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Eggo said:
I don't buy that these guys aren't looking, they're just not finding. It's hard to forget about the one that got away when your pond is currently empty.
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I don't buy that these guys aren't looking, they're just not finding. It's hard to forget about the one that got away when your pond is currently empty.
i want to tell my co-worker i like her. i'm thinking i should just get this out there instead of holding it in me, if she rejects me....fine, whatever. at least i know for sure and can move on.
not really sure when to bring it up, not at work of course. i do have one thing going against me though, she prefers hispanic guy...what a racist! :lol i'm thinking about calling her that too, as a joke of course.
any pro-tips? cool lines i can say? i love cool lines. i'm going to be calm and casual about it when i tell her.
thanks.
not really sure when to bring it up, not at work of course. i do have one thing going against me though, she prefers hispanic guy...what a racist! :lol i'm thinking about calling her that too, as a joke of course.
any pro-tips? cool lines i can say? i love cool lines. i'm going to be calm and casual about it when i tell her.
thanks.
Wellington
BAAAALLLINNN'
I don't like to post here but I feel like I'm about to fucking decapitate someone.
Wrapped up a third date with the first girl in a long time that I feel is worth locking up. She's fucking incredible. So we hold hands sporadically, kiss sporadically, i take her to dinner, we watch Jersey Shore at my house. I let it slip that I am so into her because I fully believe in just being honest. She says she's normally into asshole guys not nice guys like I've been to her.
I wanted to punch her square in the jaw right then.
I'm coming off of two years of lying and talking girls up to tag them and then never talk to them again, to being a great guy to this girl.
In shape, making six figures, own my house, willing to show affection, smart, funny, well read. I am the COMPLETE package.
And she wants an asshole!???!
Did I just fucking hear right? was my thought...
She says she just wants to go with the flow but the writing is on the wall here.
I just CANNOT believe what I heard today. Fuck!!!!!!!!!
Women really just do not know what is good for them.
Wrapped up a third date with the first girl in a long time that I feel is worth locking up. She's fucking incredible. So we hold hands sporadically, kiss sporadically, i take her to dinner, we watch Jersey Shore at my house. I let it slip that I am so into her because I fully believe in just being honest. She says she's normally into asshole guys not nice guys like I've been to her.
I wanted to punch her square in the jaw right then.
I'm coming off of two years of lying and talking girls up to tag them and then never talk to them again, to being a great guy to this girl.
In shape, making six figures, own my house, willing to show affection, smart, funny, well read. I am the COMPLETE package.
And she wants an asshole!???!
Did I just fucking hear right? was my thought...
She says she just wants to go with the flow but the writing is on the wall here.
I just CANNOT believe what I heard today. Fuck!!!!!!!!!
Women really just do not know what is good for them.
Mr.Squirrel
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Wellington said:
Obviously she disagrees
CJUNDERGROUND
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Wellington said:
Sounds like you won't have any problems finding another woman.
SpectreFire
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Wellington said:
:lol
Atramental
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Okay, here's something new...
There's this super religious chick that is coming onto me HARD. I need her to get lost. If she wasn't an absolute Jesus nut I would be hitting it like the fist of an angry god. Her eyes lock onto mine when we're talking and I can can just see the crazy. Thank goodness she'll be graduating out of BJU next semester but I'm freaking the fuck out!
How do I get rid of her? And no I can't tell her that I'm not religious. That would create even more problems.
There's this super religious chick that is coming onto me HARD. I need her to get lost. If she wasn't an absolute Jesus nut I would be hitting it like the fist of an angry god. Her eyes lock onto mine when we're talking and I can can just see the crazy. Thank goodness she'll be graduating out of BJU next semester but I'm freaking the fuck out!
How do I get rid of her? And no I can't tell her that I'm not religious. That would create even more problems.
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Wellington said:
Should have kicked her out of your house. Maybe she would have sucked your dick.
Atramental
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One more thing I forgot to mention... we both went to the same highschool...
So the sex or abortion stories probably wouldn't work because she knows me too well.
So the sex or abortion stories probably wouldn't work because she knows me too well.
Atramental said:
Uh, what do you expect, an abortion to be advertised? It was kept a secret with someone she never knew, whatever. She might tell a few people, who cares, you deny it, she's crazy, and then calls you a liar. Now she really wants nothing to do with you. Yay.
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Fantastic game, player.Wellington said:
Pinko Marx
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Atramental said:
How much of a jesus freak are we talking?
QFT. I smirked at the thought of Erkel saying this too.Barrage said:
GAF, if it's early in a relationship and you're thinking of professing your love for the girl, or telling her how much you're into her... Don't do it. It's like writing a crown of sonnets. You're symbolically chopping your balls off and putting them in her purse. After you've boned a couple times, then you can start thinking about it. You can also wait until she says something first. Just don't do it too early. Learn from Wellington's mistake!
did that dude do a follow up on his thread? :lolEggo said:
edit: ah, yes. wow, that was a year ago. http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=374209&page=4
HehSlo said:
Yeah I think you'll be fine Wellington, like others have said you shouldn't have any troubles finding another girl, preferably one who doesn't like being treated like shit too.I never really understood why girls like that so much, does it apply to all of them or just the crazy ones? My girlfriend says she genuinely doesn't like being messed around, and likes nice guys - she's lying right?
