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Future said:
You brought it up as a comparable. So yes you are. Leave them out of the argument then.
Again, I don't care what ignorant people think. Some of them think that evolution is a lie as well.
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You brought it up as a comparable. So yes you are. Leave them out of the argument then.
Again, I don't care what ignorant people think. Some of them think that evolution is a lie as well.
PhoenixDark
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Laramie said:
Oh shit you just stunk up the thread
BlindN-Fan said:
According to Kinsey (and I don't remember his exact research so correct me if I'm wrong), not necessarily. Kinsey said that very few individuals will actually be 100% straight, or 100% gay. I think he had a scale of 1 - 5, and most heterosexuals would be 4.X. Or a 90%. Or something.
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Teh Hamburglar said:
*swoon*
sublime085
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Haha, it's always the coolest posters who end up being gay. 
No, I never chose to be gay. But I remember the day I chose to be myself and to stop giving a **** what others think. It felt really good.
No, I never chose to be gay. But I remember the day I chose to be myself and to stop giving a **** what others think. It felt really good.
Kinsey scale:
0 - Exclusively heterosexual
1 - Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 - Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 - Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 - Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 - Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 - Exclusively homosexual
0 - Exclusively heterosexual
1 - Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2 - Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3 - Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4 - Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5 - Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6 - Exclusively homosexual
Laramie said:
So anal sex is only poop on your dick to you? That's kind of shallow rationale, and doesn't necessarily happen.
Right now I'm just tired of physical stuff in general and want to have a more mental/emotional relationship, so I guess in that sense I'm not really into it right now.
Don't equate being gay with just anal sex.
tnw said:
Well yeah but that's what gay guys do. Modern television has led me to believe that anal sex is prevalent among gay males. I'm curious if any of GAF's gay guys have run into anyone who is opposed to it. I'm also curious as to how one can be shallow about anal sex. Are there deep emotional bonds that take place when you're in a woman's poop chute? Seriously dude, it's ass****ing.
PhoenixDark
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Laramie said:
What exactly are you trying to do here?
Yeah anal sex is the predominant form of sex among homosexual males. Just like vaginal sex is the predominant form of sex among heterosexual couples. And?
Laramie said:
...so by that rationale are women just a hole to put your dick in? The rapport, going out together and sharing experiences, holding someone at night, those are all just necessary steps women make you take to have vaginal sex?
I'm saying your idea that gay= poop on dick is shallow or at least lowest common denominator thinking. Gay people 'do' a lot more than poop sex.
Your last comment, I don't really know how to respond to that. I find it kind of offensive.
Would you also mock someone who had an emotional reaction from a videogame?
PhoenixDark said:
I'm just curious about human bi-ology. I guess you could say I'm Bi-curious! Also, this is the absolute best place to find out info like this. On GAF I can converse openly about sexuality with gay males of all ages. A lot more effective than going up to the one openly gay guy at my school with a list of questions.
tnw said:
Of course not, I never said anything about gay relationships just gay sex. I know that some straight people don't like anal and I was wondering how much of those feelings about anal were present in the gay community. I've said nothing about the rapport
tnw said:
Well no shit, gay people have relationships too. This is purely sexual, I have said nothing about gay relationships.
tnw said:
Huh?
PhoenixDark
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Nick said:I'm pretty vanilla in bed.
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Naked Snake
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This has become a poopy thread.
tnw said:
Most likely because it's ruined some of my relationships with family and friends. It's also limited my social circle and I find it almost impossible to meet people I have things in common with.
Most people I've encountered aren't so accepting, so it's difficult and awkward to be open about it. Now that I'm living in Japan, I'm even more frustrated since it's not so openly discussed.
Star Power
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I didn't choose to be gay, to me the question is absurd.
But there are people who "chose to be gay." There is a whole "gay by choice" movement in the LGBT community which I find baffling...
But there are people who "chose to be gay." There is a whole "gay by choice" movement in the LGBT community which I find baffling...
