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I've tried to quit masterbating to porn and nothing works!!

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Avoid boredom at all costs. It's what makes me jerk off excessively. As other people have said, start doing some physical activity. And maybe pick up a hobby like drawing, playing an instrument or whatever. Something you can do immediately when you feel the urge.
 
I found it easy to recede from porn. Just started getting really high, turning off the lights, and laying in my nice cozy bed. I would sometimes aim my personal room heater into my sheets to warm things up. Just let my imagination run wild.

Thats cause getting high reduces your sex drive.

Advice to op: Stop watching Asian porn?
 
dont feel sick, i think its okay :)

but if youre trying to both cut back on masturbating and the type of porn you watch, then perhaps try doing push ups every time you feel the need to masturbate... you'll then get into a habit that is healthier.

as for the type of porn, well i think its okay! we all have our kinks! :3
 
PM me, we can cut out the porn middleman and just do the dutch rudder together.
 
Get a job, to me it looks like you have too much free time.
 
Some kind of sexual release is probably necessary, just to keep you from going bonkers. That's why your body/mind starts manufacturing wet dreams even if you choose not to masturbate.

Those happen very sporadically when it comes to me, like once every three months or so. Besides, I don't consider myself a-sexual or something along those lines. I remain heterosexual, I just don't have interest in sex. People usually tell me it's because I'm scared of it and that my view will change once I get to experience the real thing.
 
GAF, help me quit masterbating to porn, I really, really want


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Seriously...why would you want to do that?
Isn't life hard enough as it is?
 
OP try this:

http://www.moonmac.com/Mormon_masturbation.html

Number 6 works VERY well..

6. If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, GET OUT OF BED AND GO INTO THE KITCHEN AND FIX YOURSELF A SNACK, even if it is in the middle of the night, and even if you are not hungry, and despite your fears of gaining weight. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you GET YOUR MIND ON SOMETHING ELSE. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.

Wouldn't a simple exercises (push-ups, squads, crunches, whatever) be a more healthy and tiring things to do? At least it would be better than having a snack in the middle of the night.
 
I've been there, it is hard but manageable. The trick is really to force yourself to stop, begin with one day without masturbating, then 2, 3 and so on. At first will be hard to even concentrate, hell it's hard, but your body and mind will get used to it.

I masturbate once or twice a month to relief body pressure, but I don't feel the need anymore. I could easily spend months without it.
Masturbation is a need that you develop, nothing more than that.
 
I've been there, it is hard but manageable. The trick is really to force yourself to stop, begin with one day without masturbating, then 2, 3 and so on. At first will be hard to even concentrate, hell it's hard, but your body and mind will get used to it.

I masturbate once or twice a month to relief body pressure, but I don't feel the need anymore. I could easily spend months without it.
Masturbation is a need that you develop, nothing more than that.
There's huuuge difference between trying to stop masturbating to porn and giving up masturbation entirely. Why anyone would give up masturbation rather than try and persue a healthy routine or habits is beyond me. Eating food is also a need but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the experience.
 
Its not as hard as people make it out.

The key is to keep yourself occupied.
When you have so much to do you might not even have the time to masturbate or even think about it.
After the first three days you might even loose the will to masturbate.
Make sure the activities you do give you some kind of reward.

During the exam period I have not done such a thing for over a month even though my exams finished 10 days ago.

Having a girlfriend helps too unless your question is how do I stop lusting.
 
OP you are 18, you are a man. There is nothing wrong.

I dont get why people stress over wanting to masturbate "omg im a freak!" no, you're normal.

My guess is the coercive nature of the porn business, which is why I see why people gravitate towards Sasha Grey and the like, even a lot of the amateur porn ones that like it. The problem is it is hard to know which ones are in it for an escape, money or some other trauma. Masturbation is healthy an natural, why anyone feels guilty about it can only come from a religious delusion.
 
Those happen very sporadically when it comes to me, like once every three months or so. Besides, I don't consider myself a-sexual or something along those lines. I remain heterosexual, I just don't have interest in sex. People usually tell me it's because I'm scared of it and that my view will change once I get to experience the real thing.


