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VeritasVierge said:
No. This is bad advice. She doesn't want an asshole or have to wear the pants in the relationship. Why do guys always assume they need to be a "bad boy' or an "asshole" to be a man? They are not the same thing.
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I'm not saying be the asshole who treats her like dirt. I'm talking like Brian Austin Green bad!
 
I love when guys and girls say "we have similar interest/s"

fuck that no you don't. The only interest you really share is you both want to stick or get stuck with each others equipment.
 
Zeke said:
she already told she wants a guy thats the man in the relationship I'm thinking next time she is driving I should smack her with a sammich.
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If the internet has taught me anything, that means she wants to iron your shirt.
 
VeritasVierge said:
No. This is bad advice. She doesn't want an asshole or have to wear the pants in the relationship. Why do guys always assume they need to be a "bad boy' or an "asshole" to be a man? They are not the same thing.

Mandudechild, this woman sounds independent and assertive. It doesn't mean she has back ups lined up in case Zeke fails to keep her interest.
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Some women want that. Take my buddies ex for example. About a month after they broke up, they remained friends, so while at her house drinking she told us how her new by friend makes fun of her in public and hits her.... she told us she loves it.
 
VeritasVierge said:
She must have mental issues and aspires to be a battered wife.
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Maybe, but the point of my story is my buddy lost his girl of 3 years and is now a miserable drunk because he didn't act like a bad boy.

I'm just saying, different women want different things.
 
There was this blonde chick at my gym years ago that was a model. Smoking hot. I don't know if this is true or not, but supposedly she had a BF who threw her down the stairs and treated her like shit.......and she liked it.
 
batbeg said:
I was in a similar situation. The second I went on holiday the girl cheated on me with the guy that she claimed to have not been interested in :-\

But seriously, who cares, go for it!
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she probably told the guy you two were just 'talking'
 
I was talking to a coworker yesterday, a girl, who I like, a lot, but that's another story (le sigh).....and she was telling me about this guy in another department she hangs out with a lot. They're friends, but it's obvious he likes her and it makes her really uncomfortable. I asked her why and she said "he's way too nice", and "doesn't have a backbone". She went on to describe how she likes guys that, while not assholish, will be (jokingly) mean to her sometimes, call her out on her shit, not do absolutely everything she asks, etc. Stuff some guys may see as kinda "assholish" I guess. Also the exact way I've always been treating her, btw, and vice versa. We have fun working together. And she's an extremely intelligent, "strong and independent woman", so it's not like she's the type who loves abuse. But yeah, I think she likes just enough assholishness in a guy to balance out the asshole in her.

So, the whole "be an asshole", or "don't be an asshole" thing is vague and meaningless.


oh yeah, and OP...
So long story short last Friday I go to the bar with some co-workers everyone bails early so then its just her and I her friend and my friend. We’re all just hanging out playing pool and drinking. We start talking about interests we have seems we share a lot of the same. I start joking around asking so why aren’t you taken yet? She laughs and we keep talking I mention the same thing later on but ask are you sure you’re single?

She pulls me in close and kisses me to my surprise. Says she thinks I’m cute apparently she told some friends and cousin about me. Her friend had shown up to the bar for the sole purpose of checking me out and either approving or disapproving. She goes on say she’s “interested” in me. Asks me if I’m interested in her I say yea she smiles. So now according to her we’re “talking”

I didn’t expect any of this hell I thought she was into some other guy I ask her about it and she says no. They talk and joke around quite a bit. So now I can’t help but feel like I’m some type of competition with him. They joke around almost the same way we do so I feel like I’m getting mixed signals here thus feeling the way I do. What say Gaf am I getting mixed signals or am I over thinking this?

Also in before FHUTA!
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FYUTA. "Mixed signals" my fucking dick. I wish I was getting mixed signals like that.
 
soultron said:
Sounds like she's got more game than you. She's making all the moves. Take charge of the whole situation before she has you picking up her dry cleaning.
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Just don't let the homeless guy run off with the laundry. Then you'll really be fucked.
 
Ah, no, you're fine. I mean, if you went out and things didn't work out, she might fall onto this other guy you're talking about in maybe a week or two's time, but yeah, you're over-thinking it.
 
1) Girl kisses you
2) Girl says 'I like you'
3) Girls says guy you thought she was into isn't even on her radar
4) Girl says her best friend verifies your sexyness

=

mixed signals?

What should she do, pull your pants down and fellate you in front of the entire bar?
 
Sho_Nuff82 said:
What should she do, pull your pants down and fellate you in front of the entire bar?
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But there's also "this other guy". How can he know that she didn't do the same thing to him? What then, NeoGAF? What games is this girl playing? How can he know that she isn't in to him if she continues to communicate in any manner with other guys?
 
