Not sure what youare saying but that could be me. If i misunderstood your post then my bad my man. Thought it was like a sad defeatist thing
No. He is paranoid something can harm him.
What he needs to understand that no matter what he can come to harm at any time. Nothing can change if he gets into a car and another person wrecks into him. Nothing can change if a lightning bolt is going to strike him out of the sky. Nothing can change if someone is going to shoot up a store he is in or if a terrorist is going to attack a place he goes to.
He needs to accept that those are possibilities that cannot change.
But he also needs to understand that the odds of this happening are so miniscule and are extremely unlikely to happen. That they are so unlikely to happen that there is no point to worry about them. And, if such a thing were to happen, it is something you cannot change.
You cannot look out for everything in life. You cannot distrust everyone in life. You have to accept things can not go the way you want or that bad people in life could exist. However, you cannot change that and you cannot live your life in fear around that.
What if you miss out on the girl of your dreams because you could not accept that bad people do exist and understanding many good people do exist. Instead of seeing if a person is bad, you immediately wrote them off and lost out on meeting an amazingly good person?
Most people are good people. You have to accept that a person could be a bad person and if they wished to do harm to you they could. I walk past maybe a million people a year. If one of them wanted to harm me, they could. I understand that possibility exists. I cannot change that. Someone could just as easily harm me in my house as they can walking by me or driving past me or so on. However, I understand those odds are insanely small. That most people are good people. And, probably 99.99% are even oblivious to my existence.
You cannot live your life in fear. You cannot treat everyone as if they are out to get you. You have to accept the things in life you cannot change and go about your life in a positive way. Any single one of us can drop dead at any given second. We cannot let that stop us from living our lives and enjoying it.