pirateben said:
Re: the foreign ID cards that need to be carried at all times - yes it's true.
Except that I never carried mine, never was told to carry it at all times, and never had anybody give a shit if I had it or not or ask for it.
Does Japan have some inexcusable differences for Japanese and non-Japanese? Absolutely. the part about becoming a true Japanese citizen being impossible or nearly impossible for foreigners is pretty much true, from what I know. And you'll occasionally find people who aren't friendly towards foreigners, which isn't surprising when you consider the fact that a majority of Japanese people will never meet a non-Asian foreigner in their lifetime.
In the year I spent living there (and the countless other trips I've made), I can't think of any example of a time when I as a foreigner in the country felt unwelcome or unwanted in the slightest. My friend (and at the time roommate) is black, and the only example of any kind of prejudice I can remember him running into was when he couldn't go to a spa because he has a tattoo. At worst, from time to time I'd run into people who were too afraid to deal with me, due to a worry about being able to communicate on either end.
Is the country still lagging behind in its efforts in dealing with foreigners? Sure. But as one who has been there, it's not the scary place this guy wants to make it sound, and you shouldn't be worried about police treatment or having to always carry the proper ID. (I mean, it's always good to have some sort of ID on you in case there's a problem, but I was never afraid of leaving my apartment without it.)
As well, thought it may not be popular, I think Japan has the right to severely limit or not want foreigners at all if that's their choice. No country should be forced to take in people from other countries, and nobody should be able to tell them that how to run their immigration policies. Seeing as how I have a wife who is Japanese, and we'd like to head back over there to live for at least some length of time, obviously my opinion is that I would hope they would accept me in... but I'm not so sure I have the right or place to demand that of them.
Article said:
Couples can't hold hands in public, and many men remain so sexually immature they are virgins in their thirties and forties. Both men and women lack flirting skills, while the costs of marrying and raising children are extreme ($350 for a school backpak, anyone?)
The first part is complete and utter BS. Can't hold hands in public? What the hell? Japanese guys aren't as aggressive as, say, American men on average from those that I knew, so it wasn't surprising to see Japanese girls making the first moves. But lacking flirting skills? This guy certainly doesn't know some of the girls I do over there.