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I tackled a gay man and I'm scarred forever.

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NJ Shlice

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Well, I work in Loss Prevention in a high-end department store. Basically, I catch shoplifters.

A few months ago I was sitting in our camera room with a co-worker and my manager. My co-worker gets up and says "I have to go to the bathroom, I'll be back." A few minutes later my life would change forever.

Over the radio we heard a scream from said co-worker: "Turn camera 14 around! I just caught two guys F*cking in the bathroom!"

I immediately swing camera 14 around to find a short Asian man FLYING out of the bathroom and across the sales floor, FULL SPEED. My manager insists "He's running towards our office!"

We both jump out of our seats and run out of the office and through the receiving department. I am in the lead, my manager close on my tail. I make it out onto the sales floor just as the Asian is running past, our eyes meet and I reach out to grab his hooded sweatshirt. He swings his left arm and breaks my grip as he continues to run towards the exit. He makes it to the first set of double doors but the doors slow him down. I quickly catch up as he makes it outside and I grab him by the shoulders and throw him to the ground with everything that I have. He screams and pleads "OKAY OKAY I'M DONE."

He was brought back to the office, where my co-worker was waiting for us with the other suspect who did not run or put up a fight. I could not imagine the horror my co-worker's eyes witnessed that day as he walked inside of that bathroom. Right out in the open, not in a stall, right next to the urinals: A middle-aged Caucasian Male "pitching" and a 25yr old Asian Male "receiving" right out in the open.

Both men were prosecuted and arrested. The Asian spilled his guts and admitted that they had met in the Macy's in my mall and agreed to meet in our store. The white male DENIED EVERYTHING. "I am a straight, married man with two kids. I would never."

We just found out today that the case had finally ended in court and both parties were found guilty. The Asian told EVERYTHING.

The man was indeed married, to a woman, with two children.

Justice was served. But sadly I still think about that incident to this day.
 
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RoboJ said:
Given that you say you're scarred forever, I was sort of expecting some boner-in-face action or something equally disturbing. I'm disappointed.

Same here. Thread title did not deliver. :lol
 
What do you feel bad about? That two people got caught ****ing in a public bathroom and that one of the dumbasses had his life ruined because he was too stupid to get a hotel room? Or is this one of those war flashback type things where it's like "If only I told my buddy to hold it for just three more minutes, his eyes would still be virgin to this day" and you get black and white flashbacks that cause you to writhe and scream in the middle of the night?
 
DarknessTear said:
Uh yeah, they were ****ing in public.

Gay people sure do get offended easily on this forum. Chill, people!

Yeah what else should they be doing?
 
RoboJ said:
Given that you say you're scarred forever, I was sort of expecting some boner-in-face action or something equally disturbing. I'm disappointed.

Physical contact with a small Asian man who just got done having sex with another man isn't bad enough?
 
I don't get why you're scarred, exactly. You're not the one who saw it. And would it be any different if it was a man and a woman in the bathroom? Two women? It would be the same outcome (lewd behavior) regardless of who it was.
 
Wait a second, did I just read a post from a guy who just apprehended a guy who was just having sex with another guy?

I, too, am scarred for life.
 
SuperPac said:
I don't get why you're scarred, exactly. You're not the one who saw it. And would it be any different if it was a man and a woman in the bathroom? Two women? It would be the same outcome (lewd behavior) regardless of who it was.

You can't compare male/male homosexuality to female/female homosexuality! They're completely different!

joking if you can't tell
 
SuperPac said:
I don't get why you're scarred, exactly. You're not the one who saw it. And would it be any different if it was man-woman in the bathroom? Two women? It would be the same outcome (lewd behavior) regardless of who it was.

Yes! A resounding yes! It is still illegal but a little (a lot) less disturbing. I'm not sure I would be scarred, though.
 
Tauntaun said:
and who/what are you scared of forever now? :lol

Scarred, not Scared.

This whole situation will forever be implanted in my head. I'm like the Homo Tackler.

I am however scared to ever go into that bathroom again. From what I've heard the Macy's in that mall has had some problems as well.
 
NJ x Falkor said:
Scarred, not Scared.

This whole situation will forever be implanted in my head. I'm like the Homo Tackler.

But you didn't see anything happening! So to you it should just be you tackled some dude. Are you honestly that homophobic? God forbid you ever have to touch someone that's not exactly like you in every way, be it the color of their skin, sexual preference or gender. You could have caught shoplifters before who were gay and never known it. What THEN?! You should go ahead take a half-dozen showers today just to make sure you've got the gay off you.
 
RoboJ said:
Given that you say you're scarred forever, I was sort of expecting some boner-in-face action or something equally disturbing. I'm disappointed.
Same here. :lol

worldrunover said:
Ummmm you guys have cameras in the bathroom?
Reading comprehension ftl.
 
DarknessTear said:
Um, I assume they arrested them like the first post said.

You're like the king of misinterpretation. I was asking what should the police be doing that's more important than arresting lewd people.
 
SuperPac said:
But you didn't see anything happening! So to you it should just be you tackled some dude. Are you honestly that homophobic? God forbid you ever have to touch someone that's not exactly like you in every way, be it the color of their skin, sexual preference or gender. You could have caught shoplifters before who were gay and never known it. What THEN?! You should go ahead take a half-dozen showers today just to make sure you've got the gay off you.

I don't know man, tackling a shoplifter who's gay isn't quite the same is tacking a person who just had indecent exposure of gay buttsex in a store's public bathroom. It's just all kinds of awkward.
 
SuperPac said:
But you didn't see anything happening! So to you it should just be you tackled some dude. Are you honestly that homophobic? God forbid you ever have to touch someone that's not exactly like you in every way, be it the color of their skin, sexual preference or gender. You could have caught shoplifters before who were gay and never known it. What THEN?! You should go ahead take a half-dozen showers today just to make sure you've got the gay off you.

It's not so much the homosexuality as it is the fact that he just got done having sex 15 seconds before.

Of course I could be interacting with people everyday who just got done having sex, but knowing it for a fact is a totally different story.

I wouldn't want to touch a man who just got done having sex with a woman 15 seconds prior either.

It just grosses me out. I don't know how you don't understand that.
 
Laramie said:
You're like the king of misinterpretation. I was asking what should the police be doing that's more important than arresting lewd people.

So you're saying they shouldn't arrest people for lewd acts because it's not "importnant" enough of a crime?
 
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