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PhoenixDark
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Post a pic of one of these women
AlanHemberger
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Wouldn't you?PhoenixDark said:
And the plot thickens, to a devastating turn.
apparently she told someone about it. and then shit started going around and it got to someone that doesn't like one of us and my boss came to talk to me about it.
I'm going to paraphrase what he said "as a man, I want to congratulate you. But as your Supervisor, you need to squash this." sonuvabitch.
AlanHemberger said:Wouldn't you?
And the plot thickens, to a devastating turn.
apparently she told someone about it. and then shit started going around and it got to someone that doesn't like one of us and my boss came to talk to me about it.
I'm going to paraphrase what he said "as a man, I want to congratulate you. But as your Supervisor, you need to squash this." sonuvabitch.
THE PLOT THICKENS. Also, WTF, do your work in a high school cafeteria?
Cornballer
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:lol :lol :lolAlanHemberger said:
AlanHemberger
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sadly enough, I've posted where I work before. Why do you ask though?GilloD said:
i hate office drama now. I used to love it
Cornballer
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It's typically only fun when it's someone else's drama.AlanHemberger said:
The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
:lol Well played sir, well played.
:lol Well played sir, well played.
Women are clingy, don't sleep with her again unless you want a new g/f or the axe. Also, if that's all you wanted, seriously... keep your head up and smile, act like it was no big deal, don't get weird, but if she asks, tell her things are already getting complicated at work, that you love your job, and you can't two can't possibly hookup again. Personal experience.
PhoenixDark
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AlanHemberger said:Wouldn't you?
And the plot thickens, to a devastating turn.
apparently she told someone about it. and then shit started going around and it got to someone that doesn't like one of us and my boss came to talk to me about it.
I'm going to paraphrase what he said "as a man, I want to congratulate you. But as your Supervisor, you need to squash this." sonuvabitch.
Greatest thread ever confirmed, even without pics
I hate to sound perverted, but how long did the sex last?
Instigator
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Remember to give her a call if you need to move. It's like Guatemalans have three arms.
teruterubozu
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Man, why would she tell someone at work? That's ****ed up.
AlanHemberger
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:lol Work in an office. Most people have too much time on their hands and only talk about other people. Especially on slow days (today).GilloD said:
:lol :lolInstigator said:Remember to give her a call if you need to move. It's like Guatemalans have three arms.
I can post a picture later of how badly she bit my chest! It'll be taken with a camera phone though and it won't be until after I get off work.PhoenixDark said:
We ****ed 3 times from about 11pm to 3pm. Breaks lasted about 10 minutes while we laughed at the talkshow Laura that was playing on some Univision or something.
That's what I plan on doing. Just having a talk with her and telling her it was fun, but yeah, that's it. From the way she was talking before she left, she's not interested in a relationship. But I want to clear it up anywaysjunkster said:
So true.Cornballer said:
What's really awkward is her ex husband. He and I are pretty cool. I know he heard because, well, **** everyone has heard. He's been kind of timid today and not that talkative. Should I just confront him about it? Help GAF what a cluster****.
AlanHemberger said:
Ohhhhhhhh buuuuuuuuuurn... the ex husband... BAD BAD BAD!
Rule #1 if that's the case: DENY DENY DENY DENY
Rule #2: DENY some more
Rule #3: Did I mention DENY?????
Rule #4: "I don't know what you're talking about, I have a g/f. I thought it was a joke so I played along. Nothing happened. I don't date coworkers. What? She cooked for me? She likes to cook, my mother cooks for me too! Sorry to burst your bubble but I would never do such a thing."
You never know if an ex is on the edge, vindictive, likes to slash tires, get people fired, etc.
If you already BROKE rules 1-3, just say you were kidding around, and go to #4.
If you're going to confront him, use #4 as a guideline, then add in there, "I thought it was a big hoax, so I played along. I wasn't the one that brought it up, it was all in jest because they kept hassling me, I assure you. I didn't realize the joke would turn into office gossip, so I'm really sorry about this, it was not my intention."
Some people here might say be honest, but the company might be pressured into firing you if you do, although technically speaking, you were the one to get sexually harassed.
AlanHemberger
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:loljunkster said:
No one has confronted me about it besides my boss. She says he has told her that it was okay. They're still friends. She also told him that she was going to my house to cook. She said he had no problem. But his awkward silence says otherwise. And I wouldn't mind except he's a really cool guy and ironically the last few weeks we've been talking alot more and whatnot. I don't know if I offended him. I did break one of the man rules. I ****ed an ex without talking to him first. But I honestly thought I could control myself or else I would have talked to him!
Edit: So I should just act like nothing happened unless he brings it up?
AlanHemberger said:
If the gossip is out there, you're probably not going to be able to quash it unless you deny it to everybody.
You really need to gauge this guy. Do you know him well? Does he seem dangerous at all? If you're that cool with your boss, I would suggest asking him for advice, he might be able to read the ex better than you. It'll also make you look like you care a lot about your job, and that this was a total mishap. He'll appreciate that part. Plus you could use someone on your side ;-)
PROTIP: Make SUPER DUPER sure, that you're the only one there when you confront him about it. Don't make it a dark alleyway, but be alone with him (or maybe just you and your boss, as long as one of you makes sure to say that the conversation is going to kept private). If he's the type to get really embarassed in groups of people, then you might REALLY hurt him if others are present. Don't be extra nice to him from now on. Just act as natural as possible. Whatever you used to do in your interactions with him is what you should continue to do. Also, accept the fact that he might hate you secretly from now on.
:lol you really dug yourself a grave on this one but it's a great story for the grandkids
:lol :lol :lol :lolAlanHemberger's Boss said:
As for the ex factor I wouldn't say anything either. If you say anything first then it looks like you're making it into something bigger than it is, or at the least what you want it to be, a fling with a colleague.
And yeah, need pics.
AlanHemberger
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Thanks for the tips. My boss was just in here joking about it actually. I've kinda lightened up now, because he said everything is okay. I was scared shitless about possibly losing my job.junkster said:
And you named what I really don't want, I don't him secretly hating me from now on. For one thing, he's a really cool guy. I'd rather just smooth it over with him. And then, it's just not good to have hidden enemies in the workplace. I guess we'll see what happens. Thanks!
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