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I want to sleep with you, right now!

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Actually surprised by moral gaf's response. The correct response? Go for it. If your gf is bitchy and won't find out, you will be missing out on an opportunity you will later regret. Do you plan to break up with your gf? If you do or don't in time, that eventuality doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel presently and how you will manage the consequences if things somehow get complicated.
 
wickedcapedkid said:
Actually surprised by moral gaf's response. The correct response? Go for it. If your gf is bitchy and won't find out, you will be missing out on an opportunity you will later regret. Do you plan to break up with your gf? If you do or don't in time, that eventuality doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel presently and how you will manage the consequences if things somehow get complicated.
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Selfishness like this literally FUELS the confessions thread.
 
wickedcapedkid said:
Actually surprised by moral gaf's response. The correct response? Go for it. If your gf is bitchy and won't find out, you will be missing out on an opportunity you will later regret. Do you plan to break up with your gf? If you do or don't in time, that eventuality doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel presently and how you will manage the consequences if things somehow get complicated.
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This is such bad advice that I think it might be a joke. Burn those bridges!

wickedcapedkid said:
The unfortunate reality of human relationships. You'll come to understand it in time.
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The unfortunate reality of human relationships between stupid, stupid people.
 
Well, despite the previous criticism, I still think that Woody Allen's Husbands and Wives is a great movie. :)


Fugu said:
The unfortunate reality of human relationships between stupid, stupid people.
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I agree! A lot of, if not all, adults are simply grown-up little kids when it comes to sexuality. I don't think my statement is wrong at all.
 
wickedcapedkid said:
I agree! A lot of, if not all, adults are simply grown-up little kids when it comes to sexuality. I don't think my statement is wrong at all.
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No, you don't agree, because my sentiment is not that "adults are simply grown-up kids when it comes to sexuality". I think an attitude like that has a tendency to attract similarly short-minded people, however, so it's likely that a lot of the people you encounter are like that.
 
Headline sounds like it should be from that of an anime episode.

S01Ep3: I Want to Sleep With You, RIGHT NOW!

Listen, live your life, do what you want; what you feel is right in these easy situations.

I know I'd end it with a woman who despises me, but is fighting how you folks get off?
 
Psychology students have performed a decent study on this to decide if men and women would react differently to the proposition. Almost 100 percent of the time, men who were directly asked by attractive women to have sex responded in the affirmative. And almost 100 percent of the time, women asked to have sex by attractive men declined.
 
Bombadil said:
Psychology students have performed a decent study on this to decide if men and women would react differently to the proposition. Almost 100 percent of the time, men who were directly asked by attractive women to have sex responded in the affirmative. And almost 100 percent of the time, women asked to have sex by attractive men declined.
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I've heard of this study, but cheating develops through bonded accountancy; you don't just sleep with random people unless you're on a mission (or a guy).

Most cheating for women is a result of a bond, i.e.: seeing a person every day at work.

Women must feel comfortable before they throw themselves into someone's arms.

Guys is are risky, which is why they live less in terms of longevity.

Just make sure so and so person doesn't have an STD.
 
When you feel horny, you don't think right and would do just about anything for something your probably don't need. So, to think properly, go ahead and jack it, afterwards your mind will clear up making decision making a lot more practical.
 
SMT said:
Headline sounds like it should be from that of an anime episode.

S01Ep3: I Want to Sleep With You, RIGHT NOW!

Listen, live your life, do what you want; what you feel is right in these easy situations.

I know I'd end it with a woman who despises me, but is fighting how you folks get off?
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Indeed. Everyone has ways of managing their problems, even if they are within or outside of the ethical boundaries of others. This is why it's not often appropriate to discuss these issues unless amongst the closest of friends...and even then so. I think that you will consistently maintain a "cheating is bad" vibe when it comes on popular vote of ethics, but the combination of human freedom, relationships, and sex are not always so easy to comprehend and (of course) restrain in certain moments. Throw in the idea of an unhappy or abusive relationship and well... It's easy to cheat and equally easy to withhold decisions in regards to ending or continuing your current relationship. Simple suggestions such as "don't cheat" are not exactly easy feats or helpful words of advice. Do what you must do and feel out every situation. Inevitably you will always be caught under fire for your decisions, but if you're not married, in your 20s, and have no financial ties outside of yourself, you're only responsible of yourself. But, even so, many people cheat. It happens, and you might become the person who does it despite your ethical background.

However the OP's scenario is very simple: your BF/GF sucks, or it's not working out, and a hot girl/boy wants to bone. I would not say no and I would deal with the consequences later. The end.


Seanspeed said:
Hehe. Enjoy yourself while you can, cuz you're gonna end up lonely and miserable with that attitude.
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End up lonely, miserable? Well...I understand how you feel, and I presume your are making reference to a slightly more distant future where sex becomes a lot less of a "priority" after your 20s and early 30s. After marriage and establishment of firmer relationships, of course, the consequences of cheating can significantly impact one's lifestyle and financial future (especially if children are involved). Cheating or "playing the game" isn't a particular smart move in the face of its consequences. However,by this time we are talking about something significantly different from the "your bitchy gf/bf is 20 hours away and some hotty wants to jump your bones" scenario that the OP posted.

Fugu said:
No, you don't agree, because my sentiment is not that "adults are simply grown-up kids when it comes to sexuality". I think an attitude like that has a tendency to attract similarly short-minded people, however, so it's likely that a lot of the people you encounter are like that.
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I'm unfortunately too sleepy and short-minded to formulate a thought-out reply to you so I will just have to say that I agree with this statement, if you will allow me then.
 
How would you feel if you got cheated on? If it wouldn't bother you, then I think you have some serious issues. Break it off and then sex the other girl.
 
This scenario assumes that I could have a girlfriend, and that there might be someone out there who wants to have sex with me, both of which I know are false.

But hypothetically, I like to imagine that I'm a good enough person to stay faithful and say no.
 
Use your damn higher brain functions and don't cheat. If this hypothetical someone truly does want to bone me so badly, they can wait until I've properly broken up with my partner.
 
Rehynn said:
Wiser words have never been spoken.

It usually tells you how you would feel after you've banged her/him.
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This only works if you're gonna be making the decision within like the next 10 minutes or so. Horniness comes back pretty quick. For me at least.
 
Seanspeed said:
This only works if you're gonna be making the decision within like the next 10 minutes or so. Horniness comes back pretty quick. For me at least.
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That's true, but if you feel like a piece of shit afterwards, you can make a mental note to remind you that it's probably not a good idea.

Then again, boner > brain.
 
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