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Have You Ever Been Attracted to the Same Sex?

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Never sexually no but when I see a handsome or beautiful man I acknowledge it. Big I think it's more subconcious jealousy.
 
Gay dude here, so I'm always attracted to the same sex... Kind of a weird way to word the question, OP, but I think I get what you're trying to ask.. I think..

Sexuality is much more fluid than people think. I've found girls to be attractive. However, I don't think that attraction has ever been sexual for me. More aesthetic, really.
 
Attracted sure, but not sexually. It's more like admiration or envy. Like I can see a dude and be star struck by their attractiveness and everything but like upstairs or downstairs it does nothing for me sexually. It's a total flat line.
 
There are some dudes i'm not afraid to admit are good looking, but i've never been attracted to the same sex in terms of seeking their attention or craving sex with them. I feel certain that i don't find males arousing, but who knows how i will react if a gay dude does end up seducing me.
 
Only since as long as I can remember.

I assume this thread is aimed at heterosexuals with the odd wording, skirting around the existence of millions of homosexual people and everybody in between.
 
a.wd said:
I think Idris Elba is a sexy motherfucker, but I wouldn't want to shag him. My wife would be too jealous.
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This is a good example. I find him to be really good looking, but i'd never gush or get nervous the way i would get nervous talking to a female celebrity i have a crush on.
 
I'm gay but I have a female cousin who is REALLY attractive. She is an actress and her voice and way of moving are magnetic. I don't really have sexual thoughts about her but I want to be around her.
I have a crush
 
I'm attracted to femininity. If someone the same sex as me presented as female I'd be just as inclined to find them physically attractive as any other female. However, I've never seen someone presenting as a man that I've been attracted to.
 
Salsa said:
we all do it really, just gotta think about what "attraction" entails
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I know exactly what you're talking about.




















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The Lamp said:
As a bisexual it's hard for me to imagine why you couldn't be attracted to anyone for any particular reason, but whatever, people who claim they're 100% straight/gay have the right to be that way lol.

Like a great ass looks great on someone regardless of sex/gender.

But also boobs and dick and vagina and ass and legs and chests are all hot, hahaha
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I think some people just have a harder time admitting that the qualities of one sex they like can always be present on someone of the other sex.

Unless it's the just the genitals, cuz those are usually platform exclusive.
 
Salsa said:
probably yeah? never really thought about it as it's not like it reached a point where that attraction became sexual or anything like it since I dont think i've ever had gay thoughts or suspicions

more like "woah this dude is really atractive and charming" and subconciously lookin for his approval or something, you know?
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Yosuke is that you?
 
I dont think I'm sexually attracted to anyone but I definitely like both girls and guys. Prefer girls tho

shandy706 said:
Shemales with boobs?

Kinda hot?

(Edit* Not talking man,boobs. Talking post op "real" breasts and a feminine face)

There are some that could get ahold of you and stay dressed from the waist down...you'd never know...lol
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That's generally considered a slur btw

Also trans girls can't have "man boobs" on account of not being men
 
I definitely have a strong appreciation for good looking men. I don't have a desire to get physical with them though.
 
Yes, constantly

I'm gay, but I've been physically attracted to plenty of women; don't have a sexual attraction to them though. It's like looking at beautiful scenery, you are attracted to the scenery, but you don't want to have sex with it.
 
I've never wanted to have sex with any man, but there are definitely some men that I find to be attractive, more in an appreciative or perhaps jealous sense.
 
Misha said:
I dont think I'm sexually attracted to anyone but I definitely like both girls and guys. Prefer girls tho


That's generally considered a slur btw

Also trans girls can't have "man boobs" on account of not being men
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My apologies, I'll change it immediately..I was unaware.
 
No. Once I went to the mall with one of my friends, and we ran into a kid that that she knew and had lunch with him. He had really feminine mannerisms, and I could tell that the part of my mind that registers sexual identifiers was picking up on them, but it certainly didn't add up to attraction.
 
Yep, never really kept my level of attraction limited to one gender, and I never really considered myself bi, straight or gay. Just the fact that I could enjoy sex with anyone I cared about or wanted to have sex with. Pansexual it is then.
 
Bi/pansexual so hell yes. I'm attracted to interesting and sexy people :)

I really have a thing for people who express themselves in a non-stereotypical way with regards to their gender and who present close to androgynous, regardless of their sex. Almost certainly related to gender identity issues when growing up.

In terms of actual relationships and encounters though, gender and sex aren't a factor at all in attraction for me.
 
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