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Stop trying to attribute rational behavior to people who are clearly in an irrational state of mind. This drives me crazy. The guy needs support, not stuff like this.
Hero_of_the_Day
Member
Members of Junior Gaf making all the rest look bad.
Anyway, I'm glad things seem okay. HiDesRes if you're reading, I just wanna say I'm glad you're okay and I hope things get better. We all experience dark moments. Even if not for the same circumstances, many of us can understand. Stay strong. A break from Gaf may be good.
There are always a few bad apples who do real dumb things the first week or so after a new batch, it's part of the fun. You'll be one of us in no time, and dumb asses will get a permanent tag of banned.
You're sure to last long around here.
He is the guy who will not have a banned account, unlike you
Why should he be banned?
Hero_of_the_Day
Member
For going into a thread where someone is obviously having very serious real world problems and being a dick. Not sure if he should be banned for that post alone, but if it's a taste of things to come, he's obviously on his way to a nice banning.
Implicitly telling somebody who just expressed an interest in killing himself, "I don't care because I don't know who you are," is kind of a horrible thing to do, don't you think?
RiccochetJ
Gold Member
I'm treading into this thread very lightly. Apparently some of you know the poster from other threads, and I respect that.
Just remember JBaird and the outpouring of help he received. A healthy skepticism on forums is good and the person that made that particular post will receive what is ever coming to them.
You laugh now, but that's after the fact. Hindsight and all that.
All in all, I don't think the junior should be banned is all I'm saying. I question his or her wisdom in entering into this type of thread, but what's done is done.
I miss Amir0x for this kind of stuff. He would have been involved at the drop of a hat.
actually we don't know if he was going to kill himself, he could just be quitting GAF.
Captain Pants
Killed by a goddamned Dredgeling
Shit Des. It's rragnaar from Gamespot. Don't do anything rash. You've got friends even if we are all virtual. You are one of the first guys I got to know on the internet and I've always valued talking to you even if it wasn't 'real'.
Yeah there was definitely a grey area (imo). When I first read the OP, it (to me) sounded as if he was just having money problems and wasn't going to be around the forums anymore. Not being able to afford his internet.
Regardless, making crass comments is not cool. I will say, however, that if he originally intended on killing himself - taking the time to make a goodbye post on the net, but just went to work instead - really makes this whole ordeal rather ridiculous. Glad he's okay though.
yeah its a bit vague. I support quitting the internet wholly, but suicide is awfully sad.
I would rather be fooled a hundred times by people just looking for attention than skeptically dismiss one person who truly needs help.
Seriously? Read that OP again.
"I am depressed, my life is terrible, I quit," does not mean, "I am done posting on this message board."
Des, if you're reading this: I'm very happy you didn't go through with it. If you feel a little embarrassed about this thread now, don't. You hit a real low point. I think most of the more reasonable people on GAF understand this. And the reasonable people the only people whose opinions you should listen to, because who cares what unreasonable people think?
Despite what a lot of threads might have you think, GAF is full of people like you. Not everybody is a super popular socialite with an amazing sex life. Not everybody has a six digit income and can buy everything that comes along. I'm not saying that the people who say these things are lying. Just that the depressed, lonely, broke people are generally less likely to brag about it. But we are here. You're not alone.
I don't think there are many situations that you can't recover from. You just have to remember to take things one step at a time, as cliche as that is. Try to look at the things in your life that you don't like, and choose just one of them to focus on for now.
Take me, for example. I'm horribly overweight, no job, almost out of money, probably gonna get kicked out of my place soon because I haven't paid rent in a while, no girlfriend, no notable educational accomplishments to speak of.
But I'm taking things one at a time. A few years ago, I had "no friends" on that list. Now I have a good group of friends who I enjoy hanging out with every couple weekends. After that, I made a couple of attempts at tackling the "no job" thing, and while they didn't quite work out, I learned that I wasn't entirely worthless and unemployable. Now I'm trying to tackle my weight issue. Maybe I'll have to move back in with my parents again if I can't figure out how to make a bit of money in the meantime. That sucks, but hey. Sometimes you take steps backwards. That's life. I can try again later.
Please come back and let us know what's going on. And see a psychologist if you can. It helps, I promise. Even if he doesn't give you any life-changing advice, just having someone who you can bounce your thoughts and feelings off of occasionally is amazingly helpful. He might recommend you see a psychiatrist and possibly take medication. If you have insurance, see what it will cover. I know it can be expensive and you're broke, but your life is worth it. You only have one.
RiccochetJ
Gold Member
Me too my friend. Which is why I'm asking that you treat the junior with kid gloves instead of an outright ban.
Hero_of_the_Day
Member
Don't worry, I don't think KevinCow or I will be banning anyone.
Ether_Snake
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HiResDes has not posted again yet?
Well, if you are reading this, I'm glad to know you're reading this, and I can only say to not let go! Life is not easy, but we are often given the impression that we are in a much more precarious position than we really are. We have to realize that we have means to get better and happier, there are people who are there to help too.
I hope to see you drop a message soon
Well, if you are reading this, I'm glad to know you're reading this, and I can only say to not let go! Life is not easy, but we are often given the impression that we are in a much more precarious position than we really are. We have to realize that we have means to get better and happier, there are people who are there to help too.
I hope to see you drop a message soon
Vermillion
Banned
So now that things have calmed down... how did GAF get his number? Does that mean you could possibly get mine? Detective GAF is on some Batman-level shit. Still a good look, but... damn.
HiResDes has not posted again yet?
Well, if you are reading this, I'm glad to know you're reading this, and I can only say to not let go!
