BossLackey
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Get the fuck outta there man.
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Akiyama_AE
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Trying to Snake but gotta do it in a way that's for both parties
Rktk
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Someone with strong game.
BossLackey
Gold Member
I may have jumped to conclusions. Definitely find out definitively why she's behaving the way she is by talking to her. If she refuses to, then you know something's going on.
I had something similar happen to me. My girlfriend of 4 years became incredibly distant and was acting super shady. She wasn't cheating, but she had completely checked out of the relationship.
I wish you all the best. Good luck.
birthday-suit
Banned
Theres that new cheating app.
This isn't kind of SO you want to be, OP.
veryslowhand
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Ask her
True Savior
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OP my telephone is full of information of other people. Some its graphic. She had a life before you guys have met (how long has it been ? ). Maybe she doesn't want you to see it.
What's strong game ?
What's strong game ?
You have been dating this woman for half a year, living with her for half that time, and you supposedly love her, but you won't give her the benefit of the doubt? Dude, what the hell. Use your word, talk to her like the adult you are and not try and dig up evidence to show a problem when you don't even know if it exists. Talk about your problems and see if you can solve them, don't just run at the first sign of rough waters.
Her milkshake brings all the boys to the yard
Akiyama_AE
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That's not something I would want to be done to myself so I can't do that to her there's another way I can find out
David Incorporated Esq.
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Hey if you're being invasive and spying on someone the how of it isn't terribly important.
Ray Wonder
Founder of the Wounded Tagless Children
Did she get hit with a few shells, but not walk with a limp?
Akiyama_AE
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I mean I know the password if she didn't change it lol..
David Incorporated Esq.
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STOP IT.
Fucking talk to her. If she won't discuss your concerns then you can leave the relationship. What you're getting into now is childish bullshit.
GustyGardens
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Maybe she'll accidentally lose her phone one of these days. I'm sure you can think of some way to make that happen. It really depends on how deep you want to go into this. Do you really want to know the truth, or would you rather live in ignorant bliss and just call it off.
How long have you been seeing this woman?
How long have you been seeing this woman?
Yes. I support this.
You aren't being noble, it's passed that point. Your intention is to FIND OUT, the way you do it doesn't matter. Just know that you will find whatever it is you're looking for. Question is, can you let it go? Can you be confident that you just don't like the way she is with you. That should be enough to call it off without having to steal the NOC list. Trust is broken, this is broken.
If you refuse to sit down and have a real talk about your relationship like rational fucking adults I guess you might as well go full crazy, sure.
OP just talk to her. You're seriously being petty as fuck with this "she'll just lie, I'll PROVE IT THEN BREAK UP" bullshit.
LookAtMeGo
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If you think she would be cheating and you don't trust her without any solid proof then keeping this relationship going is a waste of both of your time. Don't waste anymore. Best case scenario is that she's not cheating and you are being paranoid. Worst case scenario is she's fucking your best friend. Either way the relationship is doomed.
The Incarnation
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SuicidalSteve
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Have you ever thought that she might be defensive because she might have been in an abusive relationship? Or somethi g she might find embarassi g. Sometimes the one answer isnt always the only answer. Could be many factors.
Or that she is cheating and then end it right now
Or that she is cheating and then end it right now
MrPressStart
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Tell her you dont' know how to say this.. and after reading your post, you don't know how to write it either, ; )
all jokes aside, you need to confront her and tell her that the bahaviors make you uncomfortable. If she loves you... she should respect that.
all jokes aside, you need to confront her and tell her that the bahaviors make you uncomfortable. If she loves you... she should respect that.
davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
If she was willing to talk about this wouldn't she be talking about it already?
MrPressStart
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Not if she doesnt know there is a real problem in his eyes.
What can she tell you that will ease your mind so you'll be ok with her odd phone behavior? If she is cheating then chances are a talk about your concerns isn't going to make her confess. It would be interesting to see what the talk brings up though and why she justifies being sneaky and hiding her phone. Start wearing condoms if you aren't already... or just break up with her.
ThankYouDaletech
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Remove/add a goatee to your face and pretend to be your good/evil twin. If she tries to get dick from you, total cheater.
Real talk: If your SO is weird about you using their phone/laptop/tablet and it's not close to your birthday or a gift-giving holiday, they're banging other people.
Real talk: If your SO is weird about you using their phone/laptop/tablet and it's not close to your birthday or a gift-giving holiday, they're banging other people.
tearsintherain
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start doing the exact same thing to her - suck the dick of any guy she says hi to, right in front of her. try to bang her dad.
Boom. Solid advice.
Jeronimo Jones
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If you're not afraid of the relationship ending, why would you not just confront her?
You literally have no proof--just a feeling, and she may confess. Or not. Either way you would have more of an idea what was going than just bailing because she's "suspicious" with her phone.
You literally have no proof--just a feeling, and she may confess. Or not. Either way you would have more of an idea what was going than just bailing because she's "suspicious" with her phone.
Goro Majima
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I mean, do you have a general idea where she is and who she is with all the time? Only girl that cheated on me was really vague about that stuff. Key word is "general" though, and it's because people that are together usually like to talk about their day.
Being overly concerned about her phone privacy is a pretty large red flag also if you're hoping for this to turn into something serious. I've never gone through another girls phone but acting shifty about it would be odd.
Being overly concerned about her phone privacy is a pretty large red flag also if you're hoping for this to turn into something serious. I've never gone through another girls phone but acting shifty about it would be odd.
TheBaldEmperor
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Haha damn!
Kingpin Rogers
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I act like this with my phone even though I have nothing suspicious on there at all.
I also have a code to get into my phone and then a pattern lock to get into my apps. Some people just like a little privacy.
I also have a code to get into my phone and then a pattern lock to get into my apps. Some people just like a little privacy.
Pretty much. If she's playing games with other people, that's pretty much it. How much you lose after that is up to you.
Eduardboon
Member
Is it because she's afraid you won't use proper interpunction while using her phone?
Ganzlinger
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Man, just ask her to show her phone.
bruh, why in the fuck wouldn't you just say punctuation?
Eduardboon
Member
Eh, punctuation can apply here as well I guess.
Messofanego
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I had a girl that was like yours OP. She was cheating, with multiple people. Lied and lied about it even though I had hard evidence, and I stupidly kept in it for a bit longer, until she "amicably" broke up with me. I was a moron who ignored the obvious. Don't be me.
But...talk to her about it first. Trust your gut though.
But...talk to her about it first. Trust your gut though.
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