No you don't.. though most gay guys I know react differently when they see a naked woman. Some are disgusted, others are indifferent. For me, it's the latter.
If you're a gay male, you're most likely attracted to the male body, and that alone. It could vary of course.. I can't speak for everyone.
If you're a gay male, you're most likely attracted to the male body, and that alone. It could vary of course.. I can't speak for everyone.
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PhoenixDark said:
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White Man said:
Yeah that whole "I wanna get AIDS" thing is really weird (and sad).
demonix69 said:
Yeah, I understand how you feel. The friends I had for life growing up were never really the same after all of that came down. It was also when we were all moving on to college and stuff, and people kind of move on after that, so It's hard to say why things became kind of distant/awkward. I wasn't really comfortable with myself for a couple of years, so that might have had something to do with it too.
I also don't drink or smoke and am vegetarian, which is pretty different than most people I'm surrounded by.That said, being gay in japan isn't so hard I think. It's never come up at the office (I mean I don't even know if half of my department is married or not, nobody ever talks about life outside of work), I don't know, I find it pretty easy here. I didn't really have all that much easier of a time in the states (although I think I got along best with the people I knew in minneapolis growing up than anywhere else).
p_xavier
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The Kinsey scale was used a long time ago, and now with genes that back up homosexuality in twins as a genetic issue, the scale shouldn't be used at all. I've worked with hundreds of young adults, most of them "bisexual", and they're all exclusively homosexual now. It's just an easier way to accept themselves I guess.
And for the sex part, receiving anal sex while cumming is 1000x better than any vaginal sex you can get.
And for the sex part, receiving anal sex while cumming is 1000x better than any vaginal sex you can get.
DarkJediKnight said:
OBJECTION!
As for homophobes, think about this; there is one less dude trying to "git r done" in the pool of single women. And if you are married, you shouldn't worry about your wife cheating on you with a gay man.
I am not into guys because girls are cute, soft, and squishy. For a hetero dude, there is nothing like a female standing behind you while she presses her chest on her back.
I'm actually really glad this thread didn't die. Seems like a lot of other people kinda wondered or wanted proof of the same things I thought. Thanks everyone! Should probably keep this thread going though, as it's kind of turned into the new "ask the gays a stupid question" thread.
Meh, I don't think it's a choice NOR something you're 'born' with. It's just a part of the complex mesh of who you are. I'd say that if we took 1000 random people and raised them in a room with freaking monkeys they'd be pretty attracted to monkeys once they hit puberty.
Neither side has proof of their claims, nor is it more 'honorable' to be 'born' gay. Just focus on becoming accepted and that'll be that.
Neither side has proof of their claims, nor is it more 'honorable' to be 'born' gay. Just focus on becoming accepted and that'll be that.
I fell in love with a young man about a year ago, at the age of 24. Took me about 2 weeks to accept I was bi after a lifetime of straightness.
White Man said:
Raises hand...and i'm bold about stating it also, though a lot of guys aren't, they simply conform to what they think they should be into. Lots of people lack self-awareness when it comes to sexuality...I pity those whose idea of sexuality is completely defined by "hole&pole".
Now to read the rest of this thread...
demonix69 said:
Hmmm...this is interesting. I guess I find it surprising that you feel it has been very difficult coming out. I felt SO much better after coming out - and yeah, some friends go away since they weren't cool about it, but I also kept my true friends, even ones who were not that comfy with it at first but learned to deal with it. Family, well, they weren't so thrilled at the beginning but now they're dealing - otherwise I just tell them to deal.
Also, after coming out I was able to find tons of new friends, all very different. It's a total fallacy to think of gay guys as QUEER AS FOLK clones - reality is that, like any minority, it's a truly diverse bunch of people. And I also moved to Asia about 5 years back (Hong Kong), and it's a pretty darn easy place to be gay here. Sure, finding people here with similar interests is a bit difficult (I mean, I work on arty films and listen to Godspeed You Black Emperor), but they are out there. And it's a mix of gay & straight too - just because I'm gay doesn't mean all my friends have to be!
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