Atramental
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-keeps on talking about how "the spirit is leading her"Pinko Marx said:
-she straight up asked me about how I came to Christ
-told me she was saved at the age of 3
-her father is a pastor
-back when we were still at my Christian highschool (she was a senior and I was a sophomore) we had this "spiritual emphasis" week. During the last chapel of that week there was this open mic event. She got up there and started laughing and crying hysterically. And while she was blubbering something about god, sounding like a total nutcase, me and my friends were cringing in our seats.
-when she prays she sticks in "father god" into every single goddamn sentence.
-despite being very physically attractive she has never had a boy friend (haha... I wonder why) and she is still waiting for "God to show her 'the one' "
infiniteloop
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Atramental said:
You say "Oh, that's cool. I'm an atheist."
Old Lace said:
There are so many red flags with this chick, I can't see it ending in anything remotely good. Do you not understand the extreme craziness of people like that? They aren't going to abandon their hardcore, lifelong beliefs in a moment of sexual passion :lol She sounds like she is pretty devout, and devout religious people always have a network of equally crazy folk in their social circle. Even if something DID happen with her, she would eventually feel guilty and tell her pastor or her friends or her mentor or whoever else to get "guidance" on how to handle the situation, and then our friend Atramental would have an even bigger problem
Atramental
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EzLink is right on the money.EzLink said:
Also, I don't want to pork a crazy girl. goddamn.
This might be my only option if things go too far.infiniteloop said:
Edit: btw she came up to talk to me again today. Seems like she has calmed a bit. Maybe she was all excited yesterday because she was actually able to talk to a male that she wasn't related to.
Smelly Tramp
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Eggo said:
exactly, i didn't drop the l-bomb for about 3 months of constantly seeing my now gf every day. i knew i did after like a month, but you just don't say that shit. wait, wait, wait some more, keep waiting, and then she'll eventually push you for it so much, that it's completely obvious it's reciprocated and that she'll say it back. THEN you say it.
If you're not religious, going for a hardcore Christian/Evangelical will lead to absolute disaster. Maybe not immediately, but in a few months, it will explode. Trust me on this one, it happened to me back in '08. I think Atramental, you are very very wise to stay away. Just tell her "you want to focus on your studies and don't have time for dating now" or something.
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Wellington said:
All she said was she is used to a-holes. She didn't say she wasn't into you. If she is still hanging with you, that means she is into you. Women say one thing and do something totally different. What I think she was hinting at was that you need to be a bit more aggressive with her. I don't mean catch a case, but all that hand holding and crap needs to move to pulling her panties to the side.
Atramental
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To give you guys some context, here's my most recent post from my social anxiety thread:
So basically, I met her on Wednesday night at this youth group thing, which I'll probably end ditching as soon as I figure out a good excuse to tell her why I don't attend anymore. Then Thursday she was totally on my dick, metaphorically speaking. And today she seems to be only half as crazy.
So much for trying to get rid of my social anxiety by socializing. I'm hiding in my car right now and typing this on my phone btw. :lol
atramental said:
So basically, I met her on Wednesday night at this youth group thing, which I'll probably end ditching as soon as I figure out a good excuse to tell her why I don't attend anymore. Then Thursday she was totally on my dick, metaphorically speaking. And today she seems to be only half as crazy.
So much for trying to get rid of my social anxiety by socializing. I'm hiding in my car right now and typing this on my phone btw. :lol
I can handle crazy in general but once religion or god gets put into the mix it's an entirely different ball game.Barrage said:
Barrage said:
Touche, but my avatar is from GameFan. I had it before iNinja, much less the PS2, was even released.
Atramental, I think you're making a mistake. Sex with a crazy religious girl is amazing. It's taboo/forbidden fruit, so she'll be in the moment and full of fear/crazy. Plus, you know she's going away when she graduates. Not sure why you would turn it down, especially in your current environment.
Wellington said:
In my opinion, the third date is too soon to be saying something direct like that (you have to just show her you're into her in various ways, but not overdo it at that stage). That said, I am sympathetic to your plight. As a fellow "nice guy" who was raised a certain way, I have come to believe that many (most?) girls are just idiots when it comes to their own TRUE best interest. People can point to evolutionary psychology all they want, but the fact of the matter is that we (both men and women) override and reason past our evolutionary predispositions all the time, yet exceedingly few women seem to be willing or able to do so in the romantic sphere. And I say this as someone who most guys would probably consider an "alpha male" so this isn't me crying bitter tears. I just know better.
Atramental said:
i would disagree
she may be crazy but she's into you and you're young enough where dipping your toes in the water is easy to do without long-term repercussions.
as long as you go in knowing you're not that into her, you'll be fine. and i find with those types you have a 50/50 chance of her being a dead fish in bed or an absolute freak. i'd take those odds if i were you, if only to explore your self and have some fun in the process.
Atramental
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To clear things up, this girl has not offered to have sex with me. I don't understand where you guys are getting this impression.
Edit: Oh wait maybe I do
Also, I had my eyes on another girl before this one came on the scene.
Edit: Oh wait maybe I do
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Also, I had my eyes on another girl before this one came on the scene.
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