If I had no interest in sex, I would rule the fucking world right now due to the lack of distraction and mental energy I currently put towards sex.
 
There's huuuge difference between trying to stop masturbating to porn and giving up masturbation entirely. Why anyone would give up masturbation rather than try and persue a healthy routine or habits is beyond me. Eating food is also a need but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the experience.

Why is it so different? With porn or not you're masturbating to a non-physical visual excitation. Might not have the same intensity, but it it's virtually the same.

It's a choice, for some a need. For me masturbating regularly kept my energies down, so I had to stop. At the time I decided to do it I was quite healthy in terms of habits, in fact it took a while to figure out that masturbation was the root of my problem.

Quit masturbating regularly and your life will improve 100%.
 
The way I did it was weening myself off slowly, move to soft core porn, then when you're ready start just using images you can conjure in your head. I've still watched some porn in the last couple months but it's pretty rare. Hopefully this helps
 
I used to feel guilty and I used to think porn degrades women. While certain ones take it to the limit (MaxHardcore, whom I hate) most do not. Personally, my respect for women actually increased after I watched porn.

Masturbation is "do but don't admit" kind of BS that comes naturally to almost all people. So there is nothing to feel guilty about.
 
I was able to last 9 and a half days, until the internet tempted me. I had 3 orgasms, which the first one was the biggest one I had in my life; ejaculation was white, which was the first I've seen in years. Usually the color is clear, no color whatsoever. The other 2 wasn't as big, but the 3rd one left me tired. I guess not masturbating for a few days made me feel better. I got to limit my masturbation habits to 2-3 times a week, instead of at least 3 times a day.

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Just do this: understand fully that instead of a sexual experience, what is really happening is you are gripping your penis until you orgasm, which in the end becomes just another bodily function you manage. And you'd really rather engage in sexual congress with a partner, so you will focus your sexual energies towards other people instead of pictures and videos.

VV: wait until you go so long without, that the next time you do ejac, it actually stings a bit.
 
I was able to last 9 and a half days, until the internet tempted me. I had 3 orgasms, which the first one was the biggest one I had in my life; ejaculation was white, which was the first I've seen in years. Usually the color is clear, no color whatsoever. The other 2 wasn't as big, but the 3rd one left me tired. I guess not masturbating for a few days made me feel better. I got to limit my masturbation habits from 2-3 times a week, instead of at least 3 times a day.

That is some serious jerking.
 
I made a thread like this once, thought I was smart and could quit.

Didn't work, it is like trying to quit drinking water.
 
I hate how porn just prolongs the whole ordeal instead of making it shorter as you would imagine. Just getting it done and over with so you can go back to doing productive things is best.
 
Like seriously wtf.

I tell myself, I'm trying to become a better moral person
. I'm not crazy, insisting that I want to stop jerking off completely, that's insane and unrealistic. But I do want to stop my addicting porn habits, and just become more cleaner, soul wise.

I mean, I feel like I'm living in Einsteins definition of Insanity in that I do things over and over again expecting the results to change.

I try masterbating to fantasy, but I become slowly bored of them, and just end up getting more "itchier" for porn that will help me bust a juicy load in 10 seconds flat.

It starts slowly, I tell myself, okay jerk off to pics of hentai, than my dick is screaming MOAR MOAR MOARRRRR!!

In the end, I end up going to redtube or pornhub to watch some japanese bukkake video for the 10 millionth time and I end up feeling shitty because I broke my promise to myself.

I feel sick..and I don't know how to stop.

I feel it's because of the internet..to me, it's like a crack addicts having a plate full of crack sitting right in front of him for the taking, and him convincing himself not to take it and get high.

That said I don't want to throw away my computer away either..GAF, help me quit masterbating to porn, I really, really want
morals? So you're into non-consensual porn? Hope you get arrested.
 
It starts slowly, I tell myself, okay jerk off to pics of hentai,

wtf that's like hitler saying

'I'll start of slowly by just exterminating one race....'

you're at the bottom of the barrel mate, there is no hope for you. If you jerk it to freakish sex cartoons, there is no coming back from that.
 
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