I don't agree with you.
It's a solid rebuttal.
Also, you're using the "Argument from fallacy" or "Fallacy fallacy." An argument that contains fallacies can still be true. The presence of a fallacy doesn't negate an argument.
General movie-goers may not recognize Paul Feig by name, but they know of Bridesmaids and Spy.
That article was actually a really great article. And it pointed out something I hadn't really thought about until it - maybe it's not so much about sexism, *per say*, maybe it's this at it's root:
He talks about how important this “franchise” is to him, how he grew up with it, how he wants kids to know the originals. The subtext here is very simple: you’re making a new version of this thing that I love and you are not making it for me. And that pisses him off. And he doesn’t realize that the root of all this, the root of feeling like someone betrayed his Ghostbusters, comes down to the fact that these Ghostbusters don’t look like him.
To me, that can be "soft" sexism (as the article calls it), and that makes sense to me more than anything. It's not a conscious sexism, it's just a "this is different than what I like/want to see/feel good about."
Not making a blanket statement, but the (straight) guys I generally talk to can't relate to women. I don't know why, I don't get it, but when the conversation comes up, it's always "I can't be friends with chicks - if I'm hanging out with chicks, I just want to bang them." They aren't open enough to say "chick friends could be cool."
Again, not to make a blanket statement, but most guys aren't going to find those ladies "attractive" in the traditional sense. The guys can't even go see the movie because they're not hot eye-candy that they want to bang. So instead of just accepting it and moving on, all these things taken together, they're having to bang this drum of "WORST MOVIE EVER".
Taken at it's root, it's all sexism, right? But I don't think it's a conscious thing that immediately their minds jump to "ITS WOMEN SO IT'S BAD!" - more like "I can't relate to them because THEY HAVE VAGINES AND I DONT WANT TO BONE THEM!"
The unfortunate part is, they aren't self-aware enough to even get that far in their analysis of themselves. Those same guys I talk about above, when I point out that they're idiots for thinking that way they say "Well that's just guys". No it's not. You can be self-aware and realize that regardless of your attraction to a woman, they have a personality, they have likes and dislikes and shockingly, they might even line up with yours! But nope - if they don't want to bang her, they don't want to hang with her....
Sorry that's another conversation for another day.
One thing about the final paragraph:
I found this part odd, as if the intended audience of a movie is limited by who stars in it. The old Ghostbusters starred men, so it was "for men". This new Ghostbusters stars women, so it's "for women". Am I the only one who finds this odd?
As if women can only relate to female characters, and men can only relate to male characters. As if the two genders are like completely two different species, with no common characteristics or humanity to empathize with. I don't need a new Alien movie for men, I can relate to Ripley just fine. Can't a little boy see a reflection of themselves in Rey? Not gender-wise, but in terms of, I dunno, being courageous? Can't a little girl see a reflection of themselves in Harry Potter? Maybe she has an older brother who's like Dudley, and can relate that way. This kind of mentality just divides the genders further.
Put it way better and more wrapped up than I did.