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ten5ive9ine said:
Dude, chill the fuck out. 47 posts in one day so far...
And don't try and pretend you're a GAF OG and are any cooler than any regular junior.
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I was merely replying to the fact that just because I used a fave GAF phrase, some posters were already getting on my case about it, most likely cuz I am a junior. I am not stating the fact of my lurking for all this time to be cool, ok.
 
Medalion said:
I was merely replying to the fact that just because I used a fave GAF phrase, some posters were already getting on my case about it, most likely cuz I am a junior. I am not stating the fact of my lurking for all this time to be cool, ok.
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S'not really a fave phrase though. Even if you've been posting for years, you'll still face dirision for being an idiot, but then, as someone who has been reading GAF for a decade, you'd already know that right?
 
I don't intend to get into an argument over it. It would be nice to get over awkward introductions, by trying so that one can fit in by using the same vanacular or vocabulary you are all used to, but I guess as a junior/noob you can't win.
 
Medalion said:
I don't intend to get into an argument over it. It would be nice to get over awkward introductions, by trying so that one can fit in by using the same vanacular or vocabulary you are all used to, but I guess as a junior/noob you can't win.
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The only way to become a GAF Gold Member is to not say phrases such as:

"FHUTA"
"Play him off, keyboard cat!"
"."
"This."
"wow thx." (Especially if another user above you has said it. C-C-C-COMBO BREAKER!)

And many more!!
 
soultron said:
The only way to become a GAF Gold Member is to not say phrases such as:

"FHUTA"
"Play him off, keyboard cat!"
"."
"This."
"wow thx." (Especially if another user above you has said it. C-C-C-COMBO BREAKER!)

And many more!!
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Ah... gold only member phrases, great class system we has here. *takes notes*
 
Medalion said:
Ah... gold only member phrases, great class system we has here. *takes notes*
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Man, I'm just fucking with you. Stuff like "FHUTA" is the filler that no one likes to read. It was funny when you started to lurk GAF.

Like, 10 years ago.
 
dgenx said:
So, here's the situation.

I'm dating 3 girls at the same time.

1) Infant school teacher, sweet girl but very complicated

2) Med student, very smart, maybe too smart she gets on my nerves sometime

3) Anthropologist , is nice and the easiest :)


I made out with 2 of them , Med student is missing (but I'm working on it).

Of course I make sure none of them knows each other, that's why I picked them of totally different social circles.



I'm going to have drinks with number 3 and her friend, hopefully there would be a number 4 .

About feelings well.. I think I have stronger feelings for number 2 but that's because I havent touch her or kiss her, I'm almost sure that when I do that feelings will go down a bit.

Any GAFadvices? Cause the dating is going kinda expensive , and no I don't think they will ever run into each other.

I want some cheap ass activities to do with girls, cause 1 is ok, 2 is ok but 3? goddamn sometimes it's too much money.
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No question. Just put brag thread in the title please.
 
soultron said:
Man, I'm just fucking with you. Stuff like "FHUTA" is the filler that no one likes to read. It was funny when you started to lurk GAF.

Like, 10 years ago.
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I know, it's a rite of passage thing. I don't actually like that phrase much, so this will be the last of it you will see from me for a long time or ever. And I'm pretty sure that phrase was not on GAF 10 years ago... unless someone's got the search function to check logs 10 years ago to confirm?...
 
I thought everyone went out with multiple people on dates until they decide who to stick with??

Al my male and female friends do this.. Is it wrong?
 
Para said:
I thought everyone went out with multiple people on dates until they decide who to stick with??

Al my male and female friends do this.. Is it wrong?
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Not really. You're a buyer, first and foremost. Gotta check out the market before you make a purchase.
 
Para said:
I thought everyone went out with multiple people on dates until they decide who to stick with??

Al my male and female friends do this.. Is it wrong?
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Apparently doing this and "making out" (who the fuck uses this term anymore :lol ) are thread worthy topics.
 
Para said:
I thought everyone went out with multiple people on dates until they decide who to stick with??

Al my male and female friends do this.. Is it wrong?
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Nope. Not wrong. Guys on GAF are just not used to having women interested apparently, and think that if they are going to go for coffee with a girl, then she needs to be their one and only special someone first.
 
My only question is... do any of these girls *think* they are in an exclusive relationship with you?

If they don't... enjoy.

If they do.... yeah you're headed for a crash.
 
DarienA said:
My only question is... do any of these girls *think* they are in an exclusive relationship with you?

If they don't... enjoy.

If they do.... yeah you're headed for a crash.
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Man there's no way he's in any exclusive relationship with any of them. When's the last time you bragged about making out w/ 'one' of your girlfriends :lol

Now if he were knee deep in some shepards daughter that would be an entirely different scenario, but even that may not be exclusive. I don't see how it is a man can pull three chicks at once and have no idea what kinds of dates he should be going on.
 
lordmrw said:
If this thread has taught me anything, its that I hate the phrase "made out" or "Making out". What the fuck are we 12?
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What do you call kissing with tongue, petting, etc that doesn't involve penetration in one blanket term?

Making out is probably the best one.
 
Cryptozoologist said:
What do you call kissing with tongue, petting, etc that doesn't involve penetration in one blanket term?

