It is a curious thing that these threads always deteriorate to the question of whether god, gods, or any other kind of supernatural anthropomorphism, exist or not. Despite the title, that wasn't even what the OP was about.
OP explicitly stated that he cannot bring himself to believe in such things anyway. Indeed, forcing yourself to believe such things is just not possible, once you are convinced by the pretty good evidence against the existence of such things, as well as by the equally good evidence strongly suggesting that these beliefs are manmade and rooted in the particularities of the human mind.
Arguing conclusively that no god/gods exist is not really hard. It is more interesting and beneficial to address the "Ok, now what?" questions that follow. Religions have a long history of claiming the exclusive authority on topics like death. And they traditionally provide the major community in which these topics are discussed. What we need are attempts to change this situation by providing secular philosophy and community. Ideally, the offerings should be more substantial than just saying "Well, that's just how it is."
The thought came to me reading this thread too.
There have been some attempts to it though (atheist communities) and some of them are quite successful I think, but it might be good if secular organizations like freethinkers and such strived to drive at least some very basic philosophic views about death.
I also think we should strive to teach our kids to think very differently of death. I think we should concentrate on teaching ourselves to live our life to the best we can and then when death comes, celebrate that we lived our lives fully and accept death as a natural end to it.
It wouldn't be an easy change to make, but if we taught this right from childhood, maybe people wouldn't have so much existential crises.
Positive things happen to positive people. Negative people draw negative events into their lives. There's "coincidences" that happen that make me question whether anything is based on chance.
I do believe that some things are destined to happen. Like certain events are encoded into the Universe.
Also, it might have been designed by some higher race of beings. Bound with a set of rules that make planets and stars and life possible.
"Logic" when it comes to human belief toward the Universe has never been set in stone. 100 years ago it wasn't logical to think there were billions of galaxies out there.
Your experience (as seen in further posts from this) is unfortunate, so please don't take this buttheading (by the way, that guy got banned), but I do think that is, in a way, kind of cruel way to look at life. It's kind of similar to the view "if you work hard, you'll succeed" - it's just not true and it undermines the work and life of a lot of people. A lot of bad things happen to good people and to imply that they drew those events into their life by being negative isn't very nice.
A lot of bad people are also rather successful.
DEATH™;174032934 said:
For someone who have questioned God till a time where I see His work unfold in front of my eyes in my life and others around me. I will say, keep looking for Him.
For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. If you really wanna seek answers, pray to Him. He will answer. Maybe not in the way you will expect, but He will...
As the OP has said, he's not interested in looking for Him and it's not really the topic here.
Anyway, as has also been brought up in the thread, with atheists you can't just say look for Him, but you also need to have the atheist to believe in any divinity at first. Then comes the part in which you need to convince the atheist that your God is the one true god and the other gods aren't worth believing in. Followers of pretty much every religion tell to seek to their god and then he'll answer in some way.
Not to offend you here, but it's just how I view it as an atheist (and a lot of other people do it too).
I also look at it psychologically. Like sure, you can open your mind to just about anything if you really wish, whether it's aliens or conspiracy theories or God or Allah or the Hindu gods or whatever. If people leave out their logic and just completely open themselves, they can believe in anything. Again, not to offend or anything.
I'd be interested though how you see God's work unfold in your life and others around you.