The human brain evolved to group things together, categorize, and make generalizations and assumptions.
We all do this every day, and it's extremely useful!
-If you're anxiously awaiting a letter from a loved one, and while you're looking out the window you see a dog walk by, you don't run outside to see if the dog has your mail. Why? Because dogs categorically don't deliver mail.
-If you're hiking and you see a snake on one path and a bunny rabbit on the other, and the paths are otherwise equal, you take the path with the bunny rabbit. Why? Because bunny rabbits are categorically less dangerous than snakes, despite one exception.
-If someone knocks at your door, you look in the peephole to see who it is. If you know them, you let them in. If they're a stranger, you proceed with caution. Why? Because strangers are categorically more dangerous than people you know. (The accuracy of this one's up for debate.)
However, as we've seen, this tendency to make generalizations about people can be misused and abused. It can lead to some atrocious things.
In short, categorizing, generalizing, and assuming is a very useful tool that can go very, very wrong. And even if it end in an atrocity, you might still be a dick for using it, contributing to a generalization that is false or unhelpful. Yes, that includes just posting a misused generalization in a forum.
So I made this handy-dandy flowchart! (CLICK FOR A LARGER VERSION)
Are you about to post something about atheists or theists? Go through the chart.
Are you about to condemn journalists or gamers? Go through the chart.
Are you about to say something snarky about Europeans, Americans, women, men, white people, black people, cops, robbers, politicians, the general population, GAF, or anything else? Go through the chart.
Remember, not all generalizations are bad, just as a hammer isn't bad. But each time you swing, you need to make sure you're doing it properly at the right target in a helpful way.
We all do this every day, and it's extremely useful!
-If you're anxiously awaiting a letter from a loved one, and while you're looking out the window you see a dog walk by, you don't run outside to see if the dog has your mail. Why? Because dogs categorically don't deliver mail.
-If you're hiking and you see a snake on one path and a bunny rabbit on the other, and the paths are otherwise equal, you take the path with the bunny rabbit. Why? Because bunny rabbits are categorically less dangerous than snakes, despite one exception.
-If someone knocks at your door, you look in the peephole to see who it is. If you know them, you let them in. If they're a stranger, you proceed with caution. Why? Because strangers are categorically more dangerous than people you know. (The accuracy of this one's up for debate.)
However, as we've seen, this tendency to make generalizations about people can be misused and abused. It can lead to some atrocious things.
In short, categorizing, generalizing, and assuming is a very useful tool that can go very, very wrong. And even if it end in an atrocity, you might still be a dick for using it, contributing to a generalization that is false or unhelpful. Yes, that includes just posting a misused generalization in a forum.
So I made this handy-dandy flowchart! (CLICK FOR A LARGER VERSION)
Are you about to post something about atheists or theists? Go through the chart.
Are you about to condemn journalists or gamers? Go through the chart.
Are you about to say something snarky about Europeans, Americans, women, men, white people, black people, cops, robbers, politicians, the general population, GAF, or anything else? Go through the chart.
Remember, not all generalizations are bad, just as a hammer isn't bad. But each time you swing, you need to make sure you're doing it properly at the right target in a helpful way.