Just finished the finale. I can't lie: I cried like a fucking baby.
Fuck.
The show was so good for so many reasons and I'm sure I'll have more thoughts when I can gather them.
While I understand some of the frustration with the middle seasons, I honestly think they were some of the realest. I think sometimes we can forget that if we really want art to imitate life...well...sometimes life is sad and ugly. As Kanye West said, "hated men marry hated bitches and have hated kids." Sometimes people marry the wrong people for the right reasons and it ends in disaster. Some people make horrible decisions and are stuck choosing between "fucking terrible" and "horrible" as their next steps. Some people never live their lives. And life goes on.
My appreciation for this series will likely only grow over time. It was beautiful in the way it deals with its struggles with pain. They always felt like genuine responses that normal people would do or go through. There were portions of each character I could identify with. In the end, it reminded me that life is full of pain, but we can't let it distract us from the beauty that is around us every day. Sure, the Fishers had their struggles...but they had their lives and each other, if nothing else. So long as you're alive, you always have a chance to be who you want to be...to be happy. It was a reminder to live. Something so many of us struggle with daily, whether it be fear or obligation or anger...we have to live. Time is so fleeting. Life, so fleeting. Love, so fleeting. Grab it while you can, GAF. Grab onto it tight.
Oh and that song at the end? Surely the fastest $0.69 sends I ever spent on iTunes.
Amazing series. HBO does nothing but hit them out of the park.