Sho_Nuff82 said:
1) Girl kisses you
2) Girl says 'I like you'
3) Girls says guy you thought she was into isn't even on her radar
4) Girl says her best friend verifies your sexyness

=

mixed signals?

What should she do, pull your pants down and fellate you in front of the entire bar?
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That's how they do it in the movies I watch.
 
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Zeke said:
So long story short last Friday I go to the bar with some co-workers everyone bails early so then its just her and I her friend and my friend. We’re all just hanging out playing pool and drinking. We start talking about interests we have seems we share a lot of the same. I start joking around asking so why aren’t you taken yet? She laughs and we keep talking I mention the same thing later on but ask are you sure you’re single?

She pulls me in close and kisses me to my surprise. Says she thinks I’m cute apparently she told some friends and cousin about me. Her friend had shown up to the bar for the sole purpose of checking me out and either approving or disapproving. She goes on say she’s “interested” in me. Asks me if I’m interested in her I say yea she smiles. So now according to her we’re “talking”

I didn’t expect any of this hell I thought she was into some other guy I ask her about it and she says no. They talk and joke around quite a bit. So now I can’t help but feel like I’m some type of competition with him. They joke around almost the same way we do so I feel like I’m getting mixed signals here thus feeling the way I do. What say Gaf am I getting mixed signals or am I over thinking this?

Also in before FHUTA!
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I'm not sure I understand the question. Everything appears to be fine.
 
Timedog said:
if you think about it too much and rationalize (like making this thread) you're in danger of losing it. If all fails and you end up thinking about it too much and end up getting nervous or psyching yourself out, just say "ok, i'm nervous, so what.", and you'll end up getting back into a comfortable state again. Don't turn gay out of spite for a stint if she ends up not liking you, if you truly are 100% straight, it will likely end up being the worst experience of your life. Don't put emphasis on any eventual outcome like dating or hooking up or whatever, and just have fun.

This sounds like my last girl age thread but with more win.
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I swear Timedog, we think alike when it comes to girl age dawg.
 
GAF,I* made out with a girl last week, FHUTA'd her everyday since then and she keeps telling me she loves me and wants to stay with me until the end of times.

Help me see through the mixed signals, GAF!

*aka some random nonexisting guy I just totally invented :(
 
Timedog is steering you in the right direction. I wouldn't say you're golden yet, but she's your's to lose. Speaking from personal experience I understand the rush you may feel from being the object of an attractive, aggressive, girl's affection. You've got to look past the 'she was after me' factor and ask yourself if you actually like the girl or if you are just attracted to the fact that she really digs you.

She's obviously attracted to the way you look, but the "your's to lose" part comes into play when she gets to know you. Be yourself and if she still seems to like you after finding out what the person behind the guy the that jacks off like clockwork at 6:31pm every evening after changing out of what he wore to work while she snapped shots of you from her friend's apartment across the walkway is really like, then you got yourself a keeper.

As for the other guy; he could be comp or just a male friend. I remember being in a similar situation where my g/f was a little too buddy-buddy with my best friend - a guy. He 'd screw around with her in a way that was just a little too familiar for my tastes. I confronted her about it and what she said was tantamount to he's in the 'friend zone' so I treat him differently than I would you. I wish I remembered her exact words, because they completely nullified any reservations I had about how close they were.

Of course if he's the competition, then... well... compete (if you really want her).
 
Zeke said:
So long story short last Friday I go to the bar with some co-workers everyone bails early so then its just her and I her friend and my friend. We’re all just hanging out playing pool and drinking. We start talking about interests we have seems we share a lot of the same. I start joking around asking so why aren’t you taken yet? She laughs and we keep talking I mention the same thing later on but ask are you sure you’re single?

She pulls me in close and kisses me to my surprise. Says she thinks I’m cute apparently she told some friends and cousin about me. Her friend had shown up to the bar for the sole purpose of checking me out and either approving or disapproving. She goes on say she’s “interested” in me. Asks me if I’m interested in her I say yea she smiles. So now according to her we’re “talking”

I didn’t expect any of this hell I thought she was into some other guy I ask her about it and she says no. They talk and joke around quite a bit. So now I can’t help but feel like I’m some type of competition with him. They joke around almost the same way we do so I feel like I’m getting mixed signals here thus feeling the way I do. What say Gaf am I getting mixed signals or am I over thinking this?

Also in before FHUTA!
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Could be good, but I think Venus was in Leo last Friday, not to mention Mercurys in retrograde, so ultimately you're fucked.
 
just be cool, and be yourself. ask her out on a date and see where it goes. don't consider that guy your competition, even if he is that'll just scramble your thoughts, focus on the girl.
 
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