It's 2016, the stigma's gone, everyone understands the struggle.
Is it really much different if you live in a place with 6 roommates? I had a friend in that situation and frankly the only difference between that and living at home seemed to be everyone's age.
Well, he should probably be understanding of your current situation and work around it if he actually wants to spend time with you... It's totally possible to have a healthful sex life while living with your parents/roommates. Best wishes.yes
But if I was in his position I'd totally hate me.
I saw a response in the "GF Wants Kids" thread about a poster breaking up with someone who was still living with their parent. There were other things involved I'm sure, but one of the points was that they were still living with their parents.
Do only emotionally stunted people still live with their parents? Can you be considered by a partner to be "normal" because you still live at home? Would you swipe right or whichever direction if that was something on their profile? Or after getting to know them on a date or two, does it give you pause after you find out? If so, why?
There's a cultural aspect; In the west, 18 is seen as freedom and the folks kick you out and you spread your wings. It's in tv shows and movies where the guy finally leaves the nest to make their mark on the world. It's almost as big a deal as getting a license when you hit 16 back in the day. In some eastern cultures, respect for your elders mean sticking with them and taking care of them. That means living with them as they grow older. That can be a sticking point in dating, especially if you plan on dating people immersed in western culture and norms.
Is that a dealbreaker when looking for a potential mate?
Would you find them immature?
A mama's boy/girl?
Not a real adult?
Would you posit that they are not ready for primetime and therefore not one you would consider for longterm dating/relationships?
I guess I phrased that sentence poorly
I hid my lover in the closet
West = North America.
So it's a dealbreaker for you. Is there an age cutoff?
If by "west" you mean the USA lol. Plenty of people in various countries of Europe stay at their parents' as long as it's convenient and no one has a problem with it. My cousin is 25 still living with her mom, they get along well so there's no need to pay for some crazy high parisian rent (she just finished school).There's a cultural aspect; In the west, 18 is seen as freedom and the folks kick you out and you spread your wings. It's in tv shows and movies where the guy finally leaves the nest to make their mark on the world. It's almost as big a deal as getting a license when you hit 16 back in the day. In some eastern cultures, respect for your elders mean sticking with them and taking care of them. That means living with them as they grow older. That can be a sticking point in dating, especially if you plan on dating people immersed in western culture and norms.
What age we talking about ?
Because anything over 25 is just fucking weird
It's 2016, the stigma's gone, everyone understands the struggle.
Because anything over 25 is just fucking weird
I think it's a potential deal breaker. Maybe I'd call it a prima fascie deal breaker, which can be challenged depending on the circumstances.
There's a cultural aspect; In the west, 18 is seen as freedom and the folks kick you out and you spread your wings. It's in tv shows and movies where the guy finally leaves the nest to make their mark on the world. It's almost as big a deal as getting a license when you hit 16 back in the day.
What if my parents are living with me?
Specious reasoning (but what else would one expect from NeoGAF) as there are plenty of immature people who don't live with their parents.Deal breaker. I know it's hard out there, that's why the mature people have moved out and aren't sponging off their parents.
Depends on age and other circumstances. I'm in my early forties and I live at home, and nobody should date me. It's a clear sign that I'm a fuck up and I don't begrudge any woman who thinks "uh, no thanks."
But with changing patterns in education and the economy, I dunno if there's a general rule. Some people might be continuing school, or saving for a down payment, or have lost their job etc etc. I think you have to exercise your own judgement about what living at home actually reflects: a kind of "defect," or just circumstance.
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I would question why they're not living with a roommate instead before going any further.
Do they pay rent to you?What if my parents are living with me?
It's 2016, the stigma's gone, everyone understands the struggle.