Dude cmon you're just eating your own cake
When you've baked as much fucking cake as I have in this thread and so many people are just strolling by the beautiful towering bastards without even so much as running a finger along the frosting
fuck yes I'm going to serve myself a slice with a smile and have fun with the inherent ridiculousness in a minority of posters here
suddenly finding their long lost ability to clutch at pearls and catch the vapors after
two-years worth of non-stop hostility and acrimony the
second it's aimed at a guy who likes Ghostbusters a lot.
Guess what: I also like Ghostbusters a lot. I might even argue I like it more than most of you here in this thread.
Not that it actually matters how much I like it. Because
it doesn't. It really doesn't factor in at all. Nor should it with Rolfe. His liking Ghostbusters a lot isn't really a great justification for his grandstanding bullshit, for reasons I've explained, very thoroughly, prior to this. It's not great justification for much of anything.
People being mean to him on twitter, going after his wife and kids, that's just as out of bounds as people being mean to Feig, McCarthy, Jones on twitter. People going out of their way to mean-spiritedly bring up his personal life or his appearance are just as shitty as people going out of their way to cack on McCarthy or Jones' size.
What's notable to me is that it's been two years worth of people very painstakingly going out of their way to make sure
everyone looking understands that
sexism is just a ghost (hah!) people are jumping at so as to make excuses for why people don't like the shitty marketing on display. They have had little-to-no problem with the sustained levels of nastiness, and have had
even less problem minimizing it, and have seemed to
thoroughly enjoy pretending they're being somehow persecuted for daring to be lone voices of reason demonized for
nothing more than daring to be a guy who has a keen eye for cinematic quality.
And a small number of these same men are now (gasp! shock!)
freaked out and utterly dismayed at the "sheer vitriol" being expended towards The Angry Video Game Nerd for his God-Given right to express his opinion honestly and even-handedly.
So again: What we seem to be dealing with here are a group of men
who are very insecure about both their opinions, their regard for their childhood, and also (maybe primarily) the possibility they might be labeled as a sexist on the internet, and have decided the best way to counter that insecurity is to attempt to minimize (if not
flat-out erase) the possiblity that
sexism has anything to do with anything.
This is the double-decker cake that keeps getting wheeled in the way of fairly basic conversation about this film's marketing campaign
Which is, by the way,
not great, could possibly point towards Paul Feig fucking the dog on this film, and wasting the talents of his cast and crew in a misguided attempt at modernizing both the tone and humor of Ghostbusters.
Note that I can say that confidently, without ever once having to suggest or even nod to the idea someone might think I'm sexist for saying that. I can dislike the marketing without prefacing that with any sort of worry about how people I don't know may percieve me on the internet, because I'm not at all insecure about my ability to explain my opinions, my standpoints, and am confident my reasoning will hold up when asked for it.
Insecurity is a motherfucker.