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This sounds very similar to me dude - had something very similar happen to me about 18 months ago.
Thriller said:
After this she said that i could stay over to sleep, so we went upstairs and instead of me sleeping in HER bed she throws me a matrass into a crappy little room with a sleeping bag and she told me we were going to see some of her friends.
Had this thing happen to me (well, I slept in a sleeping bag on the floor next to her bed).

It's not nice I know this but you've got to think if she's prepared to treat you like that and make you feel that way she's not meant for you nor is she relationship material.
 
ScientificNinja said:
Lemme guess: you're one of those people who also doesn't want to be a burden on anyone? I know people like that, and what you need is to learn a little self-respect. People WILL hate you no matter what happens and you need to grow a pair and learn how to assert yourself.
IAWTP. You should of just walked around town/stayed at the bus shelter like others mentioned. Sure it wouldn't have been good for you physically but better mentally.

I wouldn't bother replying to the usual "help me GAF and my ridiculous situation" threads but this whole thing seems more esteem related than anything. During my teens I used to have the tendency to try and please everyone to avoid confrontation, but it's not who I am (or you, or anyone for that matter). You don't want to offend others but if people have issues you for being yourself, that's their problem and not yours.

What I'm trying to say is screw everyone else and just do what you want. Sure you'll piss some people off along the way but then they didn't like you to begin with; they liked the idea of someone that would always agree, help out and be manipulated. I have less friends now than back at school but they stick with me regardless of my shit, and if they piss me off I'll call them on it. Stop being pushed around, then you'll get a girl you deserve.
 
I'm sorry for you. In these cases it seems obvious you should just bail out and tell the bitch to fuck off but it's not always easy when there are feelings involved no matter what many jerks around here may tell you (don't take offence, I don't speak about anyone in particular but it's very easy to say 'you're a sucker, tell her to go to hell and go fuck someone else' when you're not in that situation).

I just got out of a pretty sick relationship myself. Normally if you told me I would have done things the way I've done them (i.e. acting like a sucker) I wouldn't have believed it. Too many times I decided to take my chances even in 100% no-win situations, and knowing I wouldn't succeed, but I did it anyway. The point is you can't just think clearly when there are feelings involved, so my advice is just be selfish and try to do what's ultimately best for you.

Best of luck ;)
 
Thriller said:
Hey GAF, so this is what happened,

yesterday I was invited to eat at the place of a girl who id been seeing for a couple of weeks now.
After i met her parents we went to another place because she had to take care of the house, so we watch a movie and i tried to get near her because we were going out anyway, she didnt like that, and i was allready like hmmm ok?
After this she said that i could stay over to sleep, so we went upstairs and instead of me sleeping in HER bed she throws me a matrass into a crappy little room with a sleeping bag and she told me we were going to see some of her friends.
I wasnt happy with this because i didnt know ANYONE except her and she was what i came down for.
So we get there, and she dissapears, when i go out to get a heineken i see her smooching with another dude and im like WTF! but i tried to stay cool.
We cycled to town to get some beers there and she cycles hand in hand with him and i dont know anyone and noone was cycling with me so i felt pretty fucked about my date going with someone else.
After we came in town and me now knowing anyone and explaining her that i came all the way to her just for HER and not anyone else i said i wanted to leave.
So she said ok well leave, i go outside and i see her bring that guy with her who she was kissing with earlier.
We cycle all the way home and i go to my bed because this was hopeless anyway, she told me (after numerous SMS's saying otherwise) that she doesnt love me and she doesnt want to get a real relationship.
I was heart broken as i heard HER and that other fucker getting it off in the room next to me.
I didnt sleep at all because i was so confused and i left as soon as the first light got through my window.
What should i do??? be angry at her or just let it pass and try to get other girls :(
Thanks for reading

Jesus fucking christ, if this isn't a joke post then you have got to be one of the most pathetic losers ever. And every single one of you who claims to have a "similar" experience are all pathetic losers as well.

Yes, you post on GAF. Yes, you are most probably a huge geek/nerd. But that doesn't really mean that you have to behave like the stereotypical geek/nerd. Hell, *I* am a huge geek but I don't let people fuck with me even if they're physically bigger than me and I sure as hell don't let any chick fuck around with me. Cultivate some anger and don't let people walk all over you like that, FFS. Nice guys finish last.
 
Amir0x said:
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh

what the FUCK is wrong with some of you GAFers! You went down to visit this bitch, and she fucking ignores you and makes out with another guy in front of you and then fucks him in the next room.