I hope to see you drop a message again
I guess he's really convicted on giving up Gaf for a while, which is hopefully is all he meant to give up.
RiccochetJ
Gold Member
I hope not! Unless the rules have changed!
Should have said, "getting a mod to"...
Could possibly get yours? My dear, Joker. It is already logged and on file inside of the Gaf, right between favorite color and first kiss.
AlternativeUlster
Absolutely pathetic part deux
If you need a place to stay near Austin, let me know. I can help you out. I've been in your situation before. The longest stint of being homeless was 2 months while waiting to get on a medical study. I recommend using couchsurfing.org while trying to get a job somewhere so you can sleep somewhere if you aren't around Austin. PM me if you need anything man.
NaturalHigh
Member
Yes. Joker's file is quite...interesting.
Vermillion
Banned
echoshifting
Banned
Privacy is a gaf gold privilege
I wish I had seen this earlier, I would've offered any help I could (but it seems like I wouldn't have got a reply). I just went though the thread... had sort of an eerie feeling the whole time. I'm glad that people were able to reach his mom and she was receptive/appreciative of the concern.
The Spoony Hou
Member
Jeez, man. Come show us you're ok.
Come on Des, life can't be that bad.
Come on Des, life can't be that bad.
This is what we call "thread shitting" and you won't be long for this world if you keep it up. If it don't interest you, move along.
Des, I didn't read past page 1, I'm going to be honest.
I hope you clarified what your stresses were and if you were simply taking time off from GAF. Please stay. Not only can GAF help you through hard times (I know it has for me in the past) but I fucking love you, bro.
Ever since you started posting on the Player 1 Podcast Forums, man. Since then. You're one of my favourite posters. You not only bring such a wealth of knowledge on a variety of topics, you're also a level-headed and funny dude.
Please stick around. If it's not in GAF (because you feel like it's hampering your success rather than encouraging it), stick around on the planet.
I hope you clarified what your stresses were and if you were simply taking time off from GAF. Please stay. Not only can GAF help you through hard times (I know it has for me in the past) but I fucking love you, bro.
Ever since you started posting on the Player 1 Podcast Forums, man. Since then. You're one of my favourite posters. You not only bring such a wealth of knowledge on a variety of topics, you're also a level-headed and funny dude.
Please stick around. If it's not in GAF (because you feel like it's hampering your success rather than encouraging it), stick around on the planet.
reptilescorpio
Member
Des! Just wanted to say I enjoy your posts. Hope things improve for you.
Read through the thread super quick. Big ups to everyone who called.
Des, whenever you're ready to talk, if you feel like it, we're here. You know this. I think it's amazing you went in to work -- the very next day -- after all that happened. That had to be tough. At the same time, it probably gave you lots of time to think about stuff, right?
Des, whenever you're ready to talk, if you feel like it, we're here. You know this. I think it's amazing you went in to work -- the very next day -- after all that happened. That had to be tough. At the same time, it probably gave you lots of time to think about stuff, right?
IrishNinja
Member
this is the best idea! i will bring hats.
HiResDes, you can't do anything like this. I sent you behind-the-ear headphone clips a few months back. For free. HEADPHONE CLIPS.
You can't leave them alone in this world. I gave them to you for a reason. You have the ability to carry on their legacy long after I'm gone, which could be soon. Maybe. But that's not the point. For all any of us know we all have one shot at this whole 'life' thing, so keep your chin up and push hard to change your reality. Some things like health may be impossible to overcome, but the rest can, and there's no reason to think about giving up now. You're young and you have FREE BEHIND-THE-EAR HEADPHONE CLIPS. Wear them proudly, and let them give you the confidence you need to a stronger, happier and healthy future.
Again, they were free. Don't make me feel like I threw money away.
You can't leave them alone in this world. I gave them to you for a reason. You have the ability to carry on their legacy long after I'm gone, which could be soon. Maybe. But that's not the point. For all any of us know we all have one shot at this whole 'life' thing, so keep your chin up and push hard to change your reality. Some things like health may be impossible to overcome, but the rest can, and there's no reason to think about giving up now. You're young and you have FREE BEHIND-THE-EAR HEADPHONE CLIPS. Wear them proudly, and let them give you the confidence you need to a stronger, happier and healthy future.
Again, they were free. Don't make me feel like I threw money away.
krypt0nian
Banned
scorcho, I love you.
Representing Junior Gaf.
Res appreciate your contributions to the Headphone Gaf. I wouldn't have myself some decent ATH -AD700s and use my ESW9 daily. I now live in a sea of sound not overridden with too much bass. Listening to older albums are a new experience for me.
So keep ya head up son!
Res appreciate your contributions to the Headphone Gaf. I wouldn't have myself some decent ATH -AD700s and use my ESW9 daily. I now live in a sea of sound not overridden with too much bass. Listening to older albums are a new experience for me.
So keep ya head up son!
blame space
Banned
it took all of my being not to make a thread called I JUST CAME TO SAY HELLO last night.
i hope you come back des we like you.
i hope you come back des we like you.
MiamiWesker
Member
Hey Hires its dvader654 from GS GGD. You have always been a respected regular throughout the community. I am so pleased to see the reaction by everyone here at gaf, I join in their support to please not do anything rash. You have a full life to look forward to with infinite possibilities.
Sweet post, but it seems you are suffering from health issues yourself? If so, I hope you are feeling better soon!
Good to hear! I´ll take my best wishes for your health back then, store them for a person in need
. I just got that impression because of the 'You have the ability to carry on their legacy long after I'm gone, which could be soon.' part. Glad you´re ok, and from Eric Walton´s posts it seems HiResDes is doing alright too, what a good day this is.- Status