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I was just robbed and abused

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I am just too depressed to talk, but I need to tell someone and GAF has always been a good place for me.

The guy took my phone, almost tore my clothes, and told me he was gonna make me pay for abusing children just because I am gay.

I'm in shock, so sorry if I don't share much more

I'm new here in town. I had smoked weed with him once. Since I was drunk that day, I told him I was gay and that I thought he was cute. He got upset and I apologized, but I never thought he would do this

I'm living with a relative, but the relationship is not that good, so I'm gonna tell anyone what happened. I'm just too afraid.

I'm afraid to go out. As if I wasn't already. I feel like such an idiot

Already called 911 and informed what happened.
 
I am disgusted and so sorry this happened to you.

Once the shock wears off, you absolutely must report this as it's a hate crime. Especially if he threatened you with further action.
 
I am just too depressed to talk, but I need to tell someone and GAF has always been a good place for me.

The guy took my phone, almost tore my clothes, and told me he was gonna make me pay for abusing children just because I am gay.

I'm in shock, so sorry if I don't share much more

I'm new here in town. I had smoked weed with him once. Since I was drunk that day, I told him I was gay and that I thought he was cute. He got upset and I apologized, but I never thought he would do this

I'm living with a relative, but the relationship is not that good, so I'm gonna tell anyone what happened. I'm just too afraid.

I'm afraid to go out. As if I wasn't already

Jesus I hope you're okay. Call the cops
 
I'm so sorry this happened to you, dude. I hope you are ultimately alright and are comfortable enough to call the police.

No excuse for a person to do that to you.
 
thats terrible, but my first piece of advice is to report your phone stolen to your phone company and have them suspend the line and data. With what was said to you, do not take a chance that he may access or put incriminating content onto your phone.
 
Damn, that's terrible to hear. Hope you're okay.

I know this is tough, but you need to call the police, do it as soon as you can. Otherwise they're going to be suspicious about why you waited so long to call them.

No, I'm not gonna report it. There's no point. And I'm afraid he might do something later on

As someone who has been robbed at gunpoint before, and had your exact mindset. Call them, you know the guy who did it. The longer you wait, the harder it's going to be for you.
 
Sorry man. You know who it is which means it can be dealt with. Report it to police for assault and robbery. A targeted hate crime.
 
Damn OP, I'm sorry that happened to you.

Please report this waste of a human life to the police.

He should not getaway with this. No human should be treated like that.
 
Holy crap... First of all, I am so, so sorry to hear that this happened to you. Also, I can't believe how insane your attacker is. Please, if you at all feel you need it, speak to a professional about this. And also, call the cops! You did nothing wrong. Please keep being you and let your inner self shine. Good luck!
 
It's hard but you gotta report it. Don't be the victim, you just got wronged let the law handle that asshole.

Fucking cunts man seriously it sucks because of the added feeling of humiliation calling the cops adds, but you have to.
 
I'm so sorry to hear this, make a police report right away. I just got my wrist crushed in a garage door myself, more here will have good advice for you.
 
I'm so sorry that happened :( try to take care of yourself as best you can.

And if you are worried he's gonna do it again, you really should report this.
 
Hope your okay dude, fuck that guy. Don't worry man, shit will get better and there are some decent human beings out there.
 
No, I'm not gonna report it. There's no point. And I'm afraid he might do something later on

What do you mean there's no point? Do you live in some backwater southern town? The police are obligated to do their job regardless. And you should report precisely because he threatened you further.

You need to report this no matter what.
 
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

I have to agree with other posters. Get the police involved ASAP. I'm a proud person too and understand stuff like this is painful to talk about. Trust me though, you'll feel worse if you let him get away with this.
 
I have been robbed before. I tried to fight back. It is all very surreal for a few days afterwards. Stay focused, don't let negativity get you to stop. I was focused on doing everything I could to assist the authorities.

Do not take it lying down. Report his ass. Testify. That kind of scum does not deserve the right to walk around feeling safe.
 
This just re-enforces my decision not to tell anyone unless I am absolutely sure they can be trusted. Sucks that happened to you.
 
Unfortunate, call cops.
I am just too depressed to talk, but I need to tell someone and GAF has always been a good place for me.

The guy took my phone, almost tore my clothes, and told me he was gonna make me pay for abusing children just because I am gay.

I'm in shock, so sorry if I don't share much more

I'm new here in town. I had smoked weed with him once. Since I was drunk that day, I told him I was gay and that I thought he was cute. He got upset and I apologized, but I never thought he would do this

I'm living with a relative, but the relationship is not that good, so I'm gonna tell anyone what happened. I'm just too afraid.

I'm afraid to go out. As if I wasn't already. I feel like such an idiot

Doesn't excuse what happened, but you shouldn't do this.
 
Sorry to hear that but i would report it to the police, as it could happened to another person in the future the police need to know that he is violent person. Also why let an asshole like that get to keep your phone? the police hopefully can get it back.
 
Dude that's completely horrible, and I'm sorry you went through that. If you know who this person is, you owe it to yourself and the next person to make sure the police do something about this.

This guy won't ever bother you again?

(And partially because he's a dangerous and dumb piece of shit that thinks gay = child abuse.)
 
Very sorry to hear that OP. And you should def report it. You know who it is and they shouldn't just get away with it.
 
I am just too depressed to talk, but I need to tell someone and GAF has always been a good place for me.

The guy took my phone, almost tore my clothes, and told me he was gonna make me pay for abusing children just because I am gay.

I'm in shock, so sorry if I don't share much more

I'm new here in town. I had smoked weed with him once. Since I was drunk that day, I told him I was gay and that I thought he was cute. He got upset and I apologized, but I never thought he would do this

I'm living with a relative, but the relationship is not that good, so I'm gonna tell anyone what happened. I'm just too afraid.

I'm afraid to go out. As if I wasn't already. I feel like such an idiot

So you know who he is? Call cops
 
You know who he is right!?

REPORT!

TO!

POLICE!


REPORT!

TO!

POLICE!

What if he does this to someone else in the future!? You can end it here, think of other people's safety! I know this is hard for you, but fucking scum like that person need to suffer consequences.

Again, HE CAN HURT SOMEONE ELSE, PERHAPS WORSE. REPORT HIM TO THE COPS.
 
Why the hell would you not report it

I mean, is it really shocking for someone who belongs to a persecuted minority to not trust the cops?

OP, I know you feel helpless now, and you don't feel like the authorities have your back, but you should report it nonetheless because getting it on record will help not only you but other people in your community.
 
I'm so sorry OP :(. I've been dreading bad things happening to good people. It's even worse when you hear it first hand from a victim.

I really hope they find this hateful bastard!
 
You know who he is right!?

REPORT!

TO!

POLICE!


REPORT!

TO!

POLICE!

What if he does this to someone else in the future!? You can end it here, think of other people's safety! I know this is hard for you, but fucking scum like that person need to suffer consequences.

Again, HE CAN HURT SOMEONE ELSE, PERHAPS WORSE. REPORT HIM TO THE COPS.
This, report this fucker
 
Where do you live? I'm hoping it's a semi-progressive area where the cops will put their full attention on this. Either way you should definitely tell the authorities. You are not alone.
edit: well I guess the post below answers this...
 
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