A.) Go to the next room, stab the guy in the eye
B.) Tell the dumb whore that she isn't worth the fucking dirt you walk on
C.) Leave that very god damn moment, never talk to her again, and move on with life and get with someone who deserves you

Jesus christ

Sticky?
 
EverSoTrendy said:
I would have pissed in her orange juice and rubbed her toothbrush under my sack and left.

Then you go for the Upper Deck to complete the trifecta...
 
Thriller said:
Hey GAF, so this is what happened,

yesterday I was invited to eat at the place of a girl who id been seeing for a couple of weeks now.
After i met her parents we went to another place because she had to take care of the house, so we watch a movie and i tried to get near her because we were going out anyway, she didnt like that, and i was allready like hmmm ok?
After this she said that i could stay over to sleep, so we went upstairs and instead of me sleeping in HER bed she throws me a matrass into a crappy little room with a sleeping bag and she told me we were going to see some of her friends.
I wasnt happy with this because i didnt know ANYONE except her and she was what i came down for.
So we get there, and she dissapears, when i go out to get a heineken i see her smooching with another dude and im like WTF! but i tried to stay cool.
We cycled to town to get some beers there and she cycles hand in hand with him and i dont know anyone and noone was cycling with me so i felt pretty fucked about my date going with someone else.
After we came in town and me now knowing anyone and explaining her that i came all the way to her just for HER and not anyone else i said i wanted to leave.
So she said ok well leave, i go outside and i see her bring that guy with her who she was kissing with earlier.
We cycle all the way home and i go to my bed because this was hopeless anyway, she told me (after numerous SMS's saying otherwise) that she doesnt love me and she doesnt want to get a real relationship.
I was heart broken as i heard HER and that other fucker getting it off in the room next to me.
I didnt sleep at all because i was so confused and i left as soon as the first light got through my window.
What should i do??? be angry at her or just let it pass and try to get other girls :(
Thanks for reading

Disgraceful

Don't let women treat you like this. When she brought the other guy to the house you should have stood up and said you know what, I'm a man and I have feelings too. And I'm not gonna let you jerk me around so I'm going home.
 
Thriller said:
I thought it took balls to ask her what was going on and saying what i thought about it.
I should have said that guy wasnt allowed to come along too :(

Were you actually dating this girl, or were you just a friend? Man, if I came down to see my girlfriend (who lives 300 km away, I hate long-distance relationships and they're not worth the effort and worry), and she pulled that shit on me, that guy would get stabbed in the throat with a broken liquor bottle. I wouldn't hurt the woman, but I'd do my best to destroy her life.

Christ, please tell me you weren't dating this girl.
 
WTFWTFWTFWTFWTF @ this story.

You gotta be like De Niro in Heat, always be prepared to walk away in 30 seconds flat when you hear the girl you've been dating getting drilled by some other guy in the next room. God damn.
 
This thread actually makes me angry. I just can't believe it. :lol

I don't know what's crazier, the girl's actions or the OP's complete lack of self-esteem. I sure hope as hell this crap doesn't happen to me, I don't know how I could pull myself together. It's just that traumatic.
 
Leaving her after you discover she's kissing some other dude is correct. Taking Heinekens while doing so is correcter. Some of you are forgetting the Heinekens. Stop forgetting the Heinekens. You need some alcohol after you've been through some shit like that.
 
For those of you advocating punching the guy in the face, what about criminal assualt charges? That's the reason I probably wouldn't punch anyone unless provoked.
 
MoxManiac said:
For those of you advocating punching the guy in the face, what about criminal assualt charges? That's the reason I probably wouldn't punch anyone unless provoked.

I just don't think I would give a shit about the law that very moment. Thinking about that would seem like an excuse to not do something while I'm in a drunken rage. I just don't think I'd be rational. I'm scared of something like this happening.
 
Of course, MoxManiac, you're right the law and you'd probably bite yourself in the ass later. But man, how satisfying to see his jaw break...

...probably worth it. Probably.
 
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rs7k said:
Were you actually dating this girl, or were you just a friend? Man, if I came down to see my girlfriend (who lives 300 km away, I hate long-distance relationships and they're not worth the effort and worry), and she pulled that shit on me, that guy would get stabbed in the throat with a broken liquor bottle. I wouldn't hurt the woman, but I'd do my best to destroy her life.

Christ, please tell me you weren't dating this girl.

i was dating this girl, it was like lightning at a clear sky just to awkward for life
 
Amir0x said:
Of course, MoxManiac, you're right the law and you'd probably bite yourself in the ass later. But man, how satisfying to see his jaw break...

