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Is she off limits? The rules of friends and lovers

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fistfulofmetal said:
just want to get acquainted with some of the new members.

Sounds like you want to get acquainted with the inside of their pants. Don't know how you're doing so far though.

Good luck bro!
 
GhostofGraceKelly said:
You asked a hypothetical question. i answered with a hypothetical response.
plus im not looking for men with backbones. thats a criteria i have.

ah, its cool.

As for the criteria, funny you bring it up as I never follow mine...


fistfulofmetal said:
hey, i'm asking the questions here.

Watch out with your words man, you comments seem to match a certain profile that I don't want to mention
 
oxrock said:
I don't really understand why this is an issue honestly. Your friend doesn't own her and she's "regected" his advancements already. If nothing is going to happen between them he'd be a dick for getting in the way.

Basically this, if he didn't score by now he has no reason to be upset.
 
EatChildren said:
Hypothetically, a good friend likes a girl and chases for a good month or so. Said girl flirts with good friend, but ultimately regects good friend's advancement. Good friend feels a bit cheated and down.

Hypothetically, hot drunken no-strings sex with said girl is a possibility, although the chances of good friend being pissed off are worth betting on.

Where does one stand on the friendship/girl scales? Would it be a bad call to sleep with girl, especially if friend is likely to be on the premise? Or is she free game since she regected his advancements?

Feel free to post other unspoken friend/lover rules, respects, and tales of woe.

Don't be a fucking dick. This is selfish women stuff right there if you do it.
 
Some people here adhere to the bro code way too seriously. If she rejects your friend, than she's open for anybody. Sure, it sucks that your friend got rejected, but as somebody mentioned before, you don't call dibs on a human.
 
Jangaroo said:
Some people here adhere to the bro code way too seriously. If she rejects your friend, than she's open for anybody. Sure, it sucks that your friend got rejected, but as somebody mentioned before, you don't call dibs on a human.

There has to be respect for his buddy's emotions. Give the guy time to move on, find someone else first.
 
Noshino said:
Watch out with your words man, you comments seem to match a certain profile that I don't want to mention


wait what? please mention! would like to know :lol
 
Its just sex. Sex is not worth fucking up a friendship for. Ask yourself how you will feel after you've finished fucking her. Keep thinking about that feeling and don't be a dick.
 
let me ask you this gaf....Girl is kinda interested in getting in your pants, the dude before you is a friend since high school, but he kinda roughed her up a bit and is a constant annoyance in her life that she has to keep her phone shut off and her mom is told to say she can't come to the house phone for anyone.

Is it alright to still have sex with her? I think it is.
 
wenis said:
let me ask you this gaf....Girl is kinda interested in getting in your pants, the dude before you is a friend since high school, but he kinda roughed her up a bit and is a constant annoyance in her life that she has to keep her phone shut off and her mom is told to say she can't come to the house phone for anyone.

Is it alright to still have sex with her? I think it is.
I'd FHUTA.
 
stuminus3 said:
Your first mistake is asking GAF instead of your friend...

Amen to that. But since your so questionable to ask us. We are here to help. But first... you fail. There are soo many other girls you could just be with. Second ask yourself if this girl someone you would like to lose your guy friend over ? First think... Then answer.
 
If he stops being your friend because you had sex with this girl (and he's that into her, still) is the sex worth it?
 
If it's drunken sex, just have your boy hide in the closet, start hitting it from behind, then have him switch with you. Think win-win.

Man, I miss high school.
 
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