremely unpredictable and can change entirely with any change in the environment.

If you plan on being a serious cat owner you have to be prepared to deal with a cuddly little fur ball AND the biggest asshole animal that pisses on everything.

Because the cuddliest little fur ball can turn into an asshole when you buy a new coffee table for example.

Of course this isn't true for EVERY cat, but you definitely have to be prepared to face that fact.

My cat is VERY attached to my wife and sleeps on her EVERY night. When my wife is away on a trip or for work (once-twice a year) and I'm home alone, after two days the cat starts walking around looking un-easy and will start puffing her tail up (stressed as shit). I have to be very careful around her.

Anyways, enjoy moving and changing your cats environment, that's where you'll see the real breaking strain.
 
Here's the biggest thing with cats. Their personality is extremely unpredictable and can change entirely with any change in the environment.

If you plan on being a serious cat owner you have to be prepared to deal with a cuddly little fur ball AND the biggest asshole animal that pisses on everything.

Because the cuddliest little fur ball can turn into an asshole when you buy a new coffee table for example.

Of course this isn't true for EVERY cat, but you definitely have to be prepared to face that fact.

My cat is VERY attached to my wife and sleeps on her EVERY night. When my wife is away on a trip or for work (once-twice a year) and I'm home alone, after two days the cat starts walking around looking un-easy and will start puffing her tail up (stressed as shit). I have to be very careful around her.

Anyways, enjoy moving and changing your cats environment, that's where you'll see the real breaking strain.

Yeah, most cats hate change and are HUGE on routines. Since they are so territorial, feeling like they know what's going to happen makes them feel like they are in control, so any drastic change to the house/apartment (going away for a few days, buying new furniture, moving, etc) is going to be highly stressful for them. They're like little cute furry balls of OCD.

There are articles about how to slowly introduce a cat to a new house to minimize freaking it the fuck out when you move.

Also if you can, get two cats. A second cat isn't that much more expensive than one cat since they can share food/litter boxes, and having a playmate will help keep your cat from getting bored and waking you up at 3 am.
 
It also leaves them in chronic pain for life as it alters their gait


GET A BLACK ONE

Too many black cats are left at the pound because people don't think they are "pretty enough"

They are beautiful, the perfect familiar for Halloween too.

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72 posts to get to the truth.

Get a short haired black cat. They are the best cats, by far. Everything good about cats is a trait of black cats, and they usually have none of the bad traits.
 
72 posts to get to the truth.

Get a short haired black cat. They are the best cats, by far. Everything good about cats is a trait of black cats, and they usually have none of the bad traits.

Their only bad trait is that their asshole is incredibly noticeable since their skin is much lighter than their black fur.
 
I had a black cat that was very laid back and would follow me everywhere. Always rubbing against my leg. Funniest quirk about him is he would need on my upper chest while I was in bed then slowly bite my nose very lightly. Unfortunately he got hit by a car a couple weeks ago :'(
 
Keep in mind that cats are unable to actually care about humans (science). Their evolution is not the same as dogs. Your cat will only come to you when it wants something. That said, I guess their fun to pet.
 
Keep in mind that cats are unable to actually care about humans (science). Their evolution is not the same as dogs. Your cat will only come to you when it wants something. That said, I guess their fun to pet.

But sometimes cats want affection or social interaction.

Personally, I think the fact that many cats are unsocial dicks is quite charming.
 
if that little furry thing (accidentally) bites you, see a doc or even the ER(I'm NOT kidding) as soon as possible.
I'm dead serious.
cat bite marks tend to be very small with hardly any bleeding and that's the problem. cat teeth are like injection needles. they penetrate your skin, flesh and even bones and the resulting wound closes itself very fast, leaving tons of bacteria (cat bites are way worse than any other animal bite...germ wise) deep in the wound.
tremendous infections are the results which can lead to amputation and even death via septic shock.

again: I'm not joking

I know a woman who lost half of her hand because of a "harmless and hardly visible" cat bite. funny enough I met her in the ER waiting room when I was treated for multiple dog bites. lol

ps: do not google "cat bite infections" if you have a weak stomache

It depends, I used to own a cat and had multiple bites/scratches but nothing too bad and never even patched them.
BUT there was a elderly patient who was bitten by his cat and since then he was suffering from very strong pain. I did several ultrasounds/ RMI and the cause of his excruciating pain was probably due to a microangipathy triggered by the wound.

Its not everyone who should be careful, but yeah its not totally harmless.
There is also the cat scratch disease, but its just an increase of lymphonodes.
 
Black cats are genetically the most laid back. Tri-colors (calico) are very dominant. I recently had a blue (dilute black) die from cancer, and, while very shy, was the most sweet cat I knew.

I've been around cats from birth, and am the wrong side of 40.
 