...probably worth it. Probably.
For all you know, the guy knows nothing about whatever arrangement the OP and the girl had.
 
Thriller said:
i was dating this girl, it was like lightning at a clear sky just to awkward for life

what?

aoi tsuki said:
For all you know, the guy knows nothing about whatever arrangement the OP and the girl had.

Like that matters! What are you going to ask the guy before you punch him? "Oh, hey, yeah... did you know I was with her before you started fucking her? I mean I was staring at you two from across the room so it might have been awkward but we were sorta going out."

First...

a.) you'd have to hope he'd tell the truth
b.) you'd have to hope he'd care to even answer you
c.) you'd have to hope HE didn't want to fight you
d.) you'd have to be pussy enough to sit around and ask him these questions after he just got done making out with your girlfriend

The alternative is to just leave, which again I'm sorry, is not near satisfying enough. I guess that's a perfectly fine scenario too, but there's no way I'd personally leave without saying something immediately.
 
oo Kosma oo said:
I think he's trying to translate a dutch saying into english.

Meaning it hit him totally unexpected and off guard.


yes thank you, i thought that was a common saying around the world:lol
 
Lobster said:
Bang her mother and be the father of her new sister. That'll show her.


:lol :lol :lol

but yeah Mr.Thriller , grow a pair.

Move on and dont let it happen again.

The moment " she gave me a fucking sleeping bag and expected me to sleep in the floor ? " Is the moment I would of taken off .
 
So it is an English saying too?

On topic though: never ever ever ever be treated by a woman like that again. Never.
 
Amir0x said:
what?



Like that matters! What are you going to ask the guy before you punch him? "Oh, hey, yeah... did you know I was with her before you started fucking her? I mean I was staring at you two from across the room so it might have been awkward but we were sorta going out."

First...

a.) you'd have to hope he'd tell the truth
b.) you'd have to hope he'd care to even answer you
c.) you'd have to hope HE didn't want to fight you
d.) you'd have to be pussy enough to sit around and ask him these questions after he just got done making out with your girlfriend

The alternative is to just leave, which again I'm sorry, is not near satisfying enough. I guess that's a perfectly fine scenario too, but there's no way I'd personally leave without saying something immediately.
i'd have to have a hell of a commitment to a woman to want to punch a guy like that. Two weeks? Nah, grab some beers, a few snacks, and take off.
 
aoi tsuki said:
i'd have to have a hell of a commitment to a woman to want to punch a guy like that. Two weeks? Nah, grab some beers, a few snacks, and take off.

yeah i guess, WITH THE QUALIFIER it was only two weeks, I might just leave too. 2 weeks is a very short relationship, i'd probably not have formed any attachments yet.

I actually thought he said 2 months
 
Amir0x said:

:|

:(

I don't know. If this would have happened to me, I would have busted into the next room, pants off and started skull fucking and rubbing my crotch all over the dude as the girl was riding him. Screaming her name with a faux lisp. Its a take on fighting "Fire with Fire" but in this case "Crazy with Crazy".
 
Amir0x said:
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh

what the FUCK is wrong with some of you GAFers! You went down to visit this bitch, and she fucking ignores you and makes out with another guy in front of you and then fucks him in the next room.

A.) Go to the next room, stab the guy in the eye
B.) Tell the dumb whore that she isn't worth the fucking dirt you walk on
C.) Leave that very god damn moment, never talk to her again, and move on with life and get with someone who deserves you

Jesus christ

You should have locked the thread after this post.
 
Thriller said:
Yeah im the kind of guy who is often too nice and trying to solve stuff by talking.
"Little less conversation and a little more action." That's a song by one of the most prolific cock-smiths in American history. Heed his advice.

...and if you don't heed his, heed the advice of some guy someone posted a thread about who said "sell it and forget it". Reel the chicks in, give 'em a good time, then ignore them. They love it.

(I'd never do that, but I've seen it work)
 
Wow, I've never seen so many posts like this on a forum in my entire life. Why are these posts attracted to this forum? =\ This one particularly was one of the most pathetic things I've ever read in my life.
 
bumpkin said:
"Little less conversation and a little more action." That's a song by one of the most prolific cock-smiths in American history. Heed his advice.

...and if you don't heed his, heed the advice of some guy someone posted a thread about who said "sell it and forget it". Reel the chicks in, give 'em a good time, then ignore them. They love it.

(I'd never do that, but I've seen it work)

:lol :lol :lol :lol

Set it and forget it.
 
You should have done the same with another girl, that would make her jealous.

In all seriousness, you deserve better than that.
 
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