BladeWorker said:
It doesn't, but it helps you play the authority role. If you'd like a demonstration of how such role-play would work, I'm sure bdiz won't get too jealous.
If you cheat on me, I'll find you and show my displeasure with a very stern frown.
Wow, bdiz, I like this stretch of posts from you. I don't actually have to put anything into urbandictionary to understand what you're saying.
I might just have to write you a crown of sonnets.
Don't worry, it's just because I ran out of hennessy.
I'm going to the liquor store tomorrow and will be back to my normal incoherent babble of telling gaffers to just whip their dicks out.
claviertekky said:
You guys are making a lot of people agitated for some of the things you say.
I don't understand how posting on GAF = nerd = loser and why you don't understand how not everything works for one person. Just because it works for you doesn't mean it works for everyone else when they've tried it.
Here's one example in video how a bar scene doesn't work out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WqbJRPXuSM#t=7m14s
7:14-9:02, especially @ 8:40. It just comes out as awkward as fuck. Some guys can pull it off, and some guys can't. Deal with it.
Yes I know the documentary is part of a series called "Desperate Virgins." However, that one scene I'm pointing out has nothing to do with that.
Some people fit better in other social environements like going to church or doing volunteering service or enjoying hobbies in groups. Social activities is key. It doesn't have to be the club scene, which you guys keep emphasizing as the holy grail for a relationship to happen.
:lol stop it. If you post on gaf, you're a nerd. You may not be a loser, but you're definitely a nerd lol. I'm a nerd and I tell everyone female I meet I'm a nerd. I work in IT, the only thing nerdier is being a math geek lol. There's nothing unnerdy about neogaf lol.
There's nothing wrong with being a nerd. You wouldn't believe how many women I've met that tell me they love nerds/smart guys. My 2 gf's said the main thing that attracted them to me is that I was nerdy. The main problem is a lot of you guys seems to be ashamed of who you really are. I remember at one point in this thread guys were saying don't tell girls you play video games, or have an anime collection or some crazy shit like that. I have a damn ryu street fighter IV action figure on my night stand and ryu's theme from street fighter 2 as my ring tone. And girls just don't give a fuck about any of that shit because I'm confident with who I am as a man. Matter of fact, when I take out my elmo house slippers girls actually say their cute and they want to wear them while they're at my house. If you're just comfortable with who you are, most women will fall in line.
claviertekky said:
By your logic, you are just as one-dimensional, too. A relationship could be found clubbing, but it's NOT the holy grail and absolute fact for everyone as not everyone fits in the club scene.
I'm trying to remember if you were the guy who'd get pissed off at everyone who would give him advice and have a temper tantrum.........I think you are, but I'm not 100% sure. Anyways.....
Where did I say a club is only place to find a relationship? How many times have I said in this thread women are EVERYWHERE. I'll quote what I wrote to Ultima5
Film, photography, and book clubs are all good choices. Pilates/Yoga/Fitness clubs are good too, but you'd probably need to be in shape to hang with those girls. Also cooking clubs 9/10 is going to be all chicks, but they might be a bit on the chunky side . But honestly you don't HAVE to go to those places to meet women. You can meet women at the gas station, supermarket, hang out spots on campus, etc. If you're school is anything like mine was, there's beautiful women walking around everyday, especially during the spring.
Read the beginning of this thread. I was the one telling Combine to go outside, make eye contact with a girl at the park while he's sketching, and start from there. Not one time in this thread have I told him the only way he can find a girl is at a club. My whole point with telling Ultima to not dismiss girls who go to clubs is because you shouldn't write off an entire group of people based on some pre conceived notion which is more than likely totally incorrect.
Playing video games doesn't classify you as a nerd. Neither does reading books.
Of course games and reading doesn't classify you as a nerd, but if you ask the average person the types of things nerds do, video games and reading will come up 90% of the time :lol. It was a generalization, I figured you would have at least inferred that from my post. It's like you're purposely arguing just to argue. So I'll say it again in clear, concise terms so you can understand. Going to a club is not the only place you can meet women. You can never step foot inside of a club and STILL meet women all over. But don't have the mind set that if a girl goes to a club she's a drunken whore. Because there's a lot of drunken whores in libraries, college campuses, office complexes, restaurants, and anywhere else you think these so called "good girls" hang out at. And if you specifically rule out an entire group of people (club goers for example) for some retarded generalization you have of them, then don't get upset when a women shuts you down because of a dumb generalization she has of guys playing video games, or listens to a certain genre, of music, or likes a certain type food.
claviertekky said:
Yeah that's exactly what I'm saying. I don't see why everyone wants to agree with the guy who keeps telling other guys to go to clubs because it works for him and it MUST work for you.
If you're referring to me, how fucking dense are you? Go through my posts and READ the number of times I've said, YOU CAN MEET GIRLS ANYWHERE. I meet girls at clubs because it's easy pickings. They go there, they get dressed up, and 8/10 they WANT to meet a guy there. You know they're not busy and interrupting them is never considered rude. I also meet girls at restaurants, book stores, gas station, supermarket, anywhere a group of people congregate. If you're uncomfortable meeting a girl at a club/bar, then 9/10 you're uncomfortable meeting a girl anywhere. So even you never step foot inside of one and go to all of the wonderful places you think all these angelic women hang out at, you'll still have the same issues of lack of confidence, approach anxiety, fear of rejection, and all around being a walking, bleeding vagina.
After reading all of your posts, I'm 99% sure you're the guy that got defensive over any little thing someone said to you.
) and you see that the girl is actually interested there´s a good chance it´ll work...at least short term.
