Yeah, there's really no question about it, The Evil Within smokes RE4 when it comes to difficulty. I replayed RE4 for the first time in 10 years just before TEW came out (so it was almost like playing for the first time), and I feel that TEW's difficulty is one of its greatest strengths.TEW is a lot harder than RE4 for sure. I loved how challenging it was. Nightmare is a lot harder too haha, I think I'm gonna die double the amount I did on survival (80) so I'll be looking at 160 deaths by the end of it. I think in RE4 I only died 20 or 30 times the first time through. I think RE4 has really well balanced difficulty too, but since it's more action based than survival like TEW it's not quite as punishing.
When people say stuff like "The game doesn't balance ammo properly", I smile and laugh. I died less than 40 times and had plenty of ammo the entire game.
A lot of the difficulty is artificially inflated by imposing strict inventory counts at the beginning of the game, though. Really have to learn how to use stealth effectively throughout the entire game. That's where it's the most different from RE4.
I agree with you. resident evil 4 was amazing for it's time, not so much any more. TEW is the better game now, best survival horror game ever, just needs more polish, the aiming could use some refinement, something like resident evil 4 would be much better.
Having just played both of them within the last 6 months, RE4 was a 10 (even by today's standards, it's a better game than The Last of Us) and TEW was an 8, for me.