Making out is probably the best one.
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kissing with tongue, petting, etc.
 
DarienA said:
My only question is... do any of these girls *think* they are in an exclusive relationship with you?

If they don't... enjoy.

If they do.... yeah you're headed for a crash.
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He says he told them he's not looking for a long term relationship but I'm pretty sure they don't know he's seeing other girls. It appeases any morals he has despite the fact that the phrase does not imply that it's an open relationship. Of course, he won't tell a girl that he's looking for open relationships because he realizes that most likely all three girls will dump him but even worse is the off chance that they'll be okay with it and he'll end up having to share a girl with another guy.
 
Oh don't worry OP, I'm sure the girls are multi-tasking too. It happens a lot these days, more than people realize. I have a few gfs who've done it. I'd never do it myself though.

Thagomizer said:
That's actually not what I was saying at all, but thanks for reading into my post what you wanted to read into it. What I was actually saying is that you can have a healthy, loving relationship before sex in response to the people in this thread who were saying, directly and indirectly, that you cannot have a serious relationship with somebody-and it cannot be considered a serious relationship- until you have sex, NOT that they are mutually exclusive, sex isn't a positive thing, etc
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I agree, sure sex is important in a relationship but you most certainly CAN have a meaningful relationship before you go down that road. It's silly to say that its not a relationship unless you are hitting it. But then again, I understand where these guys are coming from, I mean in this day and age people have sex on the first date, before they even get to know each other, its kind of become a part of getting to know each other. I'd never do it myself though, unless I was committed to the guy, that's what happened with my guy, he was patient, one of the things about him that made me fall for him. It's really hard to find guys like that (like you and my bf) these days.
 
Can I sum up this thread by saying "ITT: Jealous nerds call OP a liar for claiming to have a healthy social life"? without having read much beyond the OP.

Dating 3 girls is fine as long as they're not under the impression they're in an exclusive relationship with you. I hope you'll settle for one eventually though.
 
Ceres said:
He says he told them he's not looking for a long term relationship but I'm pretty sure they don't know he's seeing other girls. It appeases any morals he has despite the fact that the phrase does not imply that it's an open relationship. Of course, he won't tell a girl that he's looking for open relationships because he realizes that most likely all three girls will dump him but even worse is the off chance that they'll be okay with it and he'll end up having to share a girl with another guy.
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How long is that going to last?
 
Decide what you're looking for (long-term? marriage? casual sex?) and find what girl best meets your long-term goal. It's probably better for him to date 2 or 3 girls at once, instead of putting all his eggs in one basket and then getting fucked over before he gets anywhere towards a relationship. Not to mention, this will prevent him doting on a single girl since he'll be too busy to do that, making him look more "mysterious" and attractive to begin with.

I don't see anything wrong with casually dating a few girls at once (hell I do it all the time), but eventually he will have to come to a decision, sooner-or-later. Yes, feelings are gonna get a bit hurt, but that's a big part of the dating game. And if you're in NY I could take the ones you don't want off your hand, haven't really been doing too hot this year :lol
 
Sounds more like casual dating to me. Its pretty common. It what normal people without real girlfriends do. You date a few girls and when you finally decide the one, then you go full at it. These girls are probably doing the same thing.

None of these are your actual girlfriend, those drain so much of your time your barely have enough time to do anything else with 1 never mind 3.

Also on the med school girl. Those are trouble, major trouble. It might be OK now while she's in med school but unless your super successful a lot of them when they become doctors start feeling "You're not good enough for them".
 
ccbfan said:
Sounds more like casual dating to me. Its pretty common. It what normal people without real girlfriends do. You date a few girls and when you finally decide the one, then you go full at it. These girls are probably doing the same thing.
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Yeah, I guarantee if these girls are any attractive they probably have a whole roster of guys that are interested in dating them, and they are almost positively gonna be dating around as well.
 
Mr.City said:
I hope this real because I can't wait to see this fucking crash. :lol
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There's nothing wrong with casual dating as long as when you decide to go beyond casual you DECIDE on something and stick with it. Also, when one of your girls decides to try to go beyond casual, you break it off if you're not interested. Don't drag her along for the poon or for your ego. Be a man and do the right thing for her and be honest. You're not interested in that kind of relationship and you won't be. Leave and wish her luck in life.

That being said the OP smells of being 14-16 years and being proud of his little game that he plays. If you are older I apologize but I will also add that maybe you should look in the mirror and ask yourself what you're doing and why. Some people play games like this for very deep psychological reasons. Why do you need this much attention OR why must you give everyone your attention? Do you realize what you're doing?

1 girl in your life is plenty, man. Both for you, your ego and your health. Trust me on this one.
 
Thagomizer said:
This is what I mean. Me and my current GF actually started dating before we made out. We are with each other every day. I helped her with her family's house remodeling (we are both college students who go back home during the summer), we do everything together, and love each other. We both want a future with the other together.

But since we haven't actually had vaginal sex, I guess that means we aren't in a relationship, right? We are just testing each other out? Once we have sex, we will actually be in a relationship?
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No vaginal Sex? What about FHUTA? I must know before I can decide if you are in a relationship or not.
 
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