Keep in mind that cats are unable to actually care about humans (science). Their evolution is not the same as dogs. Your cat will only come to you when it wants something. That said, I guess their fun to pet.

That's not actually what the science says. It's closer to saying cats are more emotionally independent and don't have to, and often choose not to, form a bond with their owners. Not that they are physically incapable of doing so.
 
I might be in the minority here, but IME it's perfectly fine to let cats have some unsupervised time outside if you set proper boundaries. I've trained my cat to stay within our courtyard by checking periodically and bring her back up if she goes outside the boundaries.

I should also memtion that she has her claws and can defend herself. In any case, it can work out fine depending on the cat.
 
My wife and I have been wanting a cat for some time now, and finally got permission from our landlord to do so. Neither one of us have ever owned a cat before though, but I've been reading up online and on the ASPCA website, but there is still much I don't know, and I know there is quite a few cat owners here on GAF.

As far as adoption, we know we want a shelter kitten. Having never owned a cat, we want the full experience.

Breed/personality:

The breed has to be short hair, can't be a big puffball unfortunately, due to the landlord.

Specific questions

- Our landlord wants it declawed. Out of the question, so we will need some kind of claw covers. Do we need to trim claws though?

- Even with claw covers, should we still have a scratching post?

I'm confused as to why your landlord doesn't want a big puffball cat. I know it's not always the case, but in my experience any medium-long haired cat sheds a lot better than a short haired cat. Longer haired cat hair tends to come out more so in clumps rather than a huge mess of floating hair that comes off of a short haired cat.

Also, you should keep your cat's nails trimmed, and definitely have multiple scratching posts/cardboard scratchers for a cat.
 
Whatever cat you get, use fresh step cat litter, it last forever and works great. Also, check your cat poop, it's an easy way to tell if he is in good health.

Some long hair cats like maine coons, shed in clumps so it is far easier to clean up and it makes them better pets for people with allergies.

Some cats take longer to mature too, maine coon can take 4 years, so don't get one unless you are ok with a 15lb+ kitten.
 
Remember that even if people that come over say they can't smell cat shit and piss anywhere, they are either lying or have no sense of smell. Every house that has a cat reeks of it. But you will just become accustomed to it and stop noticing, and most people will understand that you being a cat owner means they have to put up with that fucking smell.

You people are weird.
 
You are merely an entity that delivers food. All interaction is simply a means to an end. Your cat doesn't like or dislike you. It will simply do whatever it takes to convince you its ready to eat.


ENJOY!
 
Other cat related things you should know:

- Definitely DO NOT declaw your cat! It can ruin their personality (make them more fearful) and sometimes it makes them become more territorial and they will start spraying to make themselves feel safe. It also leaves them defenseless outside.

- Feed them food with as high a protein content you can find. The higher the protein and lower the carbs, the healthier it is for them. In general, wet canned food has less carbs so it is healthier, but dry kibble food is better for their teeth because it stops tartar buildup. My cats get a mostly wet food diet with occasional dry food to balance things out. Also, do not free feed your cat. Make sure they have set meal times (twice a day or 3 times a day depending on convenience).

- Never give your cats milk or cheese. It will make them sick or have digestive issues. Don't feed them chocolate either because thats poisonous to cats.

Also cats love to chew on plants, many which are also poisonous. Garlic can be (is?) straight up deadly. Basically, don't feed your cat anything before you know it's safe
 
Remember that even if people that come over say they can't smell cat shit and piss anywhere, they are either lying or have no sense of smell. Every house that has a cat reeks of it. But you will just become accustomed to it and stop noticing, and most people will understand that you being a cat owner means they have to put up with that fucking smell.
Oh you
 
Don't upset cat GAF...

The escapee was found and it's fine and happy in a new home, just in case anyone wondered.
Lmao did you ever update your thread to let others know that? Maybe cat-GAF will forgive you.

The only time i had issues with cats chewing on cables was when my cats were kittens. Removing the cables away or the kitten away each time fixed that. The kitten eventually learned to stay away.

My poor Vita cable was the only casualty.
 
Keep in mind that cats are unable to actually care about humans (science). Their evolution is not the same as dogs. Your cat will only come to you when it wants something. That said, I guess their fun to pet.

This is not true. I'm going to be generous and assume what you are trying to say is that cats were never domesticated and each cat chooses if it will tolerate being around humans or not. That's how you can end up with feral kittens from a "domesticated" mother.

Cats have a wider range of personalities than dogs. Most cats will have 1 or 2 people they enjoy and everyone else can go to hell. Some cats are very friendly and enjoy people in general. Other cats merely tolerate people and some don't like people at all (gone feral). This is why it is very important that when you go to get a cat you let the cat choose you.

If you want to read actual science on the topic this is a good book.
 
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