Personally I think it's more sad we had someone so weak-willed and opportunistic as a counter terrorism official. Difficult times lead to difficult decisions, and I'd rather have those who are willing to go too far in charge over those who take half-measures and hollow threats. Would the situations in Syria, the Ukraine and elsewhere still have happened if countries still feared the US as the world's police? Maybe, maybe not. But it's not a position we can take just occasionally when we feel like it.
I welcome being hated as long as we are feared. And we can't be feared unless we get our hands dirty on occasion. It's far more evil to sit back, do nothing, and judge